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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got a message from a guy this morning, who listed himself as straight.
I asked him if he wanted to fuck me ?
He said ''no, I am not gay. I just want a blow job's
Eeeerm, hahaha.
That's not exactly straight  |
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We get similar posts from guys who identify as straight wanting to play with Mr, some who feel that as long as they don’t do the sucking or are top only then they are straight.
This leaves us feeling a bit conflicted though. One one hand people are free to identify as they see fit and who are we to judge. It may be that they just aren’t comfortable enough with their own sexuality to tick the bi/bi-curious box on their profile.
On the other hand it can be deliberate deceit in order to improve their chances with the people who don’t want to meet with bi men.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"We get similar posts from guys who identify as straight wanting to play with Mr, some who feel that as long as they don’t do the sucking or are top only then they are straight.
This leaves us feeling a bit conflicted though. One one hand people are free to identify as they see fit and who are we to judge. It may be that they just aren’t comfortable enough with their own sexuality to tick the bi/bi-curious box on their profile.
On the other hand it can be deliberate deceit in order to improve their chances with the people who don’t want to meet with bi men.
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I've replied to "straight" men that have contacted me in the past pointing that out - invariably if they respond it comes down to the "deceit" thing which is actually down to mis-perception on their part, as the people that won't meet bisexual men are in a minority in my experience. |
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"We get similar posts from guys who identify as straight wanting to play with Mr, some who feel that as long as they don’t do the sucking or are top only then they are straight.
This leaves us feeling a bit conflicted though. One one hand people are free to identify as they see fit and who are we to judge. It may be that they just aren’t comfortable enough with their own sexuality to tick the bi/bi-curious box on their profile.
On the other hand it can be deliberate deceit in order to improve their chances with the people who don’t want to meet with bi men.
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Im certain it's the latter too hence them wanting to keep it discrete or claiming that because I dress like a woman that it means they're attracted to my femininity which is bollocks.
They're after me because I have a penis and they don't give a damn that I have my own preferences which is not for a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see plenty women who play woth other women with straight listed on their profiles, yet it never seems an issue.
Is it due to the guys actively looking for it.
Or some deep routed acceptance that womens sexual orientation is more fluid?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me what they identify as.
And yes, I think it is to improve their chances with people who don't want to meet bi guys.
A lot of married men too, who are meeting trans, behind their wife's back..
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"I got a message from a guy this morning, who listed himself as straight.
I asked him if he wanted to fuck me ?
He said ''no, I am not gay. I just want a blow job's
Eeeerm, hahaha.
That's not exactly straight "
I get so many messages from gay and bi men asking do I want a blow job even though it say I’m straight on my profile, their response is normally so I get to suck off straight men all the time, well they can’t be straight then surely |
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"I got a message from a guy this morning, who listed himself as straight.
I asked him if he wanted to fuck me ?
He said ''no, I am not gay. I just want a blow job's
Eeeerm, hahaha.
That's not exactly straight
I get so many messages from gay and bi men asking do I want a blow job even though it say I’m straight on my profile, their response is normally so I get to suck off straight men all the time, well they can’t be straight then surely "
They're not...they have the ghey  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
They're certainly not straight. But if they can't admit that to themselves they certainly wouldn't admit it to others.
Which is a shame with fab being as diverse as it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am of the opinion they are just desperate for any sexual contact  "
I was chatting to a guy on here a while ago.He would tell me stupid jokes and moan about how he couldt get a meet.He seemed nice enough as a person but then became very homophobic.I did stop talking to him as he said a hate filled rant about gay and bi people.Having gay friends and being bi myself I took offence to that and just didn't bother to message him back.
Months later he contacted me again just to say hello.I looked at his new pictures and noticed he had 2 verifications off men.I asked him about them and he said he was sexually frustrated and meet up with them just for sex but it ment nothing and he really needed sex with anything.
Errrrrmmmmmm hang on isnt that bi/gay the very thing he was insulting.Anyway I agree with the comment above that some of them do it out of sexual frustration or for sexual contact or there just in denial x |
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"I got a message from a guy this morning, who listed himself as straight.
I asked him if he wanted to fuck me ?
He said ''no, I am not gay. I just want a blow job's
Eeeerm, hahaha.
That's not exactly straight "
The man is a fool. Both because he thinks that a blowjob still means he is straight, and because he doesn't want to fuck you. I know that I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, they do it cos it works for them
Many a gay guy will meet solely to suck a straight bloke off
Just see the amount of profiles asking for just that
OK, they can't be 100% straight, but it's Fab, so why let reality get in the way of fantasy? |
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