"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "
Im sure they will spot you soon enough with your many face pics & if they want to get in touch they will  |
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"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "
Depends on if you would like anything to happen with them and are fine with them knowing you are on here.
If you’re interested in them then be completely open about who you are and that you value discretion, also be respectful. Then take your cue from what response you get (remember that no response is still a response!)
If you’re not interested then simply ignore their profile
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over a year ago
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Nah...leave them alone.
If they're local, they'll see you and get in touch if they're interested.
You'll just look like a creepy stalker type if you do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m going to go with a cold hard no on that one.
You’ve said it yourself that they are very private, I can’t imagine it would go down well if you did. "
I agree with this
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over a year ago
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"So I have just found a couple I know in real life on here. I know they are a very private couple but should I say hello to them on here "
If they have public face pics then say hello. |
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If you do decide to contact them amd they don't have any face pics then you could play it that you had no idea it was them but do keep in mind that it could be seen as deceitful and it may well explode in your face.
Your call OP but it does appear that the majority would see it as a bad thing. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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If as a result of sending a message you get blocked OP then you will have your answer. However is that going to help. ? Better to let them find you by posting updates that pop up on their Updates tab. |
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. We said hi and it's now like a sexy secret club we are all part of even though we haven't played with any of them 
