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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have noticed alot of the time, people judge people based upon who is on their friends list, i.e a male that has a TV on their friends list cant possibly be straight because they are friends with a TV or friends with a bi guy etc.

so i ask.. does being friends with someone on here automatically mean you have or want to have slept with them?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

no, I have very few on my friends list and even fewer I have slept with.

I really am not turned on by the whole friends thing on here, I think that comes from the fact that I have little time for facebook, or twitter..

too much emphasis is often placed on thinking 'how many friends do I have or hotlists do I appear on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't even look at others friends lists.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

No I havent had sex with them all, but I have met them all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Goog grief, half of my verifications are from parties. I would never judge someone on who they have as friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t use the friend list function as it serves no purpose regards my reasons for being on the site…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I elected not to show mine from Day 1.

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

One area I always ignore... much like verifications.

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"I have noticed alot of the time, people judge people based upon who is on their friends list, i.e a male that has a TV on their friends list cant possibly be straight because they are friends with a TV or friends with a bi guy etc.

so i ask.. does being friends with someone on here automatically mean you have or want to have slept with them? "

I had this issue occur shortly after I joined here a few yeara ago when I had a TV friend of mine listed.

He was simply a literal friend of mine who was seeking another outlet to meet people - that was it. Shortly after being on here, he found someone and had no need to remain here.

But in that short time, I hit prejudice from people who automatically assumed that I couldn't be straight as I stated on my Profile and that I was being hypocritical.

Not my problem! It was theirs!

It makes not one jot who my friends are! I judge the person for who they are, not who their friends, contacts and acquaintancies are!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no friends

full stop.