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By *os19 OP Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man. |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."
go in next time shes at work,and find out where the others are,  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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The answer is to ask, you can do it in a non sexual way.
If the answer is negative, apologies would be in order.
If she responds positive, explore options.
Don’t let people’s projection of themselves stop an exploration of what could be a stunning, fun relationship.
Nay, nay and thrice nay never won a heart... or other things.  |
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over a year ago
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I would say to ask her if she liked them sucked whilst she was at work was just gross behaviour.
It was innapropriate and you put her on the spot, she had 2 choices, to tell you to leave then have the embarrassment of re-running the conversation to her boss or to giggle/blush and respond the best she could whilst dying inside.
As someone who was raised in pubs and managed on, I know the type of customer you appear to be and hitting on her will not bag you a date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say to ask her if she liked them sucked whilst she was at work was just gross behaviour.
It was innapropriate and you put her on the spot, she had 2 choices, to tell you to leave then have the embarrassment of re-running the conversation to her boss or to giggle/blush and respond the best she could whilst dying inside.
As someone who was raised in pubs and managed on, I know the type of customer you appear to be and hitting on her will not bag you a date"
This was the point I was trying to make in a bloke way  |
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"The answer is to ask, you can do it in a non sexual way.
If the answer is negative, apologies would be in order.
If she responds positive, explore options.
Don’t let people’s projection of themselves stop an exploration of what could be a stunning, fun relationship.
Nay, nay and thrice nay never won a heart... or other things. "
Hear hear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bet you £1 it’s fake story. Unless you are hypo notist she would never mentioned or talk about her nipples in a betting shop, unless she lost a bet ???? |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."
Up to the point where you mentioned sucking it could have just been banter.
The sucking comment was inappropriate and crossed the line into pervy old man territory.
In my opinion. |
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She said she had piercings and you pushed for the rest.
She said she was blushing ( which means embarrassed not hot for you )
Is it okay in a bookies or a pub to harass the staff sexually ? You'd be barred elsewhere.
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By *os19 OP Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week. |
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over a year ago
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
You are a grown up man or not? |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
Go in and say , 'Sorry for asking about sucking your tits. How fat is your labia though ?'
£1 each way please......... Ooooooo I said each way ...... ahahahahahahahaha im so naughty. |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
Go in, apologise for overstepping the mark, don't take a card.
She's working in a job where she's required to be nice to the punters don't make it more difficult for her.
If she is interested in you she will make that clear when you apologise. |
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If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.
A) you'd not be welcome back in again
B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.
Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.
For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.
Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.
You overstepped the mark big time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot! 
Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants
You a grown up man or not? "
Oh sorry, you should have come earlier! That one was for you but then again you prob don’t wear pants |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.
A) you'd not be welcome back in again
B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.
Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.
For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.
Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.
You overstepped the mark big time."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!
Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants "
Thank fuck it's not my real name then..... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week.
I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!
Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants
Thank fuck it's not my real name then.....
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It’s a good game thought |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
So creepy creepy creepy creepy creepy.
I’m cringing for the poor ‘young’ woman.
Wholly inappropriate.
Not gentlemanly.
Treating her like she’s a piece of meat.
My advice is change bookies. |
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"This made me chuckle! Some of the replies made me chuckle harder. This site makes me chuckle a lot!
Yeah your username rythm with piss his pants
You a grown up man or not?
Oh sorry, you should have come earlier! That one was for you but then again you prob don’t wear pants "
Don't hijack the thread please |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
Doesn’t matter if you thought you “got on” with her, it’s never ok to speak like that to a woman you hardly know, and it’s never ok to hit on or otherwise be inappropriate to someone when they’re at work and cam’t get away/have to be polite. Don’t go and bother her again, she most likely doesn’t want to have to deal with you again. |
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week."
Dont go in at all
Ladbrokes has enough money
Donate to charity instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well it looks like I am dirty old man.Just to say she started work at that shop in February so a month before the first lockdown we had chatted before about about various things and have always got on.When I asked where the other two piercings were I half expected her to say none of your business or ignore the question not say on my nipples that doesn’t excuse what I said next and I probably overstepped the banter line.So do I go in and apologise , do I go in and act like nothing has happened and take the Christmas card I have for her , do I not go in for a week.
I would just not mention it again. Just leave it alone, draw a line under it and move on "
Dont put her through more embarrassment by mentioning it again |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"Who fucking says that to someone they don’t know, at work!!!!!
Yeah it’s pervy.... it’s also bang out of order, disrespectful and quite toe curlingly revolting.
Just my opinion.
V x "
Ask her for a beer if a pub is open and go from there ... lol... you will soon find out ... simples
If she turns up
If not ... u got ur answer |
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"Who fucking says that to someone they don’t know, at work!!!!!
Yeah it’s pervy.... it’s also bang out of order, disrespectful and quite toe curlingly revolting.
Just my opinion.
V x
Ask her for a beer if a pub is open and go from there ... lol... you will soon find out ... simples
If she turns up
If not ... u got ur answer"
No. Don't. It's utterly inappropriate already. |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know...... |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......"
I think OP embarrassed her enough. She will probably have had a laugh about him being a right dirty old perverted man to her colleague when he left. However I think she was also inappropriate discussing such a topic. If my Assistant did that with a client I would take a very dim view. |
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"If you'd have asked me how it felt to get my nipples sucked whilst I was at work doing my job.
A) you'd not be welcome back in again
B) you'd be thanking social distancing for me not being able to throw you out personally.
Highly inappropriate and really fucking creepy.
For people in customer facing jobs, smalltalk and pleasantries are part and parcel.
Some people you let get away with a little bit more coz you know you may be the only human they speak to that week/month.
You overstepped the mark big time."
This |
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over a year ago
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man."
I think your using the term "dirty old man" in a jokey way but that lady was at work and maybe be scared of what you said to her...dont think you were a dirty old man I actually think what you did was bang out of order |
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Just because she told you she has nipple piercings doesn’t mean she’s telling you something she shouldn’t. Maybe she’s loud and proud about them and doesn’t care who knows? Doesn’t mean it was an invite |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......"
Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone. |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......
Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone. "
She did say the feeling was sensational when being sucked. I’m now thinking she was winding OP up and he wasn’t acting like a gentleman, talk of chancing him arm because of her reply. I think OP is far too used to talking sex on here and forgets about the outside works where diplomacy should be practised. |
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over a year ago
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"Just because she told you she has nipple piercings doesn’t mean she’s telling you something she shouldn’t. Maybe she’s loud and proud about them and doesn’t care who knows? Doesn’t mean it was an invite"
I find most people with nipple rings are very open about it but still I think she was just playing with you....no harm no foul |
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......
Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone. "
Perhaps she looks quite innocent, but during their chat he guessed she was much more naughty underneath, and as she responded (seemingly) positively, being the sorted, confident, single and despicably filthy gent the OP is, he went with the flow....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cringey at best.
Frankly I'd be disgusted if some random bloke spoke to me like that in any situation, let alone whilst I'm working.
Please don't do that again OP!
Sexual harassment is never ok.
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"Today at Ladbrokes I was talking to the young lady behind the counter.She mentioned she will be 30 next year.Some how the conversation got onto tattoos.She mention she had 12 tattoos and 5 piercings I could see three of the piercings and I asked where the other two were.She said her nipples when I asked what does it feel like when they are been sucked she said sensational then said I was making her blush. I am thinking chancing my arm to see if I can arrange some for after Covid19 or am I be coming a dirty old man.
Your conversation seemed to be going well, and if she thought of you as a dirty old man, I’m sure she would have told you so. I would just be friendly again next time you’re in there, and ask if she thought you were being inappropriate. You never know......
Is this really what men think?! That the recipients of their attention should TELL them. Oh lord. You guys need to read up on consent. ENTHUSIASM readers. There was nothing enthusiastic in the reaction in woman gave in the telling of the story. So either it wasn’t told well or ..... accept responsibility, recognise that the attention wasn’t welcome and leave her alone.
She did say the feeling was sensational when being sucked. I’m now thinking she was winding OP up and he wasn’t acting like a gentleman, talk of chancing him arm because of her reply. I think OP is far too used to talking sex on here and forgets about the outside works where diplomacy should be practised. "
Just read back my comment and I apologise to anyone who has taken it wrong. The written word is hard to be made understood. Diplomacy should be also practised on Fab, we are all human adults and deserve some respect. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.
For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.
OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better. |
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"Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.
For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.
OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better."
Reading the OPs own comments it’s confirmed my perception of bookies. They are full of dirty old men and young women encouraging them! So unprofessional! My father always warned me how bad these places are. OP thank you for proving him right. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Without knowing exactly how the conversation went and what tone and body language was used it is difficult to say.
For those shouting the OP down I read it as six of one and half a dozen of the other. If he is being inappropriate then so was she by volunteering the information that she had tatoos and piercing in the first place.
OP if you think she was genuine then next time you are in approach her again and be polite and ask her out for a drink. I would suggest steering away from nipple sucking and such conversations until such time as she accept the invite and you know her a bit better.
Reading the OPs own comments it’s confirmed my perception of bookies. They are full of dirty old men and young women encouraging them! So unprofessional! My father always warned me how bad these places are. OP thank you for proving him right. "
Not going to disagree with you there I only go in them once a year on Grand National day and they always strike me as depressing places. |
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By *os19 OP Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
After reading the various comments I decided this morning that I would go back to the Ladbrokes and place my bet as normal.I went over just after 11.00 we had a quick chat and she mentioned she was working to 8.30 pm but off tomorrow.I went back just before 1.00 to grab a weekend football coupon and we got chatting as normal she mentioned one of her female colleagues and how her colleague batted for the other side which I already knew but I said nothing this time.I then mentioned to her about what she had said yesterday and what I had said back and offered a apology I was then somewhat surprised when she said I had not upset or offended her and as far as she was concerned there was nothing to apologise for. I mentioned to her that at work I won a small bottle of wine and she could have it if she wanted since I couldn’t take her out for a drink by way of a proper apology.She mentioned she is very family oriented and didn’t go out much.As she is not upset or offended I think I wait until Covid19 clears up and we get some sort of normality and I ask her if she fancy that drink.For for the record betting shops in London are open but not showing the racing but have radio commentary and this is not a fantasy as one or two seem to think it is.I appreciate that I didn’t come out of it very well nor did expect too but I didn’t think it would be this brutal.Thank you to everyone that has contributed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP lives in London
London tier 2
Don't believe bookies are even open?
Apologise if wrong or repeating someone (not read the whole thread)"
Bookies are open in tier 3  |
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"Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario. "
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"What would Prince Andrew do in this situation?
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As she is old enough to work in a bookies he'd probably ask if she had a younger sister.
Why are people giving the OP a hard time? If she hadn't wanted him to ask where thye tatts/piercings were she wouldn't have mentioned them.
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Haha the amount of people in here stanning for a woman who brings up her nipples in a work conversation.
If she didn't want to talk about her nipples, she wouldn't have brought it up.
It's amazing how if men actually listened to the advice women gave them on how to garner female interest there would be a lot of lonely women out there.
As for you OP, hard to say how far you can take this one but definitely worth a punt if you pardon the pun. Engage her in more similar conversations and see where it goes, seems likely to me you have probably passed her physical tests but whether you can pass the charm test is up to you. |
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"After reading the various comments I decided this morning that I would go back to the Ladbrokes and place my bet as normal.I went over just after 11.00 we had a quick chat and she mentioned she was working to 8.30 pm but off tomorrow.I went back just before 1.00 to grab a weekend football coupon and we got chatting as normal she mentioned one of her female colleagues and how her colleague batted for the other side which I already knew but I said nothing this time.I then mentioned to her about what she had said yesterday and what I had said back and offered a apology I was then somewhat surprised when she said I had not upset or offended her and as far as she was concerned there was nothing to apologise for. I mentioned to her that at work I won a small bottle of wine and she could have it if she wanted since I couldn’t take her out for a drink by way of a proper apology.She mentioned she is very family oriented and didn’t go out much.As she is not upset or offended I think I wait until Covid19 clears up and we get some sort of normality and I ask her if she fancy that drink.For for the record betting shops in London are open but not showing the racing but have radio commentary and this is not a fantasy as one or two seem to think it is.I appreciate that I didn’t come out of it very well nor did expect too but I didn’t think it would be this brutal.Thank you to everyone that has contributed."
Your call bud, but no way Covid is going to be over before the heat goes out of this and she forgets you exist.
It's soon or never, that's how these things work. |
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By *icentiousCouple
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This is so amusing.
One thing I will point out OP, you did yourself no favours by giving the presupposition of “dirty old man”.
That and how some project what a betting shop is and its clientele.
Nothing better than oil to fire up some people’s opinions.
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"Only thing you did wrong dude was not trying to get her number, all sounds like a bit of harmless flirting to me. And I imagine all the responses above would be very different if the male and female roles were reversed in that scenario. "
Not from me it wouldn’t, creeping on someone who’s at work is inappropriate whatever the genders. |
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"Haha the amount of people in here stanning for a woman who brings up her nipples in a work conversation.
If she didn't want to talk about her nipples, she wouldn't have brought it up.
It's amazing how if men actually listened to the advice women gave them on how to garner female interest there would be a lot of lonely women out there.
As for you OP, hard to say how far you can take this one but definitely worth a punt if you pardon the pun. Engage her in more similar conversations and see where it goes, seems likely to me you have probably passed her physical tests but whether you can pass the charm test is up to you. "
Wise words |
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