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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She quit on the same day as the final of her bands tv show
She announced she was quitting while they were performing on strictly
She hasn’t quit social media or insta which is where the bullying was.
She knows this will gain her a lot of press and a probable singles career.
There are people with geniune issues and need help. Personally get a funny feeling about her and I don’t believe it.
However I would like to throat fuck her  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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She has mental health issues. If the lass has had enough then all the best to her. Can’t have been an easy decision, but it’s one she had the balls to make.
Good on her. I wish her all the very best.
And I hope the arseholes who troll her online fall down a wishing well and lose internet connection, permanently!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She quit on the same day as the final of her bands tv show
She announced she was quitting while they were performing on strictly
She hasn’t quit social media or insta which is where the bullying was.
She knows this will gain her a lot of press and a probable singles career.
There are people with geniune issues and need help. Personally get a funny feeling about her and I don’t believe it.
However I would like to throat fuck her "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of famous people suffer from mental health issues. Some don’t always see a way out and pay the ultimate price for it.
I don’t think waking away is ridiculous at all"
It was her choice to compete and ultimately win/lose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of famous people suffer from mental health issues. Some don’t always see a way out and pay the ultimate price for it.
I don’t think waking away is ridiculous at all
It was her choice to compete and ultimately win/lose "
And it's her choice to leave... not sure what the issue is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Main stream music has been dead for quite some time
But with the like off
Alignment
charlotte de witte
Amelie Lens
diamante
Mike shanoda who just done a full album with fans during lock down on a live stream
Tommee profitt
Music is alive and kicking
So meny others I could go in to but would be hear for day
YouTube has open a lot to up and comes and such
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead "
Your such an oldie.
It’s just as much work now to make it in the music industry , just different. Talent shows aren't new, and spotters look online instead of in pubs. Lots of old band gave up too. Go burn some coal and eat a lard sandwich |
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"Lots of famous people suffer from mental health issues. Some don’t always see a way out and pay the ultimate price for it.
I don’t think waking away is ridiculous at all
It was her choice to compete and ultimately win/lose "
It’s also her choice to leave.
Surely all musicians made the choice to make it in the industry. Some step back.
What is ridiculous about it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry. "
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on? |
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry.
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on?"
Social media ca be, and is, addictive.
Also, why should should she have to remove her SM?
I don’t understand the criticism for her needing to step back from work because her mental health is shot to shit. You wouldn’t be saying the same if she had a different illness that meant she was unable to work, so why do it with mental health?
She is ill. She is too ill too work. End of discussion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead "
So are you against her music or against a female who has mental health issues and as left a band which made her rich and so she should pay that money back? How does her leaving little mix affect you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry.
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on?"
Well they definitely don’t have to do it but given the opportunity who wouldn’t? Most of these kids have grown up in the age of social media where being on love island is an actual career aspiration!
I’m guessing the social media thing will be steered my her management who will be telling her she needs to keep them open for the future so she can go back to work when she’s well. In reality these management companies are parasites who should do more to protect these kids instead of milking them dry.
I agree more should be done about the trolls etc. |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead "
I think you need to put her shoes on and go for a long walk.
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"She quit on the same day as the final of her bands tv show
She announced she was quitting while they were performing on strictly
She hasn’t quit social media or insta which is where the bullying was.
She knows this will gain her a lot of press and a probable singles career.
There are people with geniune issues and need help. Personally get a funny feeling about her and I don’t believe it.
However I would like to throat fuck her "
That last comment wasnt necessary! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry.
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on?
Well they definitely don’t have to do it but given the opportunity who wouldn’t? Most of these kids have grown up in the age of social media where being on love island is an actual career aspiration!
I’m guessing the social media thing will be steered my her management who will be telling her she needs to keep them open for the future so she can go back to work when she’s well. In reality these management companies are parasites who should do more to protect these kids instead of milking them dry.
I agree more should be done about the trolls etc."
On that programme I mentioned she said she had to join those sites at the beginning of Little Mix by their management.
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I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry.
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on?
Well they definitely don’t have to do it but given the opportunity who wouldn’t? Most of these kids have grown up in the age of social media where being on love island is an actual career aspiration!
I’m guessing the social media thing will be steered my her management who will be telling her she needs to keep them open for the future so she can go back to work when she’s well. In reality these management companies are parasites who should do more to protect these kids instead of milking them dry.
I agree more should be done about the trolls etc.
On that programme I mentioned she said she had to join those sites at the beginning of Little Mix by their management.
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Doesn’t surprise me. All up and coming pop stars, footballers, actors are told the same. It’s to promote ‘their brand’. Trouble is very few are given advice on managing it and how to handle the negatives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department. "
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life. |
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life."
Social media is actually pretty important for various industries. I have to rely on my social media platforms for work.
Times are changing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life.
Social media is actually pretty important for various industries. I have to rely on my social media platforms for work.
Times are changing."
For work, yes, private life, no! |
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life.
Social media is actually pretty important for various industries. I have to rely on my social media platforms for work.
Times are changing.
For work, yes, private life, no!"
Her social media platforms will also be work related. I imagine she, like many other celebrities, have separate private accounts. |
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"Celebrities aren’t in the real world she talks about the pressure of fame try struggling to feed your family!!"
We all have our own problems that are significant for us... Some have life or death situations and deal with them like a bump in the road, some have too much pressure from social media and can't cope. It's human to be fragile. I dont know her , or her band, I don't know social media, I generally hate celebrity culture but equally mental / emotional wellbeing issues don't discriminate. If she needs time out to get better... I wish her a speedy recovery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life.
Social media is actually pretty important for various industries. I have to rely on my social media platforms for work.
Times are changing.
For work, yes, private life, no!
Her social media platforms will also be work related. I imagine she, like many other celebrities, have separate private accounts. "
As I said, work yes, private life, no. As you've probably guessed I know very little about social media and care even less but surely if you wanted then only people you want to contact you can only do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She has said that the fame has "taken a toll on her mental health" so she left. That's fair enough, but the cynic in me says there will be a solo career in the offing. Who wants to bet on how long before a solo single comes out? |
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life.
Social media is actually pretty important for various industries. I have to rely on my social media platforms for work.
Times are changing.
For work, yes, private life, no!
Her social media platforms will also be work related. I imagine she, like many other celebrities, have separate private accounts.
As I said, work yes, private life, no. As you've probably guessed I know very little about social media and care even less but surely if you wanted then only people you want to contact you can only do so."
And as I said, her social media will be work related. Which is where she was having the problems.
She at be tied into her social media platforms by contract, and if she wants to continue to work she will still need a social media presence. |
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"I don't think the answer yo bullying on social media is to leave and allow the bullies to remain.
I also think we have a very long way to go in the empathy towards people with mental health issues department.
I genuinely agree but, according to her herself,she joined only because she was told slto by Little Mix management. In her case I'd say it's nothing to do with the bullies winning surely her mental health and wellbeing is far more important.
It might be a generational thing but I don't believe anybody needs to be on social media to get through life."
I don't know the answer to that and I also agree that her mental health and well being are paramount.
Our son was badly bullied at school. I would have had him out of school in an instant but it would have meant him being deprived of all the social and educational benefits that school brought him. We didn't want him to lose out because of someone else's behaviour. I tend to feel the same about social media bullying. Don't make it the victims responsibility. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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As mentioned above, Her social media for the public account she has is probably run by management now anyway, and she probably has online advertising contracts to honour and they would want it done on Social Media as it has a wide audience.
She probably has her own personal Instagram that is “hidden” from fans etc and is just for close family/friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead
So are you against her music or against a female who has mental health issues and as left a band which made her rich and so she should pay that money back? How does her leaving little mix affect you?"
Spoken like a true manc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bit harsh. I don’t know her, I’m not a fan of her music and I doubt we’d have anything to talk about but I do feel for her and other young pop stars.
Yes they want to be famous and make a shit load of money. They definitely do that, but that world is brutal. Nothing can prepare an 18 year old kid for the world they are entering.
Most ‘proper bands’ that I follow have worked their way up so can gradually acclimatise to the fame and aren’t ridiculed for how they look. These kids from X factor etc are chucked in the deep end by management and then hung out to dry.
All true but they don't have to, do they?
If it's true, that she's remained on the various social media forums where the bullying occurred, I find that bizarre.
I watched her programme about the abuse she was getting and it obviously caused her mental issues by those vile trolls but why remain on?
Well they definitely don’t have to do it but given the opportunity who wouldn’t? Most of these kids have grown up in the age of social media where being on love island is an actual career aspiration!
I’m guessing the social media thing will be steered my her management who will be telling her she needs to keep them open for the future so she can go back to work when she’s well. In reality these management companies are parasites who should do more to protect these kids instead of milking them dry.
I agree more should be done about the trolls etc.
On that programme I mentioned she said she had to join those sites at the beginning of Little Mix by their management.
And if you believe that .......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead
I think you need to put her shoes on and go for a long walk.
I couldn’t possibly
Too small
Too high
My ankles would suffer ( not from mental health )
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Her off Love Island on the Full Monty on Ice last night was moaning about STILL getting trolled on her social media accounts "after all this time it still goes on she said"
Well come off social media sites then luv ffs  |
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"She has mental health issues. If the lass has had enough then all the best to her. Can’t have been an easy decision, but it’s one she had the balls to make.
Good on her. I wish her all the very best.
And I hope the arseholes who troll her online fall down a wishing well and lose internet connection, permanently!! "
Totally agree
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"She has said that the fame has "taken a toll on her mental health" so she left. That's fair enough, but the cynic in me says there will be a solo career in the offing. Who wants to bet on how long before a solo single comes out?"
And the book and the dvd and the exercise book and the baking book and the diet book and the wellness book and so on...
The public gets what the public wants... |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead
I think you need to put her shoes on and go for a long walk.
E"
Also, I don't know her, I don't have any idea of what fills her day. Neither do I know anything about the industry she works in, or it's associated pressures.
Because of this, I'm unable to comment on her situation, and particularly in a negative context, not am I able to judge.
Wishing her good mental health, as I would anyone suffering.
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"As mentioned above, Her social media for the public account she has is probably run by management now anyway, and she probably has online advertising contracts to honour and they would want it done on Social Media as it has a wide audience.
She probably has her own personal Instagram that is “hidden” from fans etc and is just for close family/friends."
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I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls. |
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I do t even know why a thread has been opened up about her
Loads of others have gone through the same thing and been left alone
Why have so many people been trolling her
She’s a lovely girl and can sing well
She will be sadly missed in the band
Good luck for the future Jessy luv
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls."
Mic drop.
What Peach said.
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"I know nothing about her apart from a piece i saw on facebook.
Why all the negativity to someone with mental health problems.
Soon forgot about carolyn flack"
Social media has a lot to answer for |
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"I'd if thought someone of your age OP could show a little more empathy towards a young woman who has been the target of online bullies for quite some time.
She needs time out, so what? "
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"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead "
what have any of your comments got to do with with each other?
Music is dead?...no, it's changed, just like the genration before you had said when your favorite bands came along and killed it.
Many of your favorite band had thier own problems, many mental health based too.
Yes, musicians have many routes to fame anf fortune available to them but just like any commercial venture, they are paid for by those who are happy they exist. The fast track is the double edged swoard for some and some simply don't want, won't or can't be in it for longer than the time they're given.
but please, flaming someone for getting it too easily and not making music that speaks to or for you - then disparaging them for not sticking around for long becsause they are having is tough time is the very sadest reason to raise a point I can imagine.
Please, Just, put your stones away and think about something else.
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"I'd if thought someone of your age OP could show a little more empathy towards a young woman who has been the target of online bullies for quite some time.
She needs time out, so what?
Watch this space for the book
Exclusive in the paper
Solo career "
And what?
Seriously, and what?
Have you had the same job since leaving school? Have you never changed job role, title, company?
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"I'd if thought someone of your age OP could show a little more empathy towards a young woman who has been the target of online bullies for quite some time.
She needs time out, so what?
Watch this space for the book
Exclusive in the paper
Solo career "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls."
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me "
Trolls have a lack of empathy, a failure to understand or care about the impact their cuntish behaviour has on other people.
They cause hurt, then revel in it.
All the time hiding behind keyboard, like the cowardly scum they are.
Lack of empathy. Just saying.
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me "
I didn't contact you, never have.
I replied on an open thread, to the main body of the thread taking into account comments from multiple contributors.
If you're gonna attempt to make me look bad, at least do it with the truth. |
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me
I didn't contact you, never have.
I replied on an open thread, to the main body of the thread taking into account comments from multiple contributors.
If you're gonna attempt to make me look bad, at least do it with the truth."
Just clicked your profile to double check. YOU mailed ME one week ago, again, I've never spoken to, or contacted you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me
Trolls have a lack of empathy, a failure to understand or care about the impact their cuntish behaviour has on other people.
They cause hurt, then revel in it.
All the time hiding behind keyboard, like the cowardly scum they are.
Lack of empathy. Just saying.
Who have I hurt
I doubt she’s reading this
And there it is again
Trolls personal attack
I’ve not attacked her personally
Trolls also cannot disagree without throwing insults
#just saying
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me
I didn't contact you, never have.
I replied on an open thread, to the main body of the thread taking into account comments from multiple contributors.
If you're gonna attempt to make me look bad, at least do it with the truth.
Just clicked your profile to double check. YOU mailed ME one week ago, again, I've never spoken to, or contacted you.
You attacked me here
Called me a troll
So........
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"I got into a relationship many moons ago, first 3 years were sound, last 8 were abusive.
Eventually I found the courage to leave.
Should I have remained in that situation that was taking a toll on my mental and physical health because I chose to get into it in the first place, not knowing the outcome?
Should I have behaved like a good little wifey and continued down that path like women back in the day when women did what they were told?
I don't fucking think so.
Even if she does have a solo career out of it so what? She may be in more control that way. She will know the things that she struggles with being in a band and hopefully be able to avoid them as a solo artist.
She could make music from a safe place for her. Not all artists tour, not all artists live for social media.
Give her a break, you're no better than the trolls.
Look no further that here if you want trolls
A troll contacts someone and makes personal insults
I’ve just posted a discussion point
Who’s the troll Mrs
You personally attacked me
Oh poor me
I didn't contact you, never have.
I replied on an open thread, to the main body of the thread taking into account comments from multiple contributors.
If you're gonna attempt to make me look bad, at least do it with the truth.
Just clicked your profile to double check. YOU mailed ME one week ago, again, I've never spoken to, or contacted you.
You attacked me here
Called me a troll
So........
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Did I?
I personally called you personally a troll?
OK.
I was talking to a wider audience, as in those reading who have the opinion that it's a publicity stunt, that she chose that path so tough.
"You're" encapsulates that group of people.
If I was talking to you personally and calling you a troll, I'd have absolutely quoted you, to reply to you personally, and I wouldn't have used the words "no better than" I'd have outright claimed you were one. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd if thought someone of your age OP could show a little more empathy towards a young woman who has been the target of online bullies for quite some time.
She needs time out, so what?
Watch this space for the book
Exclusive in the paper
Solo career "
So what if she writes a book. She might be able to help others who have suffered with mental health which might include rather a lot of young girls who look up to people like her.
Of course the papers will want an exclusive ~ Its 2020
Solo career ~ and? Many have done so before.
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"When you break it down simply it’s this. Person leaves her job because she doesn’t like it anymore.
A situation played out across the world daily.
Good luck to her. "
Good luck indeed. I wish her well in which ever path she chooses to follow.x |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"So Jessie from little mix can’t cope and is leaving the ‘band’
Did she take part in a talent show to gain fame ans fortune in the quickest way possible, not having to pay any dues playing shit holes for no money.
Being a rocker who’s favourite bands are either dead or still going after 40 years, I find it ridiculous that this is the situation
One direction lasted 5 years ‘ too much pressure ‘
Music is dead "
This would make me laugh if it was not sad, how many indie/ alt rockers have died or been seriously burned from drugs and excess due to the pressure of the business. How many othere are still touring for love of music rather than having to pay the tax man, the ex- partner or the kids rehab bills.
We won't mention Amy Winehouse one of the great talents of recent times. R.I.P.
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"When you break it down simply it’s this. Person leaves her job because she doesn’t like it anymore.
A situation played out across the world daily.
Good luck to her. "
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"All these girl bands look like a bunch of clones to me. They can just replace her with somebody who looks exactly the same. Luke "
No. Jesse is distinctive in every way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she has left because of the pressure of fame ,why has she talked about becoming a solo artist? Wouldn’t the pressure be more being in your own rather than as a group , I think there is more to this than we are being told |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If she has left because of the pressure of fame ,why has she talked about becoming a solo artist? Wouldn’t the pressure be more being in your own rather than as a group , I think there is more to this than we are being told "
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is like the Lewis Hamilton threads - lets make unpleasant personal judgements about people we dont know.
Lots of people have mental health issues....lots of people are ambitious and want success.....and a lot of people fund that success -whether it be a promotion or becoming famous - brings a lot more pressure than they ever envisioned.
Give her a break. |
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"This is like the Lewis Hamilton threads - lets make unpleasant personal judgements about people we dont know.
Lots of people have mental health issues....lots of people are ambitious and want success.....and a lot of people fund that success -whether it be a promotion or becoming famous - brings a lot more pressure than they ever envisioned.
Give her a break."
I think a break is all she seems to want, though I have zero knowledge of Little Mix. Walking away from the pressures she has sounds like it’s needed. I didn’t see the documentary she was on, but I do know of young people who positively learned from it and have benefits from their changes.
As ever, mental health is individual, let her crack on if she feels she needs it. Haters will always hate, if she can walk away from the social media etc that will help her. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available. |
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available."
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"Lots of famous people suffer from mental health issues. Some don’t always see a way out and pay the ultimate price for it.
I don’t think waking away is ridiculous at all
It was her choice to compete and ultimately win/lose "
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Most of the folk in the music business used to want to play music first....not just instant fame like they do now on Telly shows....then if the fame & fortune happens its a big bonus...young people just wanna be "Famous"...Fame comes at price ...pressure from media etc cant help........struggle to like the new gang of "stars" as they have not done the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My postman is looking fed up these days.
If he chucks his job in or tries a career change i'm gonna talk about him on the internet.......
God im hard."
Have you noticed that some postmen now have trolleys too rather than carrying heavy bags?
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"This is like the Lewis Hamilton threads - lets make unpleasant personal judgements about people we dont know.
Lots of people have mental health issues....lots of people are ambitious and want success.....and a lot of people fund that success -whether it be a promotion or becoming famous - brings a lot more pressure than they ever envisioned.
Give her a break.
I think a break is all she seems to want, though I have zero knowledge of Little Mix. Walking away from the pressures she has sounds like it’s needed. I didn’t see the documentary she was on, but I do know of young people who positively learned from it and have benefits from their changes.
As ever, mental health is individual, let her crack on if she feels she needs it. Haters will always hate, if she can walk away from the social media etc that will help her. "
I don't know her, I don't care about her, but she has a right to make career changes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She quit on the same day as the final of her bands tv show
She announced she was quitting while they were performing on strictly
She hasn’t quit social media or insta which is where the bullying was.
She knows this will gain her a lot of press and a probable singles career.
There are people with geniune issues and need help. Personally get a funny feeling about her and I don’t believe it.
However I would like to throat fuck her
That last comment wasnt necessary! "
Especialy when she clearly wants me to throat fuck her not this chancer..... |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available.
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
Whats her looks got to do with anything?"
. In today’s music industry it helps if you are pretty and Jessie is |
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available.
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
Whats her looks got to do with anything?. In today’s music industry it helps if you are pretty and Jessie is"
Are you saying that attractive people get treated better?
I would beg to differ |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available.
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
Whats her looks got to do with anything?. In today’s music industry it helps if you are pretty and Jessie is
Are you saying that attractive people get treated better?
I would beg to differ"
. Her attractiveness has probably got her her into Little Mix and if she goes solo or pursue something else her attractiveness will help.Does she get treated better because she is attractive I don’t know.When I said she was pretty I meant it as a compliment |
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available.
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
Whats her looks got to do with anything?. In today’s music industry it helps if you are pretty and Jessie is
Are you saying that attractive people get treated better?
I would beg to differ. Her attractiveness has probably got her her into Little Mix and if she goes solo or pursue something else her attractiveness will help.Does she get treated better because she is attractive I don’t know.When I said she was pretty I meant it as a compliment "
She will get treated better because of her wealth rather than her looks. |
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over a year ago
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"Jessie is pretty and has got money and management / PR so she will get the best treatment for her mental health issues that money can buy.Now imagine if she didn’t have money to get treatment where would she end up.I know that money doesn’t always bring you happiness but it can go a long way to getting you the best care available.
Yeah cos like attractive women have it easy right?
Whats her looks got to do with anything?. In today’s music industry it helps if you are pretty and Jessie is
Are you saying that attractive people get treated better?
I would beg to differ. Her attractiveness has probably got her her into Little Mix and if she goes solo or pursue something else her attractiveness will help.Does she get treated better because she is attractive I don’t know.When I said she was pretty I meant it as a compliment
She will get treated better because of her wealth rather than her looks."
. Yes I agree money talks always has and always will.As Jessie has it I personally hope she does get better |
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And how many of those rock bands are still going, 40yrs later, with the original line up?
Exactly. Very few. Members left, were kicked out, died (due to various causes) etc. Many rock band members have suffering significant mental health and addiction problems as a consequence of their fame (see aforementioned "died" - many relating to said MH issues, addiction etc).
Little Mix might well be around in 40yrs time, who knows? Just not the original line up.
Just like AC/DC, Rolling Stones, Sabbath, Metallica, Queen, The Eagles, Jethro Tull, ZZ Top, Journey, The Who, Lynard Skynard, Deep Purple, Judas Priest, Aerosmith, Scorpions (need I continue??)
Bloody Queen - that quitter Mercury, how dare he give up in 1986 (when no-one knew about the illness that would kill him 5yrs later). Jeez |
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I don’t know much about the band or the lady in question but is she the talented one or are they all as good as each other perhaps she’s prefer a solo career Noel Gallagher said it’s much easier as a lone artist as it is being part of a big group perhaps once she’s had time out she mite go on to a solo career |
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