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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha.

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha. "

Correct

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By *igmaMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire

Cheers buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Cheers buddy "

Having had a look through your profile and I say this a straight gent - I don’t think you struggle anyway do you haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I don't think anyone is ugly

But I do love personality and

Humour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just wish you'd change your name

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I just wish you'd change your name"

Haha why

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By *igmaMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Cheers buddy

Having had a look through your profile and I say this a straight gent - I don’t think you struggle anyway do you haha "

I too get inundated with “What a nob” messages

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just wish you'd change your name

Haha why "

It's my surname. I can't help feel that you're been disrespectful.

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By *namCarasCouple  over a year ago

dundee

i disagree with you op

not every woman wants to see your dick before they chat to you , some like to make a connection with your mind first.

i suppose what im trying to say is it takes all sorts on here... what works for some doesnt work for others

but it looks like you have found what suits you best and you realise what you were doing wasnt working and changed it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I think i'll just stick to being myself - having a laugh, natter, flirt etc & keeping my cock hidden away.

Pleased you found a way which works for you though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I just wish you'd change your name

Haha why

It's my surname. I can't help feel that you're been disrespectful. "

Sorry you want me to change my surname because it’s your surname?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thanks OP, I guess I'll pack up and leave now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just wish you'd change your name

Haha why

It's my surname. I can't help feel that you're been disrespectful.

You know that I'm on about your profile nsn

Sorry you want me to change my surname because it’s your surname? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol....your cock is your profile pic....you are showing everyone your cock regardless of if they want to see it.....isn't ironic? Dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry op I completely disagree with you sorry to have to be the one to brake this to you op I have a bigger one than you have and when I first joined this site in 2010 my first profile was as a man very young at the time 23 old and in very good shape

Was absolutely full off my self

Young dum with a 9.2 inch long cock with 4 inches thick and got no whare

And that’s from personal experience

Fast forward 10 years and and letting a side out that I had hid from my early teens dropped the full off my self attude and hid the dick pic and I have gotten so far

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha. "

Its refreshing and encouraging that you now embrace the gift that is MALE attention

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Or go one better and have your bumhole as your avatar. Jeez Fab nearly melted that one time I displayed my balloon knot to everyone. I had to beat them off with a big shitty stick

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By *ureEscapismMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh

So in addition to the OP’s suggestions of keeping it brief, sending dick pics and being graphic, I hear the ladies love it when you call them pet names and come across as condescending as possible!

You’re welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So in addition to the OP’s suggestions of keeping it brief, sending dick pics and being graphic, I hear the ladies love it when you call them pet names and come across as condescending as possible!

You’re welcome! "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It is true what I’ve said.

Most women are here for a short time. Want a normal guy with a good face and nice cock who is also clean.

That’s it.

The minority are on the forums who want chat and humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha.

Correct "

x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha.

Correct

x"

Well fuck my old boots! Might have to give it a go for the craic!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan  over a year ago

Redditch

I see the logic of what the OP is saying, but unfortunately my penis is not as impressive to look at as his so I'll stay as I am for now, I think

But more power to the OPs elbow if it's working for him

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

TLDR

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I see the logic of what the OP is saying, but unfortunately my penis is not as impressive to look at as his so I'll stay as I am for now, I think

But more power to the OPs elbow if it's working for him "

You sir are a complete gent!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A lot of people say personality matters most not looks, I think it's just to make themselves feel better.

End of the day, particularly on here, it's mostly about who fancies who

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"A lot of people say personality matters most not looks, I think it's just to make themselves feel better.

End of the day, particularly on here, it's mostly about who fancies who"

Personality does matter though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A lot of people say personality matters most not looks, I think it's just to make themselves feel better.

End of the day, particularly on here, it's mostly about who fancies who

Personality does matter though."

It does but it's put across as that's what is important first, my point is you have to fancy someone first before getting to know their personality

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"A lot of people say personality matters most not looks, I think it's just to make themselves feel better.

End of the day, particularly on here, it's mostly about who fancies who

Personality does matter though.

It does but it's put across as that's what is important first, my point is you have to fancy someone first before getting to know their personality"

chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"A lot of people say personality matters most not looks, I think it's just to make themselves feel better.

End of the day, particularly on here, it's mostly about who fancies who

Personality does matter though.

It does but it's put across as that's what is important first, my point is you have to fancy someone first before getting to know their personality"

Yip

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting, I’m in the same boat with being an old school gent...am definitely getting passed by!

Thx for the heads up...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you say so. Wouldn’t work for me though

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you say so. Wouldn’t work for me though"

I do. Trust me. Been a revelation.

You’re on the forums - I said this in my OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Timely reminder

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you say so. Wouldn’t work for me though

I do. Trust me. Been a revelation.

You’re on the forums - I said this in my OP "

If it works for you then great. It doesn’t really matter what others think, as long as you’re happy.

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

Are you honestly sure op what I’ve been doing works being old school and honourable. Also with your revelation how big was your sample size 20 - 30 unless you have absolute evidence that it works 100% of the time I’ll stick to what I’m doing. Good that it works for you though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Timely reminder "

You are such a wind up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha. "

I’m quoting it, but I haven’t read any of it, isn’t technology amazing.

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

No-one is ugly....just some have ugly personalities

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Timely reminder "

Thanks, I nearly forgot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im splendidly happy i have some of the most jolly chums

Yes im older and am mo longer in manys search criteria.

But i dont mind as i have a bigh bar of dairy milk

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Im splendidly happy i have some of the most jolly chums

Yes im older and am mo longer in manys search criteria.

But i dont mind as i have a bigh bar of dairy milk "

Now had you said Galaxy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont like a profile thats littered with dick pics or one that has that as their profile picture. I like a bit of mystery, no need to flash it all off before we've even had a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im splendidly happy i have some of the most jolly chums

Yes im older and am mo longer in manys search criteria.

But i dont mind as i have a bigh bar of dairy milk

Now had you said Galaxy..."

oh golly im just nipping out to do some essential shopping

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Profile advice.

Get some pics of yourself in killer heels and slap some makeup on.

Worked wonders for me

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Im splendidly happy i have some of the most jolly chums

Yes im older and am mo longer in manys search criteria.

But i dont mind as i have a bigh bar of dairy milk

Now had you said Galaxy... oh golly im just nipping out to do some essential shopping "

Now your talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Im splendidly happy i have some of the most jolly chums

Yes im older and am mo longer in manys search criteria.

But i dont mind as i have a bigh bar of dairy milk

Now had you said Galaxy... oh golly im just nipping out to do some essential shopping

Now your talking "

Now I’m

Hungry

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Some people take note if what people post on the forum, and wouldn't engage in any private messaging no matter what their message or profile appeared to reflect. Be careful what you post, it is there for all to see forever

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Some people take note if what people post on the forum, and wouldn't engage in any private messaging no matter what their message or profile appeared to reflect. Be careful what you post, it is there for all to see forever "

I’m very pleased with what I’ve posted.

I’m yet to speak to see anyone that uses the forums that is remotely my type..

Maybe one day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people take note if what people post on the forum, and wouldn't engage in any private messaging no matter what their message or profile appeared to reflect. Be careful what you post, it is there for all to see forever

I’m very pleased with what I’ve posted.

I’m yet to speak to see anyone that uses the forums that is remotely my type..

Maybe one day."

What's your type?

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"Some people take note if what people post on the forum, and wouldn't engage in any private messaging no matter what their message or profile appeared to reflect. Be careful what you post, it is there for all to see forever

I’m very pleased with what I’ve posted.

I’m yet to speak to see anyone that uses the forums that is remotely my type..

Maybe one day.

What's your type?"

Read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They might not admit it but I think most folk on are primarily here to make their own life better, or to try to, definitely not to reach out and heal the public. It's selfish human nature at its best - people are generally looking to self promote when they use the forum (looking for an easier route or a hack to a shag or status and fame/ acceptance and friendship) and I think a lot of forum users forget this a lot of the time

Just my humble opinion (hope it makes me more shaggable and popular;-))

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people take note if what people post on the forum, and wouldn't engage in any private messaging no matter what their message or profile appeared to reflect. Be careful what you post, it is there for all to see forever

I’m very pleased with what I’ve posted.

I’m yet to speak to see anyone that uses the forums that is remotely my type..

Maybe one day.

What's your type?

Read my profile "

x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They might not admit it but I think most folk on are primarily here to make their own life better, or to try to, definitely not to reach out and heal the public. It's selfish human nature at its best - people are generally looking to self promote when they use the forum (looking for an easier route or a hack to a shag or status and fame/ acceptance and friendship) and I think a lot of forum users forget this a lot of the time

Just my humble opinion (hope it makes me more shaggable and popular;-))"

I think that's very insightful.

Don't worry I won't punish you by shagging you though.

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By *ENGUYMan  over a year ago

Hull


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha. "

OP.

As you say, you appear to have found a formula that is in your favour, but don't forget, people are all different.

There are lots of women on here who aren't just on the Forums who are just as nice, engage & converse accordingly and have stayed for a long time.

I've been on FAB for over 12 years, and have found to a greater degree, that ladies prefer a facial pic, so they can see with whom they are talking.

Or put it this way, if and when you get to meet up with someone, you'd know how to recognise each other facially, rather than by exposing your genitals when meeting in the local pub - a tad embarrassing!

My profile, style of approach and follow on, are all pretty much Old School, as suggested by others already as theirs too.

But it works for me, and I'm sure there are different styles that different guys use and are successful.

But as many ladies have said on here on the Forums before, they don't want to see Dick pics on a profile straight away when they view someone; they're in reserve for later viewing

But it comes down to so many perspectives, be it humour, appearance, personality, composing a clear profile, quality of pics and so on.

One point to consider; always tweak your profile from time to time, to keep up with times, styles and other factors as they change.

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha.

OP.

As you say, you appear to have found a formula that is in your favour, but don't forget, people are all different.

There are lots of women on here who aren't just on the Forums who are just as nice, engage & converse accordingly and have stayed for a long time.

I've been on FAB for over 12 years, and have found to a greater degree, that ladies prefer a facial pic, so they can see with whom they are talking.

Or put it this way, if and when you get to meet up with someone, you'd know how to recognise each other facially, rather than by exposing your genitals when meeting in the local pub - a tad embarrassing!

My profile, style of approach and follow on, are all pretty much Old School, as suggested by others already as theirs too.

But it works for me, and I'm sure there are different styles that different guys use and are successful.

But as many ladies have said on here on the Forums before, they don't want to see Dick pics on a profile straight away when they view someone; they're in reserve for later viewing

But it comes down to so many perspectives, be it humour, appearance, personality, composing a clear profile, quality of pics and so on.

One point to consider; always tweak your profile from time to time, to keep up with times, styles and other factors as they change.

"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I thought I’d take the time out of the goodness of my heart (what a guy) to perhaps enlighten some of the guys that ask for advice to a different point of view.

You see t ladies that use the forums give advice and always try and help these men but it’s genuinely quite often wrong. The woman that use the forums are generally nicer people and like to engage and converse so therefore they don’t want you to be cocky, they don’t want you to have your cock on your profile picture etc.

However having had 2/3 months of being lovely, charming and polite in my messages with my torso and shirt and tie in my profile I found that I had very little messages and even fewer “fabs”. The site seemed to pass me by to the point where I thought about deleting it.

Now fast forward to now where I am straight to the point, confident and have a fairly graphic profile I get a stupid amount of messages per day and way more fabs. The site is fun. The attention is fun.

I guess this thread is to tell the lovely nice conversational forum users that the vast majority (in my experience) of woman on here are here for one thing l, are not on this site very long and do like the straight to the point, factual, non emotive messages and pictures so therefore crack on gents.

I guess if you can’t string a sentence together or are a bit ugly then you’re screwed either way but hey ho - that can’t be helped haha.

OP.

As you say, you appear to have found a formula that is in your favour, but don't forget, people are all different.

There are lots of women on here who aren't just on the Forums who are just as nice, engage & converse accordingly and have stayed for a long time.

I've been on FAB for over 12 years, and have found to a greater degree, that ladies prefer a facial pic, so they can see with whom they are talking.

Or put it this way, if and when you get to meet up with someone, you'd know how to recognise each other facially, rather than by exposing your genitals when meeting in the local pub - a tad embarrassing!

My profile, style of approach and follow on, are all pretty much Old School, as suggested by others already as theirs too.

But it works for me, and I'm sure there are different styles that different guys use and are successful.

But as many ladies have said on here on the Forums before, they don't want to see Dick pics on a profile straight away when they view someone; they're in reserve for later viewing

But it comes down to so many perspectives, be it humour, appearance, personality, composing a clear profile, quality of pics and so on.

One point to consider; always tweak your profile from time to time, to keep up with times, styles and other factors as they change.

Exactly this"

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He waited weeks to say that. ^

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim


"He waited weeks to say that. ^"

4 I thought it was 3 haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Truth hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sorry op I completely disagree with you sorry to have to be the one to brake this to you op I have a bigger one than you have and when I first joined this site in 2010 my first profile was as a man very young at the time 23 old and in very good shape

Was absolutely full off my self

Young dum with a 9.2 inch long cock with 4 inches thick and got no whare

And that’s from personal experience

Fast forward 10 years and and letting a side out that I had hid from my early teens dropped the full off my self attude and hid the dick pic and I have gotten so far "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples "

That’s incredible when you consider the vast majority of women are in stealth mode, probably upwards of i90% are, if not higher, so really it could be around 10000 women viewing you at any one time, maybe more, truly humbling.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples

That’s incredible when you consider the vast majority of women are in stealth mode, probably upwards of i90% are, if not higher, so really it could be around 10000 women viewing you at any one time, maybe more, truly humbling. "

More like a million....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples

That’s incredible when you consider the vast majority of women are in stealth mode, probably upwards of i90% are, if not higher, so really it could be around 10000 women viewing you at any one time, maybe more, truly humbling.

More like a million...."

At least, if not more

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples

That’s incredible when you consider the vast majority of women are in stealth mode, probably upwards of i90% are, if not higher, so really it could be around 10000 women viewing you at any one time, maybe more, truly humbling. "

Happy to show you I’d you’d like - kik perhaps

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples "

Must be doing something wrong if that's all you've got!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This works by the way

179 profile views today from females / couples

Must be doing something wrong if that's all you've got! "

Think for a man it’s good.

Females must get 1000+ plus.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just wish you'd change your name

Haha why

It's my surname. I can't help feel that you're been disrespectful. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

After reading a few of your threads I notice that you're always trying to belittle others or make them feel lesser because maybe they have a smaller dick than you or whatever. What's that all about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Remember this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Facts

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Facts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ha ha ha

T

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By *oreno0969Man  over a year ago

Rugby

Its all comes down to what your looking for I suppose, my gentleman sausage stays oit of my pics. I am polite treat people how i want to be treated always compliment when it is deserved and dont take myself to seriously and it works ok for me considering I also don't send the first message either

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Its all comes down to what your looking for I suppose, my gentleman sausage stays oit of my pics. I am polite treat people how i want to be treated always compliment when it is deserved and dont take myself to seriously and it works ok for me considering I also don't send the first message either "

Moreno... you’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

The inconvenient truth.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Remember this thread "

Book marked to read later. Looked a bit long for me.

I dunno. Guys who want a quick shag, maybe pop your 6inches out and a girl will jump on it.

Guys who want to have a bit more of a connection and fun before that shag, I wouldn’t give the same advise.

But never give advice unless someone asks for it, otherwise I find people ignore it or shoot it down. .... even that itself is someone giving advise.

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

really this post pops back up after 4 days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The inconvenient truth. "

Really not many of the 70,000+ members of fab care!!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The inconvenient truth. "

I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

I’m off the bookies.

It’s a dead cert for 175 this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The inconvenient truth.

I’ve just had a coffee and a bun "

What was the bun?

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By *igmaMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I’m off the bookies.

It’s a dead cert for 175 this "

I’ll give you evens on a max £2 bet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I do enjoy this thread as I am regularly challenged on why I am the way I am on this site (that’s the important bit - this site) and it’s simply because it works. Not going to be my lovely polite wonderful self on here as it doesn’t work.

I am called a cunt, a prick, egotistical, arrogant.

Water off a ducks back. Should see the woman I speak to every day and who I get to fuck.

Most men can only dream.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do enjoy this thread as I am regularly challenged on why I am the way I am on this site (that’s the important bit - this site) and it’s simply because it works. Not going to be my lovely polite wonderful self on here as it doesn’t work.

I am called a cunt, a prick, egotistical, arrogant.

Water off a ducks back. Should see the woman I speak to every day and who I get to fuck.

Most men can only dream."

If some one has to explain a joke then that joke is obviously not funny!!!!

You approach fab in your own way just as we approach fab in ours and if it works for you then power to your elbow!!

Abuse should always be reported.

T

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The inconvenient truth.

I’ve just had a coffee and a bun

What was the bun? "

A lovely one

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By *igmaMan  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I do enjoy this thread as I am regularly challenged on why I am the way I am on this site (that’s the important bit - this site) and it’s simply because it works. Not going to be my lovely polite wonderful self on here as it doesn’t work.

I am called a cunt, a prick, egotistical, arrogant.

Water off a ducks back. Should see the woman I speak to every day and who I get to fuck.

Most men can only dream."

Hey now, don’t dream it’s over!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am called a cunt, a prick, egotistical, arrogant."

You forgot "deluded".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im no fan of the op(yes im jealous) but no need to abuse him in a nasty way...banter is banter but abuse is abuse...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im no fan of the op(yes im jealous) but no need to abuse him in a nasty way...banter is banter but abuse is abuse..."

I don't like the persona the OP has created for his (and our) amusement, but the sheer froth that his posts create has me in tucks

I have a feeling that the real 'Real Carrick' is actually OK and he's just a very good wind up merchant

If, by his own admission, these threads along with his profile, allow him to meet those he seeks, then good luck to him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im no fan of the op(yes im jealous) but no need to abuse him in a nasty way...banter is banter but abuse is abuse..."

And opinions are opinions!!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do enjoy this thread as I am regularly challenged on why I am the way I am on this site (that’s the important bit - this site) and it’s simply because it works. Not going to be my lovely polite wonderful self on here as it doesn’t work.

I am called a cunt, a prick, egotistical, arrogant.

Water off a ducks back. Should see the woman I speak to every day and who I get to fuck.

Most men can only dream."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think guys should show whatever they want in their profile. (Women may or may not like it, but it's our choice to look). If we choose to peruse your profile then we can't get upset if we don't like what we see.

Just don't send us dick pics in messages, unless requested, as that's unsolicited.

X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve seen this happen, I’ve seen threads where everyone is licking arse and they are totally ignored, but the one guy who doesn’t agree, or says something slightly off, well instantly they gain focus and attention. From the be kind brigade and the jobsworths wanting to look good.

I agree with what’s being said on here, that people treat this like a dating site and want to be seen in a certain light, maybe because that’s how we are as people and what is socially acceptable... but we are not really here to make ‘proper’ friends, even if people claim they are. And swinging isn’t exactly socially acceptable among norms in society, I.e. can’t imagine work and office settings being happy, so perhaps he has a point that normal behaviours are not going to get the results we want, if what we want is simply fun and not friends.

I’ve said it before, I think this guy is a genius at triggering a response, and undoubtedly will get attention. People who simply want fucked will look at him and think, ok I don’t need worry about him getting clingy haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve seen this happen, I’ve seen threads where everyone is licking arse and they are totally ignored, but the one guy who doesn’t agree, or says something slightly off, well instantly they gain focus and attention. From the be kind brigade and the jobsworths wanting to look good.

I agree with what’s being said on here, that people treat this like a dating site and want to be seen in a certain light, maybe because that’s how we are as people and what is socially acceptable... but we are not really here to make ‘proper’ friends, even if people claim they are. And swinging isn’t exactly socially acceptable among norms in society, I.e. can’t imagine work and office settings being happy, so perhaps he has a point that normal behaviours are not going to get the results we want, if what we want is simply fun and not friends.

I’ve said it before, I think this guy is a genius at triggering a response, and undoubtedly will get attention. People who simply want fucked will look at him and think, ok I don’t need worry about him getting clingy haha "

Why wouldn't a work or office setting be happy about you having sex outside of work?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve seen this happen, I’ve seen threads where everyone is licking arse and they are totally ignored, but the one guy who doesn’t agree, or says something slightly off, well instantly they gain focus and attention. From the be kind brigade and the jobsworths wanting to look good.

I agree with what’s being said on here, that people treat this like a dating site and want to be seen in a certain light, maybe because that’s how we are as people and what is socially acceptable... but we are not really here to make ‘proper’ friends, even if people claim they are. And swinging isn’t exactly socially acceptable among norms in society, I.e. can’t imagine work and office settings being happy, so perhaps he has a point that normal behaviours are not going to get the results we want, if what we want is simply fun and not friends.

I’ve said it before, I think this guy is a genius at triggering a response, and undoubtedly will get attention. People who simply want fucked will look at him and think, ok I don’t need worry about him getting clingy haha

Why wouldn't a work or office setting be happy about you having sex outside of work? "

Twisting what I’m saying, my point is if people were to sit talk about their swinging lifestyle at work, it won’t go down as well as the conventional relationship convos I hear daily... nowt to do with approval of you having sex outside of work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just off to Google whether ‘genius’ still means the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just off to Google whether ‘genius’ still means the same thing. "

Well he’s certainly something

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’ve seen this happen, I’ve seen threads where everyone is licking arse and they are totally ignored, but the one guy who doesn’t agree, or says something slightly off, well instantly they gain focus and attention. From the be kind brigade and the jobsworths wanting to look good.

I agree with what’s being said on here, that people treat this like a dating site and want to be seen in a certain light, maybe because that’s how we are as people and what is socially acceptable... but we are not really here to make ‘proper’ friends, even if people claim they are. And swinging isn’t exactly socially acceptable among norms in society, I.e. can’t imagine work and office settings being happy, so perhaps he has a point that normal behaviours are not going to get the results we want, if what we want is simply fun and not friends.

I’ve said it before, I think this guy is a genius at triggering a response, and undoubtedly will get attention. People who simply want fucked will look at him and think, ok I don’t need worry about him getting clingy haha "

I think you have me bang on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Im no fan of the op(yes im jealous) but no need to abuse him in a nasty way...banter is banter but abuse is abuse...

I don't like the persona the OP has created for his (and our) amusement, but the sheer froth that his posts create has me in tucks

I have a feeling that the real 'Real Carrick' is actually OK and he's just a very good wind up merchant

If, by his own admission, these threads along with his profile, allow him to meet those he seeks, then good luck to him "

Again, bang on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just off to Google whether ‘genius’ still means the same thing. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think guys should show whatever they want in their profile. (Women may or may not like it, but it's our choice to look). If we choose to peruse your profile then we can't get upset if we don't like what we see.

Just don't send us dick pics in messages, unless requested, as that's unsolicited.

X"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Water off a ducks back. Should see the woman I speak to every day and who I get to fuck.

Most men can only dream."

Most men don’t have my dreams

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think guys should show whatever they want in their profile. (Women may or may not like it, but it's our choice to look). If we choose to peruse your profile then we can't get upset if we don't like what we see.

Just don't send us dick pics in messages, unless requested, as that's unsolicited.

X"

What about a dick pic as someone's public pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think guys should show whatever they want in their profile. (Women may or may not like it, but it's our choice to look). If we choose to peruse your profile then we can't get upset if we don't like what we see.

Just don't send us dick pics in messages, unless requested, as that's unsolicited.

X

What about a dick pic as someone's public pic?"

She’s a big fan of mine...

We’ve enjoyed each other put it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think guys should show whatever they want in their profile. (Women may or may not like it, but it's our choice to look). If we choose to peruse your profile then we can't get upset if we don't like what we see.

Just don't send us dick pics in messages, unless requested, as that's unsolicited.

X

What about a dick pic as someone's public pic?

She’s a big fan of mine...

We’ve enjoyed each other put it that way "

*digitally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He bumped his thread. ^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"He bumped his thread. ^"

Give him time Jim give him time!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is this a sticky thread now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is this a sticky thread now? "

Haha I like a bump

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is this a sticky thread now?

Haha I like a bump"

Like to stay relevant aye

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim


"Is this a sticky thread now?

Haha I like a bump

Like to stay relevant aye "

Definitely seems like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yip

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Bump

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its cool i dont need advise

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Its cool i dont need advise "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bump"

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Are you the former West Ham & Man Utd midfielder then ??

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Are you the former West Ham & Man Utd midfielder then ?? "

Just bump Grump

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I come in peace - relax

All good fun x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He came in peas. ^

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Deal with my size

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Deal with my size"

I'm not a tailor.

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

Where is my measuring tape I’ll get it for you Jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"I’m off the bookies.

It’s a dead cert for 175 this "

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""

I’ve missed your bumps

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