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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman over a year ago

Yorkshire

This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

"This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x"

I’d love to party with a duck buddy couple . Less drama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe because married couples know each better in sex where fuck buddy's may not and so it heightens the experience to have more experienced lovers to play with.

I'm just guessing here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I played as a married couple we only played with other married couples. We felt there was a deep bond, trust and understanding between us all that a FWB couple may not understand. It was just a preference.

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

"This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x"

I was talking to a couple (a “real” couple) a while back and their profile said they wouldn’t meet FB/FWB couples, so I asked them about it as I was curious. They said FB/FWB couples are less respectful, which I thought was a hell of a generalisation. And ironic, considering that this couple constantly disrespected my (frequently stated) boundaries!

I’ve also heard couples say that FB/FWB couples don’t have the emotional connection of a “real” couple and they don’t want to meet them for that reason.

Personally I’ve found FB/FWB couples less drama than “real” ones, easier to connect with, and less likely to see me as a plaything.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Where's all these people then??? We're married and nobody wants us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps they are viewed as safer, in the sense that there is less chance of partners running off with the unmarried /available fwb /Fab couple ?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Where's all these people then??? We're married and nobody wants us

According to your looking for requirements you're not looking for MF couples anyway, only FF couples so that could be it and people are actually reading your profile.....shocking eh

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"Where's all these people then??? We're married and nobody wants us

According to your looking for requirements you're not looking for MF couples anyway, only FF couples so that could be it and people are actually reading your profile.....shocking eh

"
ermmm it was said in jest

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As half a couple, it wouldn't bother me meeting Fwb couples, as long as they are not married to other people, who don't know they are on fab.

We've had a few message us where the man is married and he is on with a fb.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

My issue is ....

There's a good chance one or both of them have an unsuspecting partner at home and I don't wanna meet cheats.

Simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’ve talked to a few couples who don’t view us as a proper couple because we don’t live together. We know each other sexually more than we ever did with our previous partners who we were married to so I think for some it’s just their preference. Can’t say we’ve noticed a difference whatever their relationship status x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv met couples who are married/in a long term relationship and FWB couples.

I have only ever had drama or issues twice and both times with FBW couples.

One the female half got jealous and walked out!

The second time the male half started messaging after the meet to say I was better than his FBW and could we meet alone without her knowing

So since then I would only ever meet married or committed couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x

I’ve also heard couples say that FB/FWB couples don’t have the emotional connection of a “real” couple and they don’t want to meet them for that reason.

Personally I’ve found FB/FWB couples less drama than “real” ones, easier to connect with, and less likely to see me as a plaything."

I think fwb/fb cpls are not trusted as some are married and playing away behind their partners backs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My issue is ....

There's a good chance one or both of them have an unsuspecting partner at home and I don't wanna meet cheats.

Simple as that "

This

as one who has been cheated on by two husbands i know the hurt it causes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s because my wife and I are very religious and don’t believe in sex before marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x

I’ve also heard couples say that FB/FWB couples don’t have the emotional connection of a “real” couple and they don’t want to meet them for that reason.

Personally I’ve found FB/FWB couples less drama than “real” ones, easier to connect with, and less likely to see me as a plaything."

But you are making a sweeping genaralisation by hinting all married cpls will use you as a plaything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Iv met couples who are married/in a long term relationship and FWB couples.

I have only ever had drama or issues twice and both times with FBW couples.

One the female half got jealous and walked out!

The second time the male half started messaging after the meet to say I was better than his FBW and could we meet alone without her knowing

So since then I would only ever meet married or committed couples. "

I had that when i met a fuckbud cpl as a single fem. He was hassling me to meet for sex without her there.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"This is brought on by a comment I read on another thread.

What’s the deal with people who only want ‘real married couples’ and not ‘fuckbuddy’ ones.

I’m not saying any opinion is right or wrong, it’s just a genuine question as I see a lot of opposition to it.

Thanks In advance x

I’ve also heard couples say that FB/FWB couples don’t have the emotional connection of a “real” couple and they don’t want to meet them for that reason.

Personally I’ve found FB/FWB couples less drama than “real” ones, easier to connect with, and less likely to see me as a plaything.

I think fwb/fb cpls are not trusted as some are married and playing away behind their partners backs. "

Exactly my point.

I was, in my mind part of a "real couple". We had a profile on here and had meets with other couples and visited clubs, attended socials etc.

Last lockdown I realised I was a mistress, not a girlfriend/partner.

I know it wasn't my fault, but I still feel guilty on the people we met because they didn't know and weren't given the choice to meet with a cheat or not. As far as they and I were concerned they were meeting a "genuine couple"

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

But we wants a play thing!

Honestly, we couldn't give a fig if its a married couple, engaged, living together, living apart, paid for partner, fwb or fb. As long as you are ready to play a game its all good!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

As was said before, fuck buddies may come with hidden drama, when unsuspecting partners find out they’re cheating. The other thing to consider is trying to arrange dates in multiple diaries could be a little more laborious than necessary. Too much hassle.

Ed x

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve also heard couples say that FB/FWB couples don’t have the emotional connection of a “real” couple and they don’t want to meet them for that reason.

Personally I’ve found FB/FWB couples less drama than “real” ones, easier to connect with, and less likely to see me as a plaything.

But you are making a sweeping genaralisation by hinting all married cpls will use you as a plaything! "

I said “less likely”, not “all married couples are selfish”. In my time on Fab all the married couples I’ve spoken to (again, please note I am saying the ones I’ve spoken to, not all married couples ever

) have either had issues between themselves, or have only been interested in what they wanted and would get out of it.

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By *ympho6969Woman over a year ago

glasgow

Actual married couples may also be a kink for some people and may not be sated by fuck buddies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actual married couples may also be a kink for some people and may not be sated by fuck buddies "

Thats true.

I hadn't thought of that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actual married couples may also be a kink for some people and may not be sated by fuck buddies

Thats true.

I hadn't thought of that. "

*starts rooting through sock draw for wedding ring*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actual married couples may also be a kink for some people and may not be sated by fuck buddies

Thats true.

I hadn't thought of that.

*starts rooting through sock draw for wedding ring*"

I dont have one

Yet!

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

We prefer Married couples/couples that are in a relationship.For us personally we have such a connection emotionally as well as physically.

We have chatted to fb before and when the conversation has turned to boundaries and likes and dislikes they don’t even know each other’s .That makes us wary, how are we all going to get equal enjoyment and know exactly what page we are on if they are not even sure of each other’s.

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By *immyleaMan over a year ago

Derby

I've never lived with any of my partners- but they have all (with the exception of one) played with me with either (a) their husband/boyfriend's consent or (b) their husband/boyfriend being actively physically involved. There has been no cheating, and I have never cheated on anyone to take part in such pairings either. On the one occasion where the husband didn't know, I ALSO didn't know that he didn't know- until she eventually confessed the situation to me, as it were. We stopped seeing each other not long after that.

However, I have to say that whilst I don't like dishonesty, and would never lie to a partner, I would never moralise or disassociate myself on principle from someone who had lied to theirs. For one thing, there are always varying degrees of deceit. And for another, it isn't my position to be judgmental.In addition to whch, I am by nature polyamorous (except this year, obviously) But that's just how I see it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't see why not!

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