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over a year ago
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"I like sex with men dose that make me bi or gay I like the way a guys cock feels in me ,I like the way my cock feels in a guy am I gay "
If it has the same enjoyable feeling with a woman you are Bi |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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I think it means you are alive more than anything else.
When you stop feeling it, you may be a zombie!?!
Now I am not one for labels, but I am not a fan of zombies! So if you are a zombie I would appreciate you labelling yourself as such to save a whole heap of trouble later on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry this "no label" thing annoys the crap out of me. It's not insulting for people to describe themselves as they are, it's honesty. If a guy likes men and women and engages in sexual activity with them he's bi. To call that labelling is just nonsense. People on Fab expect honesty and some women will only sleep.with straight men as that's their preference. If said "straight" guy is also sleeping with guys then that's misleading.
OP, if you enjoy men and women then you've got the best of both worlds and you're bi. Enjoy!   |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Sorry this "no label" thing annoys the crap out of me. It's not insulting for people to describe themselves as they are, it's honesty. If a guy likes men and women and engages in sexual activity with them he's bi. To call that labelling is just nonsense. People on Fab expect honesty and some women will only sleep.with straight men as that's their preference. If said "straight" guy is also sleeping with guys then that's misleading.
OP, if you enjoy men and women then you've got the best of both worlds and you're bi. Enjoy! "
Its not about those people who are happy to label themselves, its about people feeling pressured into labelling themselves to satisfy others/society.
Where does hete exible fit in with straight, gay or bi? Is it before bi? What about bi curious?
Labels help when there is a standard measurement, and can help with a rough filter when looking for playmates, but people shouldn’t feel that any label defines them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" people shouldn’t feel that any label defines them."
It's not about defining them as a person it's about statng your sexual preferences. OP's bio states he's bisexual which he clearly is and it tells potential meets exactly what his sexual preferences are. "Labels" aren't a way of suppressing people as loads on here think, they're a way of giving an accurate reflection of the person you are. |
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And just what is the problem with having your sexuality labelled?
Yes I understand that some people may not want to pigeonhole themselves as they don't want to admit to the big wide world that they are gay, bi or whatever but what about those who want to have the choice of who they do and don't have sex with?
There are plenty of women and couples who don't want to have sex with a gay or bisexual man so where do they stand if a man who has sex with other men refuses to say he is gay/bi?
So he claims he is straight, has sex with these women/couples who only want genuinely straight men and then justifies his lie to them by saying he is straight because he doesn't like the label yet earlier that day had 20 penis's up his bum in a gay sauna?
Im not gay or bi bashing either as I quite like a dick up my own ass.....I just see that things need labels or where the hell does it all end?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny one isn't it. I am only attracted to ladies, but I do enjoy playing with my arse and having it played with. I have no attraction to men and no desire to be a top, but I love anal play simply because of the pleasure I get from it. I wouldn't want to ever cuddle/kiss etc another guy nor have him do it to me. But fuck my arse or rim me, espicially whilst I am pleasing a lady I find very enjoyable |
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The problem is on a site like this there are only so many categories to put yourself in. If the OP likes both men and women then stick to the bisexual option, this shows you will meet both sexes and couples, some ladies won’t meet bi guys and that is their preference. Anything more you can add to your profile blurb so get more of a feeling for who you are |
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"And just what is the problem with having your sexuality labelled?
Yes I understand that some people may not want to pigeonhole themselves as they don't want to admit to the big wide world that they are gay, bi or whatever but what about those who want to have the choice of who they do and don't have sex with?
There are plenty of women and couples who don't want to have sex with a gay or bisexual man so where do they stand if a man who has sex with other men refuses to say he is gay/bi?
So he claims he is straight, has sex with these women/couples who only want genuinely straight men and then justifies his lie to them by saying he is straight because he doesn't like the label yet earlier that day had 20 penis's up his bum in a gay sauna?
Im not gay or bi bashing either as I quite like a dick up my own ass.....I just see that things need labels or where the hell does it all end?
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Great points. But, 20 in a day? Where is this sauna??? |
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"And just what is the problem with having your sexuality labelled?
Yes I understand that some people may not want to pigeonhole themselves as they don't want to admit to the big wide world that they are gay, bi or whatever but what about those who want to have the choice of who they do and don't have sex with?
There are plenty of women and couples who don't want to have sex with a gay or bisexual man so where do they stand if a man who has sex with other men refuses to say he is gay/bi?
So he claims he is straight, has sex with these women/couples who only want genuinely straight men and then justifies his lie to them by saying he is straight because he doesn't like the label yet earlier that day had 20 penis's up his bum in a gay sauna?
Im not gay or bi bashing either as I quite like a dick up my own ass.....I just see that things need labels or where the hell does it all end?
Great points. But, 20 in a day? Where is this sauna???"
I'd give you the address but that would be pointless as it is closed due to lockdown |
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"I like sex with men dose that make me bi or gay I like the way a guys cock feels in me ,I like the way my cock feels in a guy am I gay "
Anyway, sorry OP it's gone a little off subject but if you were to ask me my opinion, I would say if you still enjoy having sex with women as well as men then you are bi and can happily enjoy both
If you now only enjoy sex with men then by its definition, that would make you gay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think of sexuality as a spectrum where 100% straight (only find opposite sex attractive and only want sex with opposite sex) and 100% gay (only find same sex attractive and only want sex with same sex) are the extremes. Bisexual can go in the middle (find both sexes equally attractive and want sex with both sexes).
I am attracted to women but not men. I have, and will again, had sexual encounters with men.
For the purposes of this site I would use either bisexual (find both sexes equally attractive) or bicurious (indulge occasionally in same sex sexual encounters or never had same sex encounter but be interested) labels. If you are solely attracted to same sex and only wish to have sex with same sex then the gay label might be more appropriate.
You can then elaborate more in the written bio. |
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"Hate labels. You like what you like. Just enjoy the experience. "
So I've just quit smoking/vaping but I'm sure that while I was a smoker, you would have been fine with me saying I was a non smoker to get around you not wanting to meet smokers as I didn't want to be labelled a smoker |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like sex with men dose that make me bi or gay I like the way a guys cock feels in me ,I like the way my cock feels in a guy am I gay "
Good for you. Forget the labels and enjoy |
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