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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you support/advise/protect school kids who are hit on by adults who should know better?!
My young 13 year old cousin was waiting by her school for a lift home from her parents. She was in full school uniform and was passed by a van, the occupant of which leaned out and commented he’d be happy to take her out when shes older.
Wtf???!!!! I was not happy in the slightest when she told me. Personally i’d like the person who commented to be eaten alive by piraña. Maybe im over reacting and its was just a comment after all but she feels uncomfortable now. Theres been a lot on social media about school kids being preyed on. Advice please fab folk. Xxx |
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It’s vile. It’s the same with people who feel the need to point out that some teenage girls are ‘turning into attractive women’. You just want to shake them and say why are you even associating a child with those thoughts?! Those little ‘innocent’ comments are so lecherous it gives me the heebeegeebies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It doesn't sound like he was loitering with intent, just passing by when he made the comment. It's still completely wrong but nothing to worry about as it were. This aside I can only suggest the regular stranger danger chat and don't get lippy with anybody if they're walking alone. If they are surrounded by other people then it may be worth drawing attention to the scumbag so others see them and scares them off. Maybe even take a picture of the vehicle if they can.
Not sure if any of that helps  |
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By the sounds of it the person who said that to her would most likely be happy to take her out now. That’s just not the kind of thing you say to a girl of that age. If someone had said that to one of mine I’d be out trying to hunt him down. So no, you’re not over reacting. |
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If no crime was committed, one of the best things you can do is ensure that she knows that she did nothing to provoke that, and it's entirely on the adult being wildly inappropriate.
Being blamed for shit like that sticks, even though rationally as an adult I know that it could not have been my fault. |
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