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If you can't say anything nice ......
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over a year ago
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don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice". |
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice"."
Totally agree with you darling I’ve had it today as well but then it does pop up now and then and I’ve no idea why ... rise above it darling  |
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice"."
Aw, sorry for this. Some arses on here think it's funny to ridicule or be sarcastic.
Don't take it to heart & remember your block button.
Love & hugs to you x |
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice"."
I agree totally. Some people are so unkind for no reason apart from to satisfy themselves. It can be very cruel on here. Not only through inbox but on the forums too.
I do hope that before people press send,they actually take a minute to think how would that make the other person feel.
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Thanks guys. I have blocked. It took me years to get confident enough to put myself out there and it only takes one thing to knock that confidence. I'll get there again soon, I'm sure. |
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice".
I agree totally. Some people are so unkind for no reason apart from to satisfy themselves. It can be very cruel on here. Not only through inbox but on the forums too.
I do hope that before people press send,they actually take a minute to think how would that make the other person feel.
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Their loss. |
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"Thanks guys. I have blocked. It took me years to get confident enough to put myself out there and it only takes one thing to knock that confidence. I'll get there again soon, I'm sure. "
Just remember Rose, for every one tosser, there are a hundred lovely people on here who will appreciate and engage with you.
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"Thanks guys. I have blocked. It took me years to get confident enough to put myself out there and it only takes one thing to knock that confidence. I'll get there again soon, I'm sure. "
You are enough as you are, entirely, and adults throwing toys out of prams says things about them not you. |
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"I love this site. It's one place I feel I can truly be me. They just caught me on a bad day. "
Happened to me a couple of months ago. But the gorgeous people on here soon put a smile back on my face. Take care lovely & continue being your best x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice"."
Good evening to you , I’m Michael I’m 36 & I come from West Yorkshire . If you need anyone to chat I’m always here , I’ve got anxiety myself it’s not nice , I struggle to be honest . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys. I have blocked. It took me years to get confident enough to put myself out there and it only takes one thing to knock that confidence. I'll get there again soon, I'm sure. "
You will. They’re just sad and pathetic. Please try not to take their tosspot comments to heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice"."
What did they say? |
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"I love this site. It's one place I feel I can truly be me. They just caught me on a bad day. "
There will be someone better who comes along who appreciates you for you!
Well, that is what I try to tell myself when someone upsets me on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I try, sometimes I clearly fail due to my own stupidity and lack of tact whilst trying to be mildly amusing. But on the whole I think I dont do a bad job of being considerate due to my own battles.
So to anyone I've offended I apologise and hope to that I've made someone smile a just a little.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"don't say anything at all. Isn't that what we get told? Seems like some people on here forget that and think they can say anything they like, no matter what.
I was having a rubbish day anyway with my mental health, so they've just added to my anxiety about me not being good enough.
This isn't a "please give me support" thread, it's a "please think before you send someone a message that is anything other than nice".
What did they say?"
I'd rather not disclose that and I'm sure you'll understand xx
You've all been so kind. Thank you xxx |
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