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Is it socially acceptable to chat someone up in the gym?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I mean I know people are there to train, myself included. But I was wondering on opinions from women in particular.... if a guy started talking to you and asked you out while in the gym, would you tell him to fuck off I’m training etc?

I’m asking because it may seem lecherous to some and was intrigued on opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybes not recommended in the showers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it depends how it’s done, but I’m not sure women will appreciate trying to be chatted up when they try and work out, but if it happens naturally through a mutual conversation then that’s different.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Happened a few times to me but I don't tell them to F off I am however too much in the zone to give it much interest so its probably not the best time to make a move

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I probably wouldn't tell them to fuck off but I'd probably feel incredibly uncomfortable and try to find a way to get away as quickly as I can.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I probably wouldn't tell them to fuck off but I'd probably feel incredibly uncomfortable and try to find a way to get away as quickly as I can. "

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

it depends how. In my yoof I was chatted up in many different locations (I was and still am a stranger to the gym though). My reaction depended on two things, how attractive I found the guy and the way they approached me

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford

If you’re polite and read the signs that they’re open to talk then go for it, what’s the worst that could happen?

I mean you could be banned from the gym, possibly punched in the face by someone who’s literally been training to make herself stronger and everyone else would see it and think you’re a creep, probably hound you out of town....

But it might go well too

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West

No ta. I'm on a time schedule usually (before/after work, getting home for childcare); I'm paying for my PTs time and I have shit to do. Please just leave me to get on with my stuff, thanks.

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By *hecitycplCouple  over a year ago

London

My wife gets chatted up in the sauna and steam room regularly. I love hearing about it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do you think most women got headphones on ?

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