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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough "
Piss off dude.. your only 21 ffs lol...I mean piss off with love .. and happy birthday old man x |
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Oh, OP. You're only 21!. Plenty more time for you.
Everyone's birthday has been pretty depressing this year, but things are starting to look up.
Do the best you can tomorrow, chat, eat, drink and be as merry as you can.
Happy birthday for tomorrow
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I tend to feel a little sombre most birthdays, that's coz in my 43 years I've probably had about 4 actual great ones that I've enjoyed and felt special.
Now I'm shocked as I reach each one that I'm still alive in all honesty. Yes I do feel like "fuck me, another year and I'm still stuck in the same rut" but only I can change that and it means taking risks. I like to know what I'm dealing with so avoid big risks these days. |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough
Piss off dude.. your only 21 ffs lol...I mean piss off with love .. and happy birthday old man x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, OP. You're only 21!. Plenty more time for you.
Everyone's birthday has been pretty depressing this year, but things are starting to look up.
Do the best you can tomorrow, chat, eat, drink and be as merry as you can.
Happy birthday for tomorrow
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I agree. Wait till you get to my age then you can moan lol. It's mine in a few weeks |
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By *leeper OP Man
over a year ago
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"I tend to feel a little sombre most birthdays, that's coz in my 43 years I've probably had about 4 actual great ones that I've enjoyed and felt special.
Now I'm shocked as I reach each one that I'm still alive in all honesty. Yes I do feel like "fuck me, another year and I'm still stuck in the same rut" but only I can change that and it means taking risks. I like to know what I'm dealing with so avoid big risks these days."
Thanks for that I’ll try and do something instead of locking my self up again |
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21?! Bloody hell practically dead gramps! Seriously though wait until you're staring 40 down the barrel and wondering how the years suddenly flew by so quickly when it feels like you were 21 five minutes ago. Enjoy your 20's, do all the things and don't worry about your age. |
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By *leeper OP Man
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"21?! Bloody hell practically dead gramps! Seriously though wait until you're staring 40 down the barrel and wondering how the years suddenly flew by so quickly when it feels like you were 21 five minutes ago. Enjoy your 20's, do all the things and don't worry about your age."
Will do thanks for the words of encouragement |
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OP I used to absolutely hate birthdays when I was your age. It highlighted that I didn't speak to my dad and that his side of the family also disowned me. But as I grew older and more confident in myself those things didn't matter as much. I don't know why you're not looking forward to your birthday, but it's just another day. Happy birthday from me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough
Piss off dude.. your only 21 ffs lol...I mean piss off with love .. and happy birthday old man x"
This!
Jeezo man.
Happy birthday!!
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough "
Sorry to hear you feel that way OP.
Not everyone enjoys birthdays, same way as not everyone enjoys Christmas.
You don't have to celebrate your birthday if you don't want to.
Its been a weird year for a lot of people, I can understand how you feel as if time is passing you by.
Here's hoping the following year is a better one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m not into birthdays because I hate being the centre of attention. I’m not comfortable with it. Don’t let it get you down at your young age though OP. At 21 you’ve got so much time left in life. So many more experiences to have and enjoy. |
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough "
Op, your feelings are perfectly valid, and your age do not change that.
It’s ok if you don’t like your birthday, you don’t have to. Can you choose something you’d really like to do, if that is watching films with popcorn, going for a walk, seeing friends, whatever you want.
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Im 35 years
My parents left me on a boarding school when I was 4 didn’t seen them till I got the university
All I received was a letter a month and money to spend
And grow up 15 years without celebrating birthday or Christmas
So I guess I’m used to it
But chin up
It’s your day
So just enjoy the day |
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By *elethWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough
Op, your feelings are perfectly valid, and your age do not change that.
It’s ok if you don’t like your birthday, you don’t have to. Can you choose something you’d really like to do, if that is watching films with popcorn, going for a walk, seeing friends, whatever you want.
Hugs
HC"
Absolutely agree with this! I'm sorry you're not feeling it, lovely. I hope you think of something you'd really enjoy doing tomorrow, and get to savour it. Big hugs, and many happy returns! |
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I didn't get depressed at 21: I'd just got married and about to start a law degree...life was good.
When I got to 40 however...now that's a different story! 
Just celebrated 60 during covid. Just happy and grateful to be alive, not wasting time on things I can't change! |
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough "
Just you wait..... 
The cool thing is, by the time you get to be my age, you’re gonna have proper robots doing stuff for you. Totally automatic cars. Star Wars 50, loads of exciting things.
Global warming will fuck things up a bit but you might get to go to the Hotel Luna, on the moon. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough
Piss off dude.. your only 21 ffs lol...I mean piss off with love .. and happy birthday old man x"
This |
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"Anyone else gets depressed on your birthday, mines is tomorrow and I dreading it , I feels like time flying and it’s not enough "
You should try being 47, mate. You may feel like half your life has gone, but mine actually has.
Hopefully you can turn the way you feel into something positive. Take life by the horns and make done thing fantastic out of it. |
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Happy Birthday OP
