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over a year ago
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Leaving my ex husband. Outwardly everything seemed fine but as we know that’s often not the reality. My life has since turned upside down in many ways and yet despite everything that’s happened as consequence I am happier and a better person and a much better mum! |
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over a year ago
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Probably deciding to retrain and change career when I was about 30. Was scary knowing that I’d have a few years of study and only a part time wage to support myself. Was well worth it though, so glad I did it. The only change I’d make was doing it when I was younger. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Emigrating.
It's the best mistake I ever made. Nothing went to plan and I would not encourage the person I was to do something so enormous."
Yay for England 
Lu  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Leaving my ex husband. Outwardly everything seemed fine but as we know that’s often not the reality. My life has since turned upside down in many ways and yet despite everything that’s happened as consequence I am happier and a better person and a much better mum! "
I'm glad it's made life better for you in the long run 
Lu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stay or go. I went. Best move i ever made."
The same for me.
It was a long time ago now and I'm reminded most days that it was the best decision of my life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Probably deciding to retrain and change career when I was about 30. Was scary knowing that I’d have a few years of study and only a part time wage to support myself. Was well worth it though, so glad I did it. The only change I’d make was doing it when I was younger."
This is awesome!
What age would you do it at if you could re-do?
Lu |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Stay or go. I went. Best move i ever made.
The same for me.
It was a long time ago now and I'm reminded most days that it was the best decision of my life "
Yay for this!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand completely. Both my ex husbands cheated on me. We had great sex lives and still cannot understand why they did. But if it's put out on a plate i suppose the weak men will take up the offer. Now i have a beautiful human being as a partner. Just wish id met him 30yrs ago and. Avoided the dross i married. Also having the best sex of my life, finishing the menopause has released a new sexual me. I now try things with john id never hsve tried before. But who knows if we had met years ago he might hsve opened my eyes sooner to this great sexual experience. Id say its better to be free and single but unhappy than stuck with the unfaithful gits i chose as husbands to be honest. Jen x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I understand completely. Both my ex husbands cheated on me. We had great sex lives and still cannot understand why they did. But if it's put out on a plate i suppose the weak men will take up the offer. Now i have a beautiful human being as a partner. Just wish id met him 30yrs ago and. Avoided the dross i married. Also having the best sex of my life, finishing the menopause has released a new sexual me. I now try things with john id never hsve tried before. But who knows if we had met years ago he might hsve opened my eyes sooner to this great sexual experience. Id say its better to be free and single but unhappy than stuck with the unfaithful gits i chose as husbands to be honest. Jen x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going to Australia to visit a childhood sweetheart! What a disaster she was pissed at the airport lol "
That would be a nightmare.
All that way and she is d*unk . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably deciding to retrain and change career when I was about 30. Was scary knowing that I’d have a few years of study and only a part time wage to support myself. Was well worth it though, so glad I did it. The only change I’d make was doing it when I was younger.
This is awesome!
What age would you do it at if you could re-do?
Lu "
If I could do it all again it would be retraining I would have done it straight from school, college - uni etc. If nothing else, it would have cost me a lot less that way. But then again if I’d done that I would have missed out on other things I’ve done! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably deciding to retrain and change career when I was about 30. Was scary knowing that I’d have a few years of study and only a part time wage to support myself. Was well worth it though, so glad I did it. The only change I’d make was doing it when I was younger.
This is awesome!
What age would you do it at if you could re-do?
Lu
If I could do it all again it would be retraining I would have done it straight from school, college - uni etc. If nothing else, it would have cost me a lot less that way. But then again if I’d done that I would have missed out on other things I’ve done! "
Swings and roundabouts eh?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Biggest decision I've made was to let something go. (apologies for being vague) and it definetley was the right choice "
Vague is allowed
Happy to hear you've no regrets about it...whatever it was |
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"I got married.
Big mistake. I will pay for that for the rest of my life. Luke
Have you escaped the marriage now?
Lu "
Yes I have, which I guess was another big decision, and it was definitely the right one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Biggest decision for me was to end my marriage and had the uncertainty of how it may impact my 2 children.
It was a tough time for a while for the 3 of us but we got through it. I sought professional help on how to support my children....and myself too.
8 years have passed and we are all happy and settled in our new lives, I have a great friendship with my ex husband and that greatly helps when raising our kids.
My ex and myself both have new partners and are extremely happy in our relationships.
Hardest but best decision I have made.
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm just coming out of the toughest choice I have ever had to make. It has left me with nothing other than my health an a renewed desire to rebuild and make my life my own after a decade of sacrifice. I have a very strange sense of strength and contentment that I have never felt before. I'm actually looking forward to the future. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I got married.
Big mistake. I will pay for that for the rest of my life. Luke
Have you escaped the marriage now?
Lu
Yes I have, which I guess was another big decision, and it was definitely the right one. "
Good to hear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Biggest decision for me was to end my marriage and had the uncertainty of how it may impact my 2 children.
It was a tough time for a while for the 3 of us but we got through it. I sought professional help on how to support my children....and myself too.
8 years have passed and we are all happy and settled in our new lives, I have a great friendship with my ex husband and that greatly helps when raising our kids.
My ex and myself both have new partners and are extremely happy in our relationships.
Hardest but best decision I have made.
Her x"
Lovely to hear it worked out for everyone in the end tho!
The best decisions are often the hardest!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm just coming out of the toughest choice I have ever had to make. It has left me with nothing other than my health an a renewed desire to rebuild and make my life my own after a decade of sacrifice. I have a very strange sense of strength and contentment that I have never felt before. I'm actually looking forward to the future."
The only way is up!
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