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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site?"
No, but you have a lovely arse OP, I’d love to spank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what their version of inexperienced is.
If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.
If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience. "
Was you not a virgin once lol ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d class myself as inexperienced compared to some on here.
I know what I like though.
Someone being inexperienced wouldn’t put me off, as long as it’s not accompanied by a severe lack of confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.
If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.
Was you not a virgin once lol .. "
Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit  it's just something that always stays with you isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.
If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.
Was you not a virgin once lol ..
Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit it's just something that always stays with you isn't it. "
I’d make sure I wasn’t shit that way they can’t say nothing then ...  |
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I get loads of messages from guys who are inexperienced with other Men. So often want a person who looks feminine but still has their bits
It depends on the guy or even couple if I like them enough and we get on. So I will and hope they last long enough so I get some enjoyment from the meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends what their version of inexperienced is.
If they're a virgin I don't think I would feel comfortable. Idk why, I just wouldn't the responsibility of being attached to such a milestone experience.
Was you not a virgin once lol ..
Yeah and my first experience was shit, which is why I wouldn't want to be the other person in the story of how someone else's first experience was also shit it's just something that always stays with you isn't it.
I’d make sure I wasn’t shit that way they can’t say nothing then ... "
It's easier for an experienced man to be good when having sex with an inexperienced woman than vice versa in my opinion. Thinking back to my early experiences, the guys usually wanted to do all the "work" because they were just so excited to finally be getting laid. And if I sleep with someone who doesn't know how to do the "work", I will be the one getting the blame for making the experience shit. Trust me, it's happened to me before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I expect men around my age to know how to do the sex
I like to provide the unexpected
I'm pretty sure you probably know the mechanics of it"
But my memory isn’t good |
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"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?
If not years can you make up the years by number of times you've fucked the same partner? "
I'm hoping so, otherwise we're both pretty inexperienced for people in our mid 30s |
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"How do you define inexperienced? Number of sexual partners or actual "years" in the saddle?
If not years can you make up the years by number of times you've fucked the same partner?
I'm hoping so, otherwise we're both pretty inexperienced for people in our mid 30s "
Same |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet. |
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"Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet. "
Don't you just hate when that happens  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone who is inexperienced and we get on no then it wouldn't be an issue at all. First messages saying they want me to teach them is a turn off almost as much of a turn off a fake profiles using pics taken off the internet.
Don't you just hate when that happens "
Easy to spot tho at this stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love its mostly men saying it wouldnt bother you, all want the innocent maid, we know I like to be taken in hand a bit really, I couldnt see myself teaching anyone the ropes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest it wouldn’t be an issue for either of us.
One thing we know is with age comes experience so pairing up with someone with less experience we can introduce them to things if they are up for it.
On the flip side if a person has experienced something that didn’t go well for some reason they are less likely to want to repeat that whereas hence why playing with someone inexperienced they’re more willing to give it ago.
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"Would it be a turn off for you? Say your chatting to someone here. You hit it off. Maybe meet for a coffee and decide to take it further. Then maybe they mail you to say that they are very sexually inexperienced. Would it bother you ? Do you expect a the other person do know what they are doing seeing as its a swinging site?"
Not at all. We gain experience from each other, all part of the fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please? "
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle. |
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle."
Is that not just due to the friction of you constantly scratching at your infestation?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle."
Stop lending them out then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.
Is that not just due to the friction of you constantly scratching at your infestation?! "
Possibly.
Either that or the crabs have gnawed through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.
Stop lending them out then "
Stop offering cash for them.
It ain’t happening! |
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.
Stop lending them out then
Stop offering cash for them.
It ain’t happening!"
The crabby ones are more valuable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.
Stop lending them out then
Stop offering cash for them.
It ain’t happening!"
Oh darn it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah.
I’m a virgin and it just wouldn’t work for me.
I want an experienced chick with a loose vag and a penchant for swallowing weighty penis.
Who's penis would that be then, please?
I’ll have you know that almost all my y-fronts have worn through the crotch with the pure weight of the penis they struggle to cradle.
Stop lending them out then
Stop offering cash for them.
It ain’t happening!
Oh darn it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only time it would bother me slightly is if they had NO exp at all!
People with little exp and are on sites like FAB tend to be very open to exploration.
They get to learn a few things, and you do too, as they can suggest totally new ideas.
Inexperience is not an issue so long as they are open to communicating with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.
If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary. |
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I need someone who knows what they like and what they want. I'm happy to explore, but I don't want to end up teaching, so it could well be off-putting for me.
As others have said there's a big difference between having experience with one partner for a long time and having no experience at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you make a connection with someone, I don't see why it would be an issue. It would actually make them more attractive being honest about it. We are all normal people not pornstars  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.
If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary."
So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.
If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary.
So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ?"
Nope. It can be exciting being someone's first experience of a particular activity, but not the whole shebang. That's too much pressure. |
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I wouldn’t be interested. If someone is mentioning lack of experience then they’re either lacking confidence or are looking to me to ‘teach them a thing or two’ and I don’t find either of those things attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they just meant they hadn't had many partners, like maybe been with someone a long time, it wouldn't bother me.
If they'd never even got off the starting blocks though, I'd be wary.
So you wouldn't want to be someone's first ?
Nope. It can be exciting being someone's first experience of a particular activity, but not the whole shebang. That's too much pressure. "
Yah true |
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