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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ? |
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Seems a bit unlikely that a crap kisser would be a great lover. The two don't have to follow, but you start the fun with a kiss. Arguably if they were that bad you wouldnt go on to have sex with them! Why waste time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing... it's the start, the foundation, the bedrock. Once you've had the perfect kiss you'll never rest until you have another.
If they were a bad kisser, and everything else was amazing, I'd make a concerted effort to teach them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Define bad kissing."
The quality of a kiss will be subjective. A definition of bad kissing is kissing someone you don't enjoy kissing.
I enjoy a good kiss and generally I don't think I've had a bad kiss in a relationship. I like to think if you click enough that you're going to get in to more then you will enjoy kissing them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people talk about "bad kissers" do they ever consider what that person thought of THEIR skills? A "bad kisser" will most likely think you're equally shite I reckon....
I think it's more about compatibly and small adjustments on both sides to make a perfect kiss.... With some people it does just click though - maybe that's a lucky kiss....? XxXxXxXxXxXxXx |
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I'd have to agree with bump, yeah sometimes you strike it lucky and you kiss someone and it's like wow. But others it's a bit of a finding how you both kiss each other. But I think I that's kinda nice, discovering the differences in people and then finding your rhythm together |
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"But how do you know who is the bad kisser?
They may think you're the awful one and you think they are.
I've stumbled across a few but it could have been me I suppose.
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Ignore me.... all this has already been said up there ^ |
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I wouldn't say anyone is a bad kisser...they're just incompatible with the way I like to kiss and be kissed...someone else might think they're a wonderful kisser.
But no, it would be a deal breaker for me if I wasn't enjoying the kissing as it's one of my favourite things to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that as with anything sexual, kissing can be something that evolves and changes, depending on partner, chemistry etc. Guidance can play a big part |
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I wouldn’t be taking it further if they were a bad kisser.
In my experience, a great kisser is an indication of them being great at sex...a kiss builds that connection and that carries on.
If the connection isn’t there from a kiss then it’s not going to be there for sex.
K
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you be re taught how to be a good kisser if you are a bad one I wonder. I would be devastated not to enjoy a good kiss. I like to be denied a bit as part of a tease but not to want to do it forever would be awful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues "
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't send me weak at the knees, shivers down my spine and have me gripping the nearest inanimate objects, with the most amazing kiss, total, deep and really passionate kiss... You aren't for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No"
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....? "
No you will bruise my hand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand "
My wiener is soft and silky... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky... "
My hand isn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't "
Lube? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?"
Pube? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?
Pube?"
I said silky... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?
Pube?
I said silky... "
I said hairy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't send me weak at the knees, shivers down my spine and have me gripping the nearest inanimate objects, with the most amazing kiss, total, deep and really passionate kiss... You aren't for me x"
Is that not a bit of a Hollywood expectation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they are a bad kisser I would even find out how bad they are in bed. Kissing is very important for me, without it it’s very dull and no connection
Even find out in bed?"
Wouldn’t *
Thanks for noticing the typo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?
Pube?
I said silky...
I said hairy "
I can change, I'll do anything.... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?
Pube?
I said silky...
I said hairy
I can change, I'll do anything.... "
Change your dirty smelly underwear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?"
Surly you can tell them. Then you can both see if you both can make it better.
If it is significantly important to either of you, and everything else is good, its worth a quick conversation to taylor to whats best for both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't send me weak at the knees, shivers down my spine and have me gripping the nearest inanimate objects, with the most amazing kiss, total, deep and really passionate kiss... You aren't for me x
Is that not a bit of a Hollywood expectation?"
Fireworks may not happen everytime but when they do its amazing. However it doesn't automatically guarantee great sex either.
At a minimum the kiss should make me want more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't send me weak at the knees, shivers down my spine and have me gripping the nearest inanimate objects, with the most amazing kiss, total, deep and really passionate kiss... You aren't for me x
Is that not a bit of a Hollywood expectation?
Fireworks may not happen everytime but when they do its amazing. However it doesn't automatically guarantee great sex either.
At a minimum the kiss should make me want more. "
This is true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?"
No kissing to important to me, it’s what starts the whole turn on xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s essential. Kissing is the biggest turn on for me. I can’t imagine not kissing someone and just having sex, I wouldn’t do that. Having said that I do get why some couples don’t kiss others. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I taught a guy how to kiss he was useless but then great x
Teach me plz....
Open your gob then we suck tongues
Can I substitute my tongue for my wiener plz....?
No
Can I practice kissing your hand with my wiener then....?
No you will bruise my hand
My wiener is soft and silky...
My hand isn't
Lube?
Pube?
I said silky...
I said hairy
I can change, I'll do anything....
Change your dirty smelly underwear "
He did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it’s essential. Kissing is the biggest turn on for me. I can’t imagine not kissing someone and just having sex, I wouldn’t do that. Having said that I do get why some couples don’t kiss others. "
Couldn’t agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?"
Kissing is very important it’s gotta be magical |
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Kissing is essential for me, it’s that first spark that awakens the senses, without that nothing else will happen.
As for bad kissers, is there such a thing or is it purely just two people not in sync with each other, a bad kisser to you could be someone else’s perfect kiss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It amuses me slightly that it's always the other person who's the bad kisser "
Would you like someone to tell you if they didn't like how you kissed ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is the portal to so much more, yet a pleasure by itself. But the perfect kiss? I've had it. I can tell you the time the date, the location...
There was that slightly nervous anticipation and doubt before hand. Is now the time? Reading that look in her eyes, her arms holding me, her face lighting up as we drew closer, her smile in anticipation as she pulled me closer still, how the her soft lips caressed mine, how her mouth opened and we tasted each other, how our tempo synced, how she mirrored me, how every nerve ending in my body tingled as electricity shot through my body, and how time stood still, how we didn't want to let each other go, and how her silent smile afterwards remains as one of my most favourite images.
Everything else that followed has been amazing and after a kiss like that I'd have been surprised if it wasn't. So why people don't / won't kiss or think it's important? Beats the hell out of me! |
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"It amuses me slightly that it's always the other person who's the bad kisser
Would you like someone to tell you if they didn't like how you kissed ?"
Nope but with a long term partner I'd accept that we both needed to work on it. I don't kiss casual partners anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Kissing is the portal to so much more, yet a pleasure by itself. But the perfect kiss? I've had it. I can tell you the time the date, the location...
There was that slightly nervous anticipation and doubt before hand. Is now the time? Reading that look in her eyes, her arms holding me, her face lighting up as we drew closer, her smile in anticipation as she pulled me closer still, how the her soft lips caressed mine, how her mouth opened and we tasted each other, how our tempo synced, how she mirrored me, how every nerve ending in my body tingled as electricity shot through my body, and how time stood still, how we didn't want to let each other go, and how her silent smile afterwards remains as one of my most favourite images.
Everything else that followed has been amazing and after a kiss like that I'd have been surprised if it wasn't. So why people don't / won't kiss or think it's important? Beats the hell out of me!"
Wow I think that actually made me wet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is the portal to so much more, yet a pleasure by itself. But the perfect kiss? I've had it. I can tell you the time the date, the location...
There was that slightly nervous anticipation and doubt before hand. Is now the time? Reading that look in her eyes, her arms holding me, her face lighting up as we drew closer, her smile in anticipation as she pulled me closer still, how the her soft lips caressed mine, how her mouth opened and we tasted each other, how our tempo synced, how she mirrored me, how every nerve ending in my body tingled as electricity shot through my body, and how time stood still, how we didn't want to let each other go, and how her silent smile afterwards remains as one of my most favourite images.
Everything else that followed has been amazing and after a kiss like that I'd have been surprised if it wasn't. So why people don't / won't kiss or think it's important? Beats the hell out of me!
Wow I think that actually made me wet "
It was quite the kiss... and yes, had the desired effect! Still does. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kissing is the portal to so much more, yet a pleasure by itself. But the perfect kiss? I've had it. I can tell you the time the date, the location...
There was that slightly nervous anticipation and doubt before hand. Is now the time? Reading that look in her eyes, her arms holding me, her face lighting up as we drew closer, her smile in anticipation as she pulled me closer still, how the her soft lips caressed mine, how her mouth opened and we tasted each other, how our tempo synced, how she mirrored me, how every nerve ending in my body tingled as electricity shot through my body, and how time stood still, how we didn't want to let each other go, and how her silent smile afterwards remains as one of my most favourite images.
Everything else that followed has been amazing and after a kiss like that I'd have been surprised if it wasn't. So why people don't / won't kiss or think it's important? Beats the hell out of me!
Wow I think that actually made me wet
It was quite the kiss... and yes, had the desired effect! Still does. "
I can imagine it did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes your initial styles of kissing may not be compatible, but with a bit of time and connection, they kind of get in synch... "
One does wish this was true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Teach them. Move away and tease them so they don’t kiss like a fish or nibble on there lip lol.
Would make you think what else are they bad at thou "
I'm out of the teaching stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?"
Teach them how to kiss properly
Missy x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes your initial styles of kissing may not be compatible, but with a bit of time and connection, they kind of get in synch... "
Exactly that - it's sometimes a question of getting used to each others styles and adapting to each other - not a case of encountering a bad kisser so much, as a different kisser that you need to get used to the way they kiss.
Like most things sexual, if someone isn't doing it for you, surely the thing to do is show them what *does* do it for you - everyone is different and has different ways whether that be kissing, giving oral, simply touching - because they do it differently doesn't mean they are bad, just they've not found your way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sometimes your initial styles of kissing may not be compatible, but with a bit of time and connection, they kind of get in synch...
Exactly that - it's sometimes a question of getting used to each others styles and adapting to each other - not a case of encountering a bad kisser so much, as a different kisser that you need to get used to the way they kiss.
Like most things sexual, if someone isn't doing it for you, surely the thing to do is show them what *does* do it for you - everyone is different and has different ways whether that be kissing, giving oral, simply touching - because they do it differently doesn't mean they are bad, just they've not found your way "
I'm not sure that's true when your tonsils are being poked by a tounge |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kiss is the start of the trust to me, it’s like the mating precursor. Good kiss means mutual pleasure in it. A bad kisser means selfish lusty lick. So sex would be great only when I enjoy the kiss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a 90 second snog with someone who drooled so much that he washed away the foundation on my chin.
Some bad kissers can't be rehabilitated...
I didn't sleep with him. "
Lol squirt from mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a 90 second snog with someone who drooled so much that he washed away the foundation on my chin.
Some bad kissers can't be rehabilitated...
I didn't sleep with him. "
Jheez this made me cringe uncomfortably hahah, how can you get it so wrong |
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"Had a 90 second snog with someone who drooled so much that he washed away the foundation on my chin.
Some bad kissers can't be rehabilitated...
I didn't sleep with him.
Lol squirt from mouth "
I briefly wondered, at the 20 second mark, if the excess drool would make cunnilingus better... By 30 seconds I was 'politely winding down' the kissing.
So I don't have an answer. |
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?"
This was literally what I encountered 4 months ago.
Unfortunately his last girlfriend was one of those pecking kissers, were I'm more passion full on snog, tongues etc
He now kisses me like his life depends on it and the sex is mind-blowing, so glad I didn't give up on him because of shit kissing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd have to agree with bump, yeah sometimes you strike it lucky and you kiss someone and it's like wow. But others it's a bit of a finding how you both kiss each other. But I think I that's kinda nice, discovering the differences in people and then finding your rhythm together "
You're definitely in la la land! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?
This was literally what I encountered 4 months ago.
Unfortunately his last girlfriend was one of those pecking kissers, were I'm more passion full on snog, tongues etc
He now kisses me like his life depends on it and the sex is mind-blowing, so glad I didn't give up on him because of shit kissing
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Glad it worked out for you |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"So you've me someone. Tou really click. You finally kiss but its awful. What do you do? Does it matter if someone is a bad kisser ? What if you managed to get past kissing and the sex was amazing. Would you stay seeing them ?
This was literally what I encountered 4 months ago.
Unfortunately his last girlfriend was one of those pecking kissers, were I'm more passion full on snog, tongues etc
He now kisses me like his life depends on it and the sex is mind-blowing, so glad I didn't give up on him because of shit kissing
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They sound like good kisses!! |
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