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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I would like a long term relationship.
It's not going to happen for me but I know of a few that have met here, or here adjacent, and have lasted for several years. Some continue and others ended in much the same way as non-swinging relationships.
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By *host63 OP Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"I would like a long term relationship.
It's not going to happen for me but I know of a few that have met here, or here adjacent, and have lasted for several years. Some continue and others ended in much the same way as non-swinging relationships.
Why don't you think it wont happen for you?
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By *host63 OP Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Perhaps add to your profile that you would be open to a longer term swinging relationship, then anyone who read it may feel more inclined to reply to someone seeking the same."
Good advice duly acted upon |
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"Ever since I got into the lifestyle I have wanted a long term relationship with a woman into this.
So far its eluded me.
How many people are lucky enough for this to happen to them?"
Mate better for you to go to some poly events (post-COVID) if you are looking for a LTR. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone on here last summer, he had messaged me on and off for over 3 yrs, and when we met, I wish I had met him before.
Wasn't looking or wanting a relationship. He blow me away and we started a relationship.
Its didn't last  , influences on here, other places, jealousy and flippant comments ended us.
Not what I want but that's life I suppose.
Trust and honesty in any relationship needs to be there but even more so in this lifestyle.
Build strong foundations before exploring others together.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not interested in a relationship. Never will be. A long term exclusive FWB though definitely. Which I suppose is a kind of relationship of sorts. "
Me too Nora
I want one too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever since I got into the lifestyle I have wanted a long term relationship with a woman into this.
So far its eluded me.
How many people are lucky enough for this to happen to them?"
We met outside Fab, then I found Mary on Fab and hooked up with her. A year later we became lovers and continue the lifestyle, sorted!  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I'm of a if it happens it happens, I've given up looking for one, been hut too much. And I'm kind of enjoying what this has brought and don't think I could go back to sex with just solely one person.
If it happens it'd would be nice if it was someone who got that |
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I’m not looking long term but a Fwb after covid would be good. It’s just a case of finding the right one.
You have to nurture relationships, whatever form they present themselves. Far too many here fuck up over the green eyed monster and low self esteem. Happens often
Good luck OP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not interested in a relationship. Never will be. A long term exclusive FWB though definitely. Which I suppose is a kind of relationship of sorts. "
This would be the ideal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many, many years ago on another swinging site i had a single fem profile and a very active swinging life. I met a gorgeous younger guy for a quick social on his way to work and boom ..... i fell in love, we met several times and thankfully he felt the same. We moved in together, married now. Been together about 14 years now, swing together and apart .... heaven  |
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I’ve been lucky enough to meet two special women via fab, not at the same time I hasten to add !!
One 18 month relationship and one lasting 13 months, neither ending for bad reasons, and both very intense affairs.
I’d very much like to meet another fantastic woman to go on a journey with. Recommended ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" A long term exclusive FWB though definitely. Which I suppose is a kind of relationship of sorts. "
So, the whole FWB thing... what is everyone’s definition of that and how is that different from a relationship? I guess the definition of relationship would help also.
I’ve never actively looked for a relationship, or love, but I have actively looked for sex. Sometimes you don’t control what you find when looking for something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" A long term exclusive FWB though definitely. Which I suppose is a kind of relationship of sorts.
So, the whole FWB thing... what is everyone’s definition of that and how is that different from a relationship? I guess the definition of relationship would help also.
I’ve never actively looked for a relationship, or love, but I have actively looked for sex. Sometimes you don’t control what you find when looking for something else."
I guess my definition of a FWB is a relationship without the baggage.
You live separately, have separate finances, you're not involved with their families or kids and you don't do their laundry 
It's just the fun stuff and intimacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined the local Poly meet-up club but then found someone wonderful on here. Early days as a 2 man lady but it’s going great! "
We met on here and are hoping to marry next year |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Can't be arsed with relationships anymore, but someone could always change my mind."
Can't be arsed with casual anymore. Searching high and low every few months. They're actually quite a load of hassle themselves. |
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"Ever since I got into the lifestyle I have wanted a long term relationship with a woman into this.
So far its eluded me.
How many people are lucky enough for this to happen to them?"
We met on Fab as singles. We’re now married! It can happen. But mainly when you’re not expecting it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" A long term exclusive FWB though definitely. Which I suppose is a kind of relationship of sorts.
So, the whole FWB thing... what is everyone’s definition of that and how is that different from a relationship? I guess the definition of relationship would help also.
I’ve never actively looked for a relationship, or love, but I have actively looked for sex. Sometimes you don’t control what you find when looking for something else.
I guess my definition of a FWB is a relationship without the baggage.
You live separately, have separate finances, you're not involved with their families or kids and you don't do their laundry
It's just the fun stuff and intimacy."
Exactly this. Nobody will be meeting my kids, my parents, sharing my bed, house, money or life. I liked the bubble analogy before Covid. |
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