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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

... stop thinking/dreaming/fantasizing about something that is not going to happen, as it is messing up my poor head!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You find an alternative that Is possible! Well I do

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman  over a year ago

east london

acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

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then have a wank!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

"

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Done all that, however, I have not been able to "bury" it in my head so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

then have a wank! "

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Trust you to come up with that one!

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

then have a wank!

.

Trust you to come up with that one! "

dont tell me you hadnt thought of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You find an alternative that Is possible! Well I do "

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It is an all or nothing situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

then have a wank!

.

Trust you to come up with that one! dont tell me you hadnt thought of it! "

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You know me too well it is scary!

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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Think of the same situation with someone you hate

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think of the same situation with someone you hate"

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Eh, no way!

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Think of the same situation with someone you hate

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Eh, no way! "

Might put you off it

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By *ushroom7Man  over a year ago

Bradford

Most folks do this. Most folks enjoy it for what it is and move on. Same thing, different object of desire/fantasy.

Enjoy it whilst you can.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wish I knew the answer.

Perhaps the answer is wine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think of the same situation with someone you hate

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Eh, no way!

Might put you off it"

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I get it, kind of like a cold shower. May work, however, very off-putting just the thought of it, eeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww!

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By *a and kaCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire(ish)


"acknowledge it, rationalise it, shrug your shoulder and wistfully smile.

then have a wank! "

Works every time

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Think of the same situation with someone you hate

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Eh, no way!

Might put you off it

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I get it, kind of like a cold shower. May work, however, very off-putting just the thought of it, eeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww! "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think of the same situation with someone you hate

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Eh, no way!

Might put you off it

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I get it, kind of like a cold shower. May work, however, very off-putting just the thought of it, eeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww!

Exactly "

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Hmmmmm, not as enjoyable though.

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"... stop thinking/dreaming/fantasizing about something that is not going to happen, as it is messing up my poor head!

"

Ok seriously Pearl, throw yourself into your dancing n walking the dog n camping...enjoy a few trips to a club and try and distract yourself....xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"... stop thinking/dreaming/fantasizing about something that is not going to happen, as it is messing up my poor head!

Ok seriously Pearl, throw yourself into your dancing n walking the dog n camping...enjoy a few trips to a club and try and distract yourself....xxx"

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I can't help but think about it when I am out walking the dog or whenever I have a moment to spare!

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"... stop thinking/dreaming/fantasizing about something that is not going to happen, as it is messing up my poor head!

Ok seriously Pearl, throw yourself into your dancing n walking the dog n camping...enjoy a few trips to a club and try and distract yourself....xxx

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I can't help but think about it when I am out walking the dog or whenever I have a moment to spare! "

Put yourself in a position where you are not alone and/or do not have time to dwell on things

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't worry I had the same thoughts today of something that I know is never going to happen so I am just going to stop thinking but its nice sometimes to think of the "what ifs"... Strange as it may sound..

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By *ushroom7Man  over a year ago

Bradford

Think positive.

MAKE it happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

As the lyrics of the Glen Miller song goes:

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Wishing will make it so

Just keep on wishing and care will go

Dreamers tell us dreams come true

It's no mistake

And wishes are the dreams we dream

When we're awake

The curtain of night will part

If you are certain within your heart

So if you wish long enough, wish strong enough

You will come to know

Wishing will make it so

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One of my favourite songs!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I can't help but think about it when I am out walking the dog or whenever I have a moment to spare! "

Find a way or you will end up overthinking it...;-)

If youre waiting for a bad thing, it probably wont be as bad as you think...

If its a good thing it may not be able to compete with your imagination... Then you will spoilt it...;-)

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By *ushroom7Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"As the lyrics of the Glen Miller song goes:

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Wishing will make it so

Just keep on wishing and care will go

Dreamers tell us dreams come true

It's no mistake

And wishes are the dreams we dream

When we're awake

The curtain of night will part

If you are certain within your heart

So if you wish long enough, wish strong enough

You will come to know

Wishing will make it so

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One of my favourite songs! "

Would i be correct in thinking that doesn't work too well at fixing aeroplanes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Probably not!

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