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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"i guess an ideal relationship is one that allows the other person to breath and be their own selves and grow together in the same direction with love and respect i am lucky enough to have this but im not sure if thats the type of answer your looking for everyones ideal is different i guess  "
It would be a good starting point for me. If I can be what and who I am without worrying about being judged, if the other person complements my personality, if there is fun in being together and I like their company in good and and bad times... and finally if I can respect them..Thats good enough for me. |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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as K and I have been together 37 years and married 35 (nearly) I suppose we have what we consider to be the perfect relationship - and she lets me play with other women so its a relationship with bonus too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are what exactly? WHo has one of those and what makes it so great? "
I'm single for pretty much the first time in my adult life, now this is proving to be my greatest relationship |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"are what exactly? WHo has one of those and what makes it so great?
I'm single for pretty much the first time in my adult life, now this is proving to be my greatest relationship "
I love ebing in a relationship, I will be honest - but having said that there is also a great sense of freedom and independence in being able to make decisions without having to consider anybody else. Pros a and cons as usual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im crap at them.. longest ones been 6 months.
ideal for me would be a man 8pm til 8am... so me n squidge can do our thing by day and id have a man for night time |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Im crap at them.. longest ones been 6 months.
ideal for me would be a man 8pm til 8am... so me n squidge can do our thing by day and id have a man for night time "
Its the old dilemma if independence versus the relationship. Wonder if there are people who found ahappy lifestyle and compromise between the two? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i think its to do with TRUSTING one another weather it be swinging or normal day 2 day things without trust u have nothink"
Trust is probably one of the three top indegredients I agree
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