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"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago "Are you getting it wrong then? | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? " I'd compare it more to a unicycle, with a bit more skill involved and if you lose concentration it's all falls to shit.... Xx | |||
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"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. " Awww that's cool, and good to hear  | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. " Sound advice I reckon x
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. " Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it  | |||
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"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago
Are you getting it wrong then? "Well my abilities aren't in question, just my appeal, these days, I think :-/ | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. " Yes....that's exactly it. I actually 'forgot' how to even imagine sex. | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? " Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q... | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. " As it did with me!! I was surprised how it just came roaring back suddenly. | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it "Spot on! | |||
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"I think the reverse is happening to me. With no sex since February I'm like a caged animal ready to be released back into the wild. I'm hornier and sexier than ever. I feel sorry for the first guy I get with when I get vaccine. "I'm scared for them all the time!! | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )"I get insulted on a daily basis for not being a real woman and it does get me down but not for long, Guess you could say I temporarily lose my sexiness | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it "I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do | |||
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"I am still getting it but am sure my sexy fucked off months ago
Are you getting it wrong then?
Well my abilities aren't in question, just my appeal, these days, I think :-/"I find you very appealing | |||
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"If your mind is back in the zone then I’m pretty sure your body will follow xx" This is what I'm hoping for. Plus I think it's always a bit new and different with any new partner | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )
What is sex again? You can do it with another person?
It’s been a while... "Yeah, do it with me.... | |||
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"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. Yes....that's exactly it. I actually 'forgot' how to even imagine sex." I had that same problem when Meli mentioned they do white chocolate oranges now. I can't even imagine the taste....  | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? " I was about to say that!!! Haha | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q..." Instructions shcmucksions... | |||
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"Yes you can lose it, it's difficult to maintain alone" Alone I'm fine lolololol | |||
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"Like an outdoor tap It can be turned on and off... In winter times it’s get frozen solid "Solid is good though, right? | |||
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"I think the reverse is happening to me. With no sex since February I'm like a caged animal ready to be released back into the wild. I'm hornier and sexier than ever. I feel sorry for the first guy I get with when I get vaccine. "I'm like that too, I'm just wondering if I'll forget the subtle beautiful tactile aspects in a fluster of horniness.... | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? " It is *exactly* like riding a bike. I can't ride a bike. | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever had it. Unless awkward, giggly and a bit clumsy are sexy.. in which case I rock that "You most certainly have not lost it | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? It is *exactly* like riding a bike. I can't ride a bike. "Neither can I!! | |||
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"I think it can be suppressed but when the right partner entices it out of you, its like it never went away " Choice of partner is defo critical  . Always best to stay fussy imho | |||
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Being slightly more serious, I think that skills in sex only go so far - it's more about the ability to listen to the other, read their reactions and take on anything they say (if they do). So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt. | |||
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"I don't think you lose it cause I think it's an inbuilt thing but I know I feel a bit anxious about getting jiggy with someone cause it's been a fair while. I'm guessing /hoping that once the initial self consciousness goes then all will be fine.... Assuming I get to that point with someone "I reckon it'll be the same for both parties in most cases. Hopefully it's all gonna just fit into place so to speak.... | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it
I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do "Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on? | |||
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"I think My self confidence has taken a it of a battering of late " Hopefully when things are normal and you have a beautiful person begging you to stick it inside them that'll have the complete reverse affect | |||
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"Nah...whenever I've had a long break I return with a vengeance
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"I’ve turned mine off as I’m not using it anymore "Can I borrow a cup of sexiness please? | |||
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"I lose it all the time...sex drive/confidence/any faith in my, erm, abilities. Just because I get busy and forget to be in any way sexual. Always comes back when it comes to it though. I'm sure my longterm friends from here must think I'm two people when they get in touch, based on how far I swing between uber sexual and mumsy! " I think mumsy and normal can often be sexier than sexy, especially on a sex site | |||
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"I loose mine from time to time stress and other issues just blows it out of the window. It happens to us all at times just as long as it comes back its all good. "Your boobs are helping with mine... | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )
I get insulted on a daily basis for not being a real woman and it does get me down but not for long, Guess you could say I temporarily lose my sexiness "Fuck 'em, just be you....
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"I don’t think I’ve ever had it. Unless awkward, giggly and a bit clumsy are sexy.. in which case I rock that "Your faded boob art was sexy af!   | |||
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"I'm not planning on losing my sexiness or divulging myself of the sheer animal magnetism ladies find in me until around my 85th birthday. Luke " I get that. I honestly feel sexier with age. I think it comes with confidence | |||
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"You can definitely lose one's sexiness. It's not an age thing, it's an attitude thing. I used to be much sexier than I am now. I don't even know how I lost it or how to get it back. Answers on a postcard please. Or a pm! " Awwww no fella. We need to find you a nice girl to send you boobs
Btw, nobody has sent me boobs yet (do people even read the full thread blurb?  ) | |||
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"Not sure I ever had it to lose" We're all sexy to someone | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? It is *exactly* like riding a bike. I can't ride a bike. "
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"I’m still looking for mine not sure I ever found it lol" I think maybe it's for other people to find in you and I'm sure they have | |||
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"Yeah Bump, probably best to write it off as twenty seconds of disappointment. Reassure her the next time will be at least a minute and you'll be fine.
Being slightly more serious, I think that skills in sex only go so far - it's more about the ability to listen to the other, read their reactions and take on anything they say (if they do). So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt."Hi Meli, The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals.... Also, please send boobs | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it
I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do
Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on? "Stop being so wise and sexy.... | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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"Kinda feel like mine wandered off a few years ago. " Run forest run! Catch it up.... | |||
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"Personally I think sexiness is more your state of mind. It's all relative to your confidence, self esteem etc which fluctuates wildly depending on what's going on around you. I'd never class myself as sexy but don't consider myself unattractive but other times I don't feel attractive at all yet still look exactly the same both times. " I think personally I'm kinda coming to the conclusion that sexiness is inbuilt. It's the thing that defies mood, luck, confidence or external influences? | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday. "Faf yet? | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
Faf yet? "Fine, but only because no one else wants to | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday. " That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "Really hard then. I know they meant it nicely though which makes it worse haha. I might take some more pics this weekend see if I can filter the sexy back in | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "Finding a what ?? | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.
Finding a what ?? "Just a random part of the body that doesn't do much, don't worry about Slim. | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )
Afraid you've lost your Midas touch Op? "Nope, never lol. I was just wondering if I'd be able to connect in the same way. But I guess that has quite a bit to do with the person I'm with? | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it
I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do
Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on?
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
Faf yet?
Fine, but only because no one else wants to "That made ME feel so sexy!!!! | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit. "A what? | |||
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"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head "Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.
Finding a what ?? "Lol beat me too it, I'm playing catch up | |||
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"Obv it's not like forgetting where you left your car keys. BUT, if you've not had a lot of action in a while can you lose your touch? I'm thinking about doing some shagging again (in a bubble obv) and I haven't done much in the last six months (certainly nothing great or regular) - so is that going to be like pressing reset? Or do you think people are born with a certain amount of sex appeal and natural, innate sex skill? Waddaya think? Much love
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(also, if anyone has boobs to send me, please raise your hand or get in my box plz, thanks )
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Nope, never lol. I was just wondering if I'd be able to connect in the same way. But I guess that has quite a bit to do with the person I'm with? "Exactly that. | |||
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"I lost my sexiness today when I was told I look like a young Caroline quentin on face pic Friday.
That's bollocks Lily, you don't at all. Find that sexiness again, it should be as easy as a man finding a clit.
Finding a what ??
Just a random part of the body that doesn't do much, don't worry about Slim. "I find me women much prefer vigorous stimulation deep inside the bumhole.... | |||
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"lok So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt. Hi Meli, The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals.... Also, please send boobs "I think the great mental sex comes from the dreaded connection and compatibility in all honesty. You want someone you can spark off of, that stimulates you on a particular level. That, for me anyway, is what makes great sex well, great. You have reminded me to send boobs to someone though, what's a good angle for a boob shot? | |||
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"Mines been missing this year "Boobs in my box plz | |||
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"No you can't lose it. I had no self confidence and my sexy side had packed its bags and fucked right off. Took one guy, first meet to realise it hadn't fucked off, it was just hiding and it came right back. Make yourself feel nice beforehand. You know... the whole shower, shave and dress in a way that makes you feel good. Totally agree with this, think the one thing that prevents you feeling sexy is the circumstances you find yourself in and often your own brain. Sometimes you just need a find a way to rekindle it
I think my brain is always sexy, I'm just not sure if when I get my hands on a naked person they'll remember what to do
Yeah but that's the same if you meet someone new though regardless of amount of time that has passed is it not? Isn't that part of the fun of a new partner is figuring out what it is that turns them on?
Stop being so wise and sexy....
When you stop asking long winded questions, I'll think about it "My questions are genius and you love me. I have it in text and that's like a contract... | |||
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"*it. Ffs. Honestly. Why can I not type today? I've spent a good hour on a fricking stupid report and that had no errors and now it's like I'm typing utter gobbledegook. "Too much practice can be a bad thing then? | |||
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"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head
Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... "not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple | |||
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"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch. Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X" Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js.... | |||
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"lok So if you think you can truly pay attention to another, that trumps all the mad skills like breathing through your ears or making every single sexual partner squirt. Hi Meli, The part you mentioned after skills, about listening etc - THAT'S what I call skills and that's what I'd be worried about, being out of practice at great mental sex, not so much the mechanicals.... Also, please send boobs
I think the great mental sex comes from the dreaded connection and compatibility in all honesty. You want someone you can spark off of, that stimulates you on a particular level. That, for me anyway, is what makes great sex well, great.
You have reminded me to send boobs to someone though, what's a good angle for a boob shot? "Stick the camera between your thighs and shoot it upwards. Send them to ME plz | |||
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"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head
Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple "Yes, just like that! When neither of you care about appearance but you just need to get further inside each others bodies and minds.... | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q... Instructions shcmucksions... "The bloody instruction sheet is going to be written in Swedish, and I'm not going to be able to find half the bits... | |||
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"You can lose your sexiness yes... You should see me the morning after I've over done it on the gin, absolutely nothing sexy happening there I look like Falkor if he was a crack head
Noooooo, when you wake up next to someone you've had a great night with it can be the sexiest thing ever..... not first thing in the morning with a hangover... with my mole eyes and hair likes it's brushed with a toffee apple
Yes, just like that! When neither of you care about appearance but you just need to get further inside each others bodies and minds.... " don't know about that, I'm more of a feed me and leave me kind of girl if hungover at least for a few hours anyway | |||
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"After a bad divorce i had not wanted a woman for 4yrs. Jenny came along and totally changed my outlook on women again. She if i am honest is the love of my life. But answering your question i got straight back in to the swing of sex instantly. She turned me on so much it could not have been any other way. Awww that's cool, and good to hear "And he changed my view on men. I wasted so much of my life on the wrong men. Wish id met john 30yrs ago. I have never felt so full filled in my life. Jen x | |||
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"Isn't it like riding a bike? Nope. I've got on a bike after a ten year gap and pedalled off with no problems. Sex though, I'm definitely going have to learn again from scratch exactly what to do. Might need an instruction leaflet... Align part B with piece BB, rotate fixing C counter-clockwise using tool Q... Instructions shcmucksions...
The bloody instruction sheet is going to be written in Swedish, and I'm not going to be able to find half the bits..."I could quite fancy being instructed by a Swede.... | |||
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"After a few years of very little sex, when i do it I don’t feel comfortable saying things during sex or letting myself go,i put it down to lost confidence as I would of previously considered myself to be a responsive lover " This doesn't surprise me given the content in your profile. I hope things get better for you. What brought you to fab? | |||
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"After a few years of very little sex, when i do it I don’t feel comfortable saying things during sex or letting myself go,i put it down to lost confidence as I would of previously considered myself to be a responsive lover This doesn't surprise me given the content in your profile. I hope things get better for you. What brought you to fab? "I know a couple of friends who are openly on here and ive heard the stories and I thought I could get an insight into women who need more sex and partners and I suppose a little bit of me thought id get clues as to why they do it. | |||
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"Like an outdoor tap It can be turned on and off... In winter times it’s get frozen solid
Solid is good though, right? "If I find someone brave or foolish enough to play ice dildos with... I’ll let you know | |||
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"Maybe. It’s a bit like dancing. When you’re young and you hit the dance floor you feel like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever or Beyoncé in the Crazy in love vid. Then you reach a certain age and the hips don’t gyrate as well as they used to and you feel self conscious and a bit wooden. Sex after a big gap can feel like that. " Wooden is a great comparison thats how I feel sometimes | |||
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"Like an outdoor tap It can be turned on and off... In winter times it’s get frozen solid
Solid is good though, right?
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"Maybe. It’s a bit like dancing. When you’re young and you hit the dance floor you feel like John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever or Beyoncé in the Crazy in love vid. Then you reach a certain age and the hips don’t gyrate as well as they used to and you feel self conscious and a bit wooden. Sex after a big gap can feel like that. " Wood is good though, right? | |||
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"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it." I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom | |||
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"I've lost pretty much all my feelings of being 'sexy' It's very rare I have sexual feelings these days, let alone sex, despite having a partner I'd say I'm averaging about one cum a month at the minute Go back 7 or 8 years and rarely a week went by that I didn't have a meet, sometimes 2 or 3 in a day when I was home based. So, yes, you can lose it " Hope it picks up soon fella
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"I can really see the bike analogy. Getting back in the saddle after some time and I'm fucked within 10mins! Remember to breathe "Seriously though, sometimes I can get so into sex that I forget to breathe. You get all shared breathing pacey to begin with and then occasionally further down the path when I'm about to cum I'm like "best take a breath now lad before you cumfaint!" | |||
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"Lost all my sexiness. Its been a very tough year, a lot more than this crappy virus. Will rebuild me, fall back in love with me and get my sexiness back. " I'm sorry to hear that and I hope it all comes flooding back soon. Sending you some bump love in the meantime.... x | |||
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"Lost all my sexiness. Its been a very tough year, a lot more than this crappy virus. Will rebuild me, fall back in love with me and get my sexiness back. I'm sorry to hear that and I hope it all comes flooding back soon. Sending you some bump love in the meantime.... x"Thanks Bump xx | |||
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"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch. Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js.... "They’re right there on my profile  | |||
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"Like an outdoor tap It can be turned on and off... In winter times it’s get frozen solid
Solid is good though, right?
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"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it. I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom "Thank you. I think I’m respected more than desired, and to be honest that suits me. | |||
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"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it. I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom
Thank you. I think I’m respected more than desired, and to be honest that suits me."Take the compliment man, you're sexy! | |||
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"I think you can lose your sexual confidence, but not your sexual touch. Relax, enjoy it and communicate!! That’s always the key. X Haven't seen your boobs in a while either btw, js....
They’re right there on my profile "I'll go look now. I might be busy for a little while.... | |||
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"Definitely!! Sexiness and feeling sexy is so closely linked to self confidence that if you don’t feel good about yourself or have not had it in a long time I can tell you it’s a scary not sexy place you can get too Getting it back is fun though" Do to think some people are born with sexy though? Or is it just they're wired slightly differently and more self confident? | |||
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"Yes, definitely. I feel like I have been enveloped in a middle-aged cloak of invisibility since Covid. I haven't even let myself go (much)." I felt a bit like that around the time I had my daughter - everything went family oriented and I lost a litte of identity I think, or perhaps rather donated it. But then the last maybe 7 or 8 years I've clawed it back and feel sexier and more confident in general than ever
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"Another pair of amazing boobies now gratefully received and keeping me warm on a miserable winters evening. Thank you beautiful.... "And another - you're really spoiling me, thanks | |||
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"I have concerns over the tightness of my vagina, she hasnt had much work these last few months and may have gotten lazy "Have you seen the size of my cock? It's not gonna be an issue.....
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"I wasn’t sexy to start with - too gormless and clumsy to be sexy "Oh behave, you've been sexy since I first saw you on fab.... | |||
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"Mines well and truly done one!!!!
"Well, I don't believe you. Your pics are gorgeous and you're also in the next two along from me. Definitely some post covid potential! x | |||
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"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back" Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet..... | |||
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"Pretty sure I remember how. Not sure about my vagina though. " So anal is ok then....? | |||
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"Have I lost my sexy? I’m sure it’s around somewhere I just can’t be bothered to look for it. "I fabbed it the other day | |||
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"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep." You're making up for it now! | |||
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"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep. You're making up for it now! "God loves a trier | |||
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"I never felt sexy when the kids were young. I was too tired to feel much as working full time nights and getting very little sleep. You're making up for it now!
God loves a trier "Always! (send boobs ) | |||
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"I had a bit a bit of sex appeal when I was younger, but it has definitely waned over the years. It’s pretty much deserted me these days. I do think if you don’t use it, you lose it. I think you're a sexy fella doc! I'm not that way inclined but I could see why plenty of women would find you attractive, both in looks and also in your attitude and wisdom
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"I apparently ooze sex appeal but it take me being all dressed up sexy to feel sexy. I have it in me when I want to unleash it. " Does your sexy come from you or others or a combination? x | |||
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"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet..... "I will be one of those that erupts once a century then | |||
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"Mine has disappeared completely, and I am not so fussed at the moment if it comes back Do you really mean that noHope? I see you more as a smouldering sex volcano waiting patiently to one day erupt hot sticky lava all over an unsuspecting villager at your feet.....
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"Absolutely I lost it a couple of yrs ago" Is there a sexy graveyard or something? Where's does all this lost sexy go....? Xx | |||
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"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence" When you're up, send boobs.... | |||
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Thats NSP's job "Tell her to get on it then. And send back up boobs anyway just in case.... | |||
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"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence When you're up, send boobs....
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"I think it's a state of mind.. It ebbs and flows... When I'm up i oooze sexy + confidence When you're up, send boobs....
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But I've already sent boobs today!"Well whoever you sent them to is a lucky fella/girl... Send boobs to ME plz, thx | |||
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"I think mine is down the back of the sofa. "So whoever next sits on your sofa might get possessed by your sexy.... ....like a sexy trap! | |||
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