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I'm trying to sort a secret fantasy for Jessica when safe to do so. It's a simple one do - or so I thought.
Basically a fake breakdown in hotel car park. I'd stand by open bonnet scratching my head. Guy gets out of his car in mechanics overalls and takes a look. Looks Jessica up and down, smiles and says "I could sort that easily enough but I'd expect something in return". And so it starts.
So far I've had one guy not willing to talk away from fab (must be that way to maintain the surprise element), one not willing to get hold of overalls and one who lives 200+ miles away.
Why is it so difficult to find genuinely interested people? |
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"The more niche your wants, the less likely they are to be fulfilled "
It seems that's the case. Hardly niche though is it? grab some overalls and baffle Jessica with the tiniest bit of engine talk (believe me she won't have a clue about what's under the bonnet). |
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"I'm trying to sort a secret fantasy for Jessica when safe to do so. It's a simple one do - or so I thought.
Basically a fake breakdown in hotel car park. I'd stand by open bonnet scratching my head. Guy gets out of his car in mechanics overalls and takes a look. Looks Jessica up and down, smiles and says "I could sort that easily enough but I'd expect something in return". And so it starts.
So far I've had one guy not willing to talk away from fab (must be that way to maintain the surprise element), one not willing to get hold of overalls and one who lives 200+ miles away.
Why is it so difficult to find genuinely interested people? "
What if she isn’t attracted to the bloke and he knows nothing about car, pretty awkward I should imagine, everyone just looking in the engine, then what, ?! |
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"I'm trying to sort a secret fantasy for Jessica when safe to do so. It's a simple one do - or so I thought.
Basically a fake breakdown in hotel car park. I'd stand by open bonnet scratching my head. Guy gets out of his car in mechanics overalls and takes a look. Looks Jessica up and down, smiles and says "I could sort that easily enough but I'd expect something in return". And so it starts.
So far I've had one guy not willing to talk away from fab (must be that way to maintain the surprise element), one not willing to get hold of overalls and one who lives 200+ miles away.
Why is it so difficult to find genuinely interested people?
What if she isn’t attracted to the bloke and he knows nothing about car, pretty awkward I should imagine, everyone just looking in the engine, then what, ?!"
I know exactly what type of guy she likes so that wouldn't be an issue. As for mechanical knowledge you really wouldn't need much as she knows nothing at all about an engine. It could be as simple as "connectors come off the battery terminal" simples  |
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"Because they are not sure if this fantasy is for you or her if she is not involved possibly."
How will they know she consents?
I think it's encouraging that men are wary. Means they don't all think with their dick. |
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Its your fantasy not theirs though, your asking for a bit of a performance from them really that may or may not result in a shag. Id feel a bit reluctant I think too, you need an out of work actor thats looking to hone his skills a bit, with a shag or a slapped face to reward his efforts  |
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"The more niche your wants, the less likely they are to be fulfilled
It seems that's the case. Hardly niche though is it? grab some overalls and baffle Jessica with the tiniest bit of engine talk (believe me she won't have a clue about what's under the bonnet). "
It's quite specific. A lot of folks don't like scripted sex scenarios |
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I can imagine a lot of men not wanting the hassle of going through with an outside acting roleplay scenario.
Tell them the Mrs is at home dressed as a nurse and looking for appointments and they'll be queuing up
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"I'm trying to sort a secret fantasy for Jessica when safe to do so. It's a simple one do - or so I thought.
Basically a fake breakdown in hotel car park. I'd stand by open bonnet scratching my head. Guy gets out of his car in mechanics overalls and takes a look. Looks Jessica up and down, smiles and says "I could sort that easily enough but I'd expect something in return". And so it starts.
So far I've had one guy not willing to talk away from fab (must be that way to maintain the surprise element), one not willing to get hold of overalls and one who lives 200+ miles away.
Why is it so difficult to find genuinely interested people? "
I'd think it would be pretty easy having guys queueing up for a bit of a fun scenario like that... What's the worst that can happen! Everyone has a laugh... Best case... Some horny fun and maybe further invites to explore with a sexy couple. What's not to like? |
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Look at it from the opposite angle. If a guy came to you with this scenario wouldn't you be just a little bit cynical? If I were the female I don't think I'd like it either but you'll know your partner I guess. I'm not surprised men aren't going for it, too many variables. |
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"Because they are not sure if this fantasy is for you or her if she is not involved possibly.
How will they know she consents?
I think it's encouraging that men are wary. Means they don't all think with their dick. "
They'll know she consents by her responses and behaviour. It's one of many, many fantasies we've discussed. |
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"Its your fantasy not theirs though, your asking for a bit of a performance from them really that may or may not result in a shag. Id feel a bit reluctant I think too, you need an out of work actor thats looking to hone his skills a bit, with a shag or a slapped face to reward his efforts "
It's one of many, many fantasies we've discussed. So it's our fantasy. I've organised a few fantasys in the past and my judgement on the other person has not been wrong yet. |
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As a single guy..... I get emails from men with these unaware wives scenarios daily.....
What you have to understand Op... is that without the wife’s prior consent... You’re basically asking the guy to take your word that the wife is game for this....
This would work much better with a male you have met already.... |
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"The more niche your wants, the less likely they are to be fulfilled
It seems that's the case. Hardly niche though is it? grab some overalls and baffle Jessica with the tiniest bit of engine talk (believe me she won't have a clue about what's under the bonnet).
It's quite specific. A lot of folks don't like scripted sex scenarios "
The initial meeting is a loose script yes. Once the fake repair done and in hotel room it will be down to the moment so the sex isn't scripted at all. It'll develop naturally and all will go with the flow |
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"I'm trying to sort a secret fantasy for Jessica when safe to do so. It's a simple one do - or so I thought.
Basically a fake breakdown in hotel car park. I'd stand by open bonnet scratching my head. Guy gets out of his car in mechanics overalls and takes a look. Looks Jessica up and down, smiles and says "I could sort that easily enough but I'd expect something in return". And so it starts.
So far I've had one guy not willing to talk away from fab (must be that way to maintain the surprise element), one not willing to get hold of overalls and one who lives 200+ miles away.
Why is it so difficult to find genuinely interested people?
I'd think it would be pretty easy having guys queueing up for a bit of a fun scenario like that... What's the worst that can happen! Everyone has a laugh... Best case... Some horny fun and maybe further invites to explore with a sexy couple. What's not to like? "
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"Look at it from the opposite angle. If a guy came to you with this scenario wouldn't you be just a little bit cynical? If I were the female I don't think I'd like it either but you'll know your partner I guess. I'm not surprised men aren't going for it, too many variables. "
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"As a single guy..... I get emails from men with these unaware wives scenarios daily.....
What you have to understand Op... is that without the wife’s prior consent... You’re basically asking the guy to take your word that the wife is game for this....
This would work much better with a male you have met already...."
Appreciate your comments but as said previously its one of many fantasies we have discussed. We also have a safe word in operation so Jessica wouldn't be in any situation she's not comfortable with. |
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"As a single guy..... I get emails from men with these unaware wives scenarios daily.....
What you have to understand Op... is that without the wife’s prior consent... You’re basically asking the guy to take your word that the wife is game for this....
This would work much better with a male you have met already....
Appreciate your comments but as said previously its one of many fantasies we have discussed. We also have a safe word in operation so Jessica wouldn't be in any situation she's not comfortable with. "
You know that but they don't.
I arranged similar scenarios with my partner but I always spoke to the men first. Partly to prove that I exist and it wasn't just some single man/ fake couple fantasy. And partly to assure them of my consent.
I agree with rbc, I'd suggest you ask someone you've already met before so they know there's no risk. |
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"Because they are not sure if this fantasy is for you or her if she is not involved possibly."
Yep got the same thing, a guy has contacted me and wants to watch me and his wife, he needs to get her tipsy first it seems. His fantasy but not hers I suspect |
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"Because they are not sure if this fantasy is for you or her if she is not involved possibly.
Yep got the same thing, a guy has contacted me and wants to watch me and his wife, he needs to get her tipsy first it seems. His fantasy but not hers I suspect"
Women who need to get 'tipsy' to shag are very unappealing. Seen loads in clubs and at parties.  |
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over a year ago
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Some people are more interested in the set up than the delivery, however I would be concerned if she were unaware of the plan as any activity may not be fully consensual but instead coerced. |
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"As a single guy..... I get emails from men with these unaware wives scenarios daily.....
What you have to understand Op... is that without the wife’s prior consent... You’re basically asking the guy to take your word that the wife is game for this....
This would work much better with a male you have met already...."
Plus most hotel car parks have cameras etc. |
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