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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you.looking to find out op
What peoples, youngest / oldest would be? "
I first joined fab at 18, I never struggled...but it's much easier for women.
A lot of people will find your age a turn off. Some will find it appealing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right so I’m a 19 year old. I really have no age limit? What’s peoples thoughts on this!? "
You may want to check out a recent thread from 3 days ago, may find it interesting!
Forums - Swingers Chat - How old would you go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore) |
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)"
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x |
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By *ountrylad19 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x"
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age |
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age"
Yes as I said yesterday having a grandson 21 it would just seem wrong ! I know if I found out if a woman my age was interested in him I would not b to happy! Although I accept it would b none of my business x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age
Yes as I said yesterday having a grandson 21 it would just seem wrong ! I know if I found out if a woman my age was interested in him I would not b to happy! Although I accept it would b none of my business x"
Same here. In my case my older ones are females so a guy of my age being interested in them would make me uncomfortable too. |
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over a year ago
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age"
I think there's a maternal/parent element to it. The way I interact with my kids and there friends or lovers etc is different as it comes from a parent perspective most of the time. |
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age
Yes as I said yesterday having a grandson 21 it would just seem wrong ! I know if I found out if a woman my age was interested in him I would not b to happy! Although I accept it would b none of my business x
Same here. In my case my older ones are females so a guy of my age being interested in them would make me uncomfortable too."
Yes my older grandchildren are girls x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can have or not have age preferences as you like.
Personally I prefer people at least a bit older than me, at a push I may meet someone my age, but not younger.
I don't really have an upper limit as long as there's a connection and attraction.
My usual age range is about 29-40 ish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right so I’m a 19 year old. I really have no age limit? What’s peoples thoughts on this!? "
My thoughts ??
You're an adult,you know your own mind,if you don't want an upper age limit,don't have one.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to be attracted to people older than me or my age, although I've found myself attracted to guys about 10 years younger.
Anyone young enough to be my child is a massive turn off to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most younger males could learn a lot from spending time with an older lady, especially when it comes to behaviour, courtesy & manners.
The experience I got & lessons learnt when I was younger were priceless. The things they taught me certainly led to better relations & pleasure with women my own age later on.  |
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"I think it really depends on a person's maturity rather than age. But I personally wouldn't go young. Mainly because of the fact they are either the same age as my children or the age my children would date. That's just weird being with someone who could potentially be suited to you child. (though technically they aren't children anymore)
Yes this ! I have grandchildren 21 24 and 27 x
See I find that weird to understand being the younger person! If I’m attracted then I’m attracted to them, it wouldn’t bother me if they had relatives or kids my age"
That's' because you don't have the experience or knowledge that older people do.
Most of us remember being 19 and thinking we knew what we were doing, consenting to the choices we made, taking what we thought were calculated risks and thinking we had a handle on our preferences and inclinations.
The truth is, the last thing human brains develop is cognition and that doesn't normally happen until around 23 years of age.
The other thing that happens as we age is when we view much younger folk than ourselves, we see them as even younger than they actually are. If I saw you, my brain would 'see' you as a child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right so I’m a 19 year old. I really have no age limit? What’s peoples thoughts on this!?
No age limits!!!! Your in big trouble then  "
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"Taxi for peter phile?" 
(Thats a joke by the way, I'm not calling you one by any means mate) |
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Age is immaterial. A jerk will always be a jerk, a prick will always be a prick. you will never know till you actually meet someone. Anyone who has age issues, it's their problem not yours. As, I say if you have a, problem with me the doors over there, |
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My son is younger than you, so absolutely no way.
I do have some questions though and would really appreciate thw answers if you'd be so kind. I'm asking people that have joined during this last lockdown.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?
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"My son is younger than you, so absolutely no way.
I do have some questions though and would really appreciate thw answers if you'd be so kind. I'm asking people that have joined during this last lockdown.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My son is younger than you, so absolutely no way.
I do have some questions though and would really appreciate thw answers if you'd be so kind. I'm asking people that have joined during this last lockdown.
I’m one of them so might be right person to answer. Became single person in 2019 and with in some time COVID happened
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site? Browsed online for sites with real people and not some bot answering machine and found it.
What do you want from it? To make friends, fwb and have connections need not be sexual only. Also I personally don’t want to fall in love again as it has made a dent in my heart already. Yes ofcourse my fantasies are huge so may be try make it a dream come true
What are your actual ....? I am expecting to know people, about their thoughts and may also find any part to get mutually benefit from each other by helping out. I feel also this as a medium to express myself and show the real me and also get matured.
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here? Tbh people make judgements out of people all the time. Only with maturity these preconceived thoughts would not interfere in natural happenings. I consider myself a slightly mature person. I can understand when a person is happy or hurt. People already here for years also have some preconceived idea that an Indian like me would smell curry at his armpits and have rude behaviour. Lol heard from a nice lady here in a conversation.
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in? Yes I would. like many sites some premium versions are for a cost and agree fab is not expensive one. Only thing that hurt is people need verification which is like finding water in a desert. They wanna meet who is already verified and given mtof ratio, m gets very less probability of getting accredited.
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"My son is younger than you, so absolutely no way.
I do have some questions though and would really appreciate thw answers if you'd be so kind. I'm asking people that have joined during this last lockdown.
I’m one of them so might be right person to answer. Became single person in 2019 and with in some time COVID happened
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site? Browsed online for sites with real people and not some bot answering machine and found it.
What do you want from it? To make friends, fwb and have connections need not be sexual only. Also I personally don’t want to fall in love again as it has made a dent in my heart already. Yes ofcourse my fantasies are huge so may be try make it a dream come true
What are your actual ....? I am expecting to know people, about their thoughts and may also find any part to get mutually benefit from each other by helping out. I feel also this as a medium to express myself and show the real me and also get matured.
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here? Tbh people make judgements out of people all the time. Only with maturity these preconceived thoughts would not interfere in natural happenings. I consider myself a slightly mature person. I can understand when a person is happy or hurt. People already here for years also have some preconceived idea that an Indian like me would smell curry at his armpits and have rude behaviour. Lol heard from a nice lady here in a conversation.
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in? Yes I would. like many sites some premium versions are for a cost and agree fab is not expensive one. Only thing that hurt is people need verification which is like finding water in a desert. They wanna meet who is already verified and given mtof ratio, m gets very less probability of getting accredited.
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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago
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"I'd get yourself to a cougars and cubs event at a club.
Might be waiting some time mind you, with their being this whole pandemic thing."
God I bloody wish the clubs could re-open!! Sadly, I can't see it happening any time soon... |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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I’m 36....29/50 is my age range
The 29yr old would need to be a mature individual who knows what he/she wants and who he/she is as would the 50yr old
Age is just a number but in my case I’d want to find a common ground, similar interests and find that is more likely when with people closer to my age
Good luck to you though xx |
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