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So if you could only have one in your life,which would you choose?
If you choose money,it will be in abundance, you will never want for anything again and can have whatever you desire that money can buy....but,you will never have love.
However,if you choose love,it will be forever and 100% true....but,you will forever struggle to make ends meet.... |
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"Are we struggling to make ends meet or living in poverty where we are hungry most days and cold in the winter. because love doesn't keep you warm and fed on its own"
You have the absolute bare minimum to survive but not hungry and cold.... |
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"Are we struggling to make ends meet or living in poverty where we are hungry most days and cold in the winter. because love doesn't keep you warm and fed on its own
You have the absolute bare minimum to survive but not hungry and cold...."
Probably love then but it's not easy to live part of your life with the bare minimum let alone all of it so I'm glad it's not a choice I have to make. |
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Depends. Would it be true true?
Would it be faithful?
Would it moan about the financial struggle and blame me?
If we're talking guarantee of a "perfect" relationship with no insecurity, cheating and all the other stuff that's seemingly fucking "normal" then yeah, I'd head there.
Other than that, fuck it. I'll take the money and vanish with my besties to an island with just us, all we need and wildlife. |
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"Depends. Would it be true true?
Would it be faithful?
Would it moan about the financial struggle and blame me?
If we're talking guarantee of a "perfect" relationship with no insecurity, cheating and all the other stuff that's seemingly fucking "normal" then yeah, I'd head there.
Other than that, fuck it. I'll take the money and vanish with my besties to an island with just us, all we need and wildlife."
True love,no cheating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Money please, the trick is even if you have love, how long will this love last then?
And this year has already been tough so I don't want any more of this tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Money please, yes money.
It may not buy me love, but I'll settle for the Lamborghini at the moment.  "
Money may not buy love but it buys passion and that is a lot of fun!! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"100% money.
I’ve gone without love for years and struggled financially and I know exactly which makes my life easier."
Wow.. I’d say the opposite. Had more than we need for most our lives, but when love isn’t right, nothing else has any real value |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"No love at all or just no being "in love"? "
Awwww. spoiler..... love is a verb not a noun , there’s no being in love , it’s just a fuzzy feeling in the first few weeks when you don’t notice they fart... |
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Money.
Love is beautiful but is hard to maintain when you're grindingly poor. Having been there I can tell you the "we was poor but we was 'appy" trope is horseshit.
With money but without love I can still have passion, respect, amity, fellowship - if I need more I'll buy myself a puppy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No love at all or just no being "in love"?
You can have love from family and friends but no love for or from a partner...."
Money then... I am not wanting a partner again so that's an easy one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well just as iv all ways thought lol
Lady’s love money more than the person psml  "
Please, not this tired old statement!
No, they do not love a man any less than his money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No love at all or just no being "in love"?
You can have love from family and friends but no love for or from a partner...."
As I'm already there and surviving, I'll take the money.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"True love is worth more than money "
".....aaaannnnddddd CUT. Print it. Excellent. Get those to editing. Well done ladies and gentleman, great day's filming...." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"True love is worth more than money
".....aaaannnnddddd CUT. Print it. Excellent. Get those to editing. Well done ladies and gentleman, great day's filming....""
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I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end. "
As I've said before, possessions are meaningless but money has bought an awful lot of fun, given charities funds that do good for others, helped friends, given experiences that money CAN buy......there are different types of love and money DOES 'buy' (but its generosity, not 'buying') love of other sorts that can be just as fulfilling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day "
Not based on circumstance. Based on experience of both, which would you rather have. |
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Money.....love has left me high and dry at times where I've given my all and they gave it all to someone else instead and im quite happy with my lot right now as it is.
Plus its far more comfortable to have no love sitting in a big posh house being pawed over by gorgeous gold diggers and with a garage full of exotica than it is to be loved hiding from the rain in a cardboard box wondering where your next bin meal is coming from  |
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"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day "
I don't have money. I have enough to live on and that's all I need. I have love of family and friends, but not 'the one'. I'd like to find someone, if they're out there. |
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"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day
Not based on circumstance. Based on experience of both, which would you rather have."
Love |
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"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day
I don't have money. I have enough to live on and that's all I need. I have love of family and friends, but not 'the one'. I'd like to find someone, if they're out there."
Me too I hope there is someone for both of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Money.....love has left me high and dry at times where I've given my all and they gave it all to someone else instead and im quite happy with my lot right now as it is.
Plus its far more comfortable to have no love sitting in a big posh house being pawed over by gorgeous gold diggers and with a garage full of exotica than it is to be loved hiding from the rain in a cardboard box wondering where your next bin meal is coming from "
Bravo!! |
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"I wonder how many people who say money have money. And the people who say love have love... I know for me I wouldn't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and money doesn't give you the things love does. I would take love any day "
I've neither money nor love (aside from friends, my son and my dad)
Yes money makes things more comfortable of course, however it can leave you empty without any love.
I've been on my knees financially (I'm talking food bank and no electricity on my knees) and the love of friends and my doggo got me through.
If the question had doubts that the love of a partner would be the loyal, non cheaty kind then I'd have defo gone for money tho, but not if it meant losing my friends. |
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"Love all the way. Possessions are meaningless in the end. "
Money pays for a lot more than just physical stuff.
Having been without both, I know from experience which one I missed, and it was money.
Love doesn't stop you starving. Love doesn't stop you being homeless. Love doesn't stop you dying from exposure in a shop doorway because you can't afford to participate in society.
All of my problems can be fixed with money. All of my desires can be fulfilled with money. Money can help people in a way that my love can't.
As I say whenever anyone brings up the noxious "Money can't buy you happiness" rubbish: Give me all of your money and prove it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love.
I'm a resourceful girl, so I can build a house, grow food, raise animals and do it with what the land has to offer.
What I can't grow or raise on the land, is love. That happens once or twice in a lifetime, so I'd rather nurture it and keep love close to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So if you could only have one in your life,which would you choose?
If you choose money,it will be in abundance, you will never want for anything again and can have whatever you desire that money can buy....but,you will never have love.
However,if you choose love,it will be forever and 100% true....but,you will forever struggle to make ends meet...."
I have already made that choice you describe above
sacrificed love for a very comfortable living, complicated situation but your statement above describes my situation exactly. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Love!
When you have love you are the richest people in the world and want for nothing.
Without love nothing has a value and you have nothing, which can be good as you don't realise how poor your life is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Money.
My mum used to tell me as a child 'money can't buy you happiness'....however if I have the money I can sort out my own happiness.  "
Hear, hear!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love.
I'm a resourceful girl, so I can build a house, grow food, raise animals and do it with what the land has to offer.
What I can't grow or raise on the land, is love. That happens once or twice in a lifetime, so I'd rather nurture it and keep love close to me. "
I'm too lazy to do all that. I'd rather pay someone else to do it for me. |
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