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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Afternoon all. I’m sending messages to women who would seem to be a good match . I always read profiles and try to tailor my messages. I realise women are inundated but wonder how I can stand out? Any advice greatly appreciated Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that - best chance in my experience is to attach a face pic. Women on site get many messages a day so it is pot luck mostly but a decent face pic is better than a dick pic, mostly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Afternoon all. I’m sending messages to women who would seem to be a good match . I always read profiles and try to tailor my messages. I realise women are inundated but wonder how I can stand out? Any advice greatly appreciated Thanks"
fave pictures help but offering cake is a 95% chance of a successful reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that - best chance in my experience is to attach a face pic. Women on site get many messages a day so it is pot luck mostly but a decent face pic is better than a dick pic, mostly!"
what if you ugly though?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that - best chance in my experience is to attach a face pic. Women on site get many messages a day so it is pot luck mostly but a decent face pic is better than a dick pic, mostly!what if you ugly though?"
cake cake cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that - best chance in my experience is to attach a face pic. Women on site get many messages a day so it is pot luck mostly but a decent face pic is better than a dick pic, mostly!what if you ugly though?"
Ha! then you won't get a reply! LoL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IMO - use the forums.
Show the ladies your personality and hopefully you'll catch a suitable lady's eye.
Oh - be patient, very patient.
Good luck"
dont forget cake wing man |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There is no magic formula OP but often when guys say they aren't getting responses it comes down to one of five things:
Profile - many people will look at your profile before even considering reading a message to see if it appeals to them - so take a look at yours and see if you think it helps you stand out, gives a flavour of who you are, what you're looking for and what you think you can offer - as you said yourself you message people you think you're a good match to, but do you show them that when they read your profile?
Pics - are your pics appealing? Do they show you off in a good way? Could you do more, or be more creative?
Attitude - do you display a positive attitude at all times, are you respectful and considerate etc?
Approach - have you got the right one, not only for the site but for you? There are many approaches other than just blindly messaging people, getting involved in the forums or chat rooms are two examples that are great ways to get to know people, and them you and of sparking conversations.
Expectations - are they set right? In terms of meeting people they should be set as low as possible and then turned down a notch - take a more laid back approach and you'll be surprised what a difference it makes.
None of the above offer any guarantees of course but get them right and they will improve your experience and perception of the site - get them wrong however and you'll just find it frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck m8 ! You can send 20 messages a day and not get a reply, Unless you have over 9 inches, lol
That’s true "
Not for all women it isn’t.
The size of your cock is probably the part I’m least interested in. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"IMO - use the forums.
Show the ladies your personality and hopefully you'll catch a suitable lady's eye.
Oh - be patient, very patient.
Good luck dont forget cake wing man "
You may have noticed - the cake is mine.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IMO - use the forums.
Show the ladies your personality and hopefully you'll catch a suitable lady's eye.
Oh - be patient, very patient.
Good luck dont forget cake wing man
You may have noticed - the cake is mine. "
give us a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, I wouldn’t bother sending any messages on here, especially at the moment.
Just join in on the forums, get yourself known (for the right reasons  ) and have fun.
Don’t worry about talking to anyone individually at first.
The more people get to know you, the more likely they are to want to chat to you privately.
Just don’t be a creep |
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"Good luck m8 ! You can send 20 messages a day and not get a reply, Unless you have over 9 inches, lol
That’s true
Not for all women it isn’t.
The size of your cock is probably the part I’m least interested in."
Some..but not all definitely |
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Now *should* in essence be a time for making new connections, however it really isn't.
People are bored, bereaved, lost jobs and lost hope, or the other end of the scale working flat out to keep people alive.
I know my profile is hidden but that's coz I'm sick to death of the meet now requests and people who lack respect.
So many women are feeling like they're being viewed as free prostitutes or pieces of meat at the moment. The atmosphere has declined hugely.
You can use the cam chat rooms and ask someone there to verify you, however if I were you I'd wait until it's declared safe to meet again before even thinking about getting a veri.
I personally don't trust cam veris to be cam and not meet veris, due to the blatant disregard for the rules, the status updates and messages I've been receiving from people wanting to meet, so anyone getting new veris during lockdown is going on my avoid list. I'm sure I won't be the only person with that view.
This is my advice to the tens of the same kind of question being asked.
Sorry I couldn't be more positive |
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Also, I'm doing my own kind of research almost. If you'd be so kind as to answer these questions I'd appreciate it.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There is no magic formula OP but often when guys say they aren't getting responses it comes down to one of five things:
Profile - many people will look at your profile before even considering reading a message to see if it appeals to them - so take a look at yours and see if you think it helps you stand out, gives a flavour of who you are, what you're looking for and what you think you can offer - as you said yourself you message people you think you're a good match to, but do you show them that when they read your profile?
Pics - are your pics appealing? Do they show you off in a good way? Could you do more, or be more creative?
Attitude - do you display a positive attitude at all times, are you respectful and considerate etc?
Approach - have you got the right one, not only for the site but for you? There are many approaches other than just blindly messaging people, getting involved in the forums or chat rooms are two examples that are great ways to get to know people, and them you and of sparking conversations.
Expectations - are they set right? In terms of meeting people they should be set as low as possible and then turned down a notch - take a more laid back approach and you'll be surprised what a difference it makes.
None of the above offer any guarantees of course but get them right and they will improve your experience and perception of the site - get them wrong however and you'll just find it frustrating."
We should have a sticky on the forums with this advice |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
Gourock |
"Also, I'm doing my own kind of research almost. If you'd be so kind as to answer these questions I'd appreciate it.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in?"
It's not free... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, I'm doing my own kind of research almost. If you'd be so kind as to answer these questions I'd appreciate it.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in? It's not free..."
Yes it is. |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
Gourock |
"Also, I'm doing my own kind of research almost. If you'd be so kind as to answer these questions I'd appreciate it.
I've been here some time now, and I guess I'm just curious to see how the influx of new users arrived here.Its free if you just want to perv
How did you hear about the site?
What do you want from it?
What are your actual expectations?
Do you have any preconceived ideas about the people here?
If it wasn't free would you still be dipping your toes in? It's not free...
Yes it is."
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