We are sure this topic has come up in the past.
Are we the only couple with a curious male who are fed up of "straight" males messaging suggesting they will f*CK him or use him... Generally on opening messages from profiles claiming not to be a fab bull shitter or something similar.
To make it worse when we question why they aren't saying they are bi we are made out to be obnoxious and rude. Being told that our views of being honest on here makes people leave.
Are we in the wrong? If so maybe we should leave.
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"We are sure this topic has come up in the past.
Are we the only couple with a curious male who are fed up of "straight" males messaging suggesting they will f*CK him or use him... Generally on opening messages from profiles claiming not to be a fab bull shitter or something similar.
To make it worse when we question why they aren't saying they are bi we are made out to be obnoxious and rude. Being told that our views of being honest on here makes people leave.
Are we in the wrong? If so maybe we should leave.
A + K"
You will get all sorts of let's say not very nice messages but as previously said just block them and move on.
There are plenty of really nice honest couples and singles on hear you just have to ween out the bad ones x
You guys shouldn't go anywhere xx |
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"We are sure this topic has come up in the past.
Are we the only couple with a curious male who are fed up of "straight" males messaging suggesting they will f*CK him or use him... Generally on opening messages from profiles claiming not to be a fab bull shitter or something similar.
To make it worse when we question why they aren't saying they are bi we are made out to be obnoxious and rude. Being told that our views of being honest on here makes people leave.
Are we in the wrong? If so maybe we should leave.
A + K"
If the opening message is rude, just delete and block. They are obviously not the type of people you would want to meet. Do not bother replying. It is that type of guy that makes fab a tough place for the genuine guys *Honey |
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Just block and don’t bother with them trust me I know it all two well 90% off my messages come from guys who are “ straight “ and only looking for woman and couples
I mean if they can’t be truthful on they profile how do they expect anyone to be able to trust them in the sack |
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"Just block and don’t bother with them trust me I know it all two well 90% off my messages come from guys who are “ straight “ and only looking for woman and couples
I mean if they can’t be truthful on they profile how do they expect anyone to be able to trust them in the sack "
That's the biggest thing for us. How can we trust someone who isn't willing to be honest on their profile.
Thanks everyone else for the supportive comments |
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"Just block and don’t bother with them trust me I know it all two well 90% off my messages come from guys who are “ straight “ and only looking for woman and couples
I mean if they can’t be truthful on they profile how do they expect anyone to be able to trust them in the sack
That's the biggest thing for us. How can we trust someone who isn't willing to be honest on their profile.
Thanks everyone else for the supportive comments "
Ur welcome and yes that’s the same as me it’s a total red flag |
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