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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants? |
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I think it's because it's easier to waste somebody else's time with a crap message or something that's been copied and pasted than to put their own time into making it worthwhile for the recipient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often wondered the same thing. You can always tell when a message is copy pasted, or the sender hasn't bothered to read your profile..
I either just block them, or I'll point out the fact that they clearly can't read so there's no way we'd be compatible in the bedroom, then block them.
Its just such a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?"
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile. "
9 out of 10 well written messages get deleted as well. It's a catch 22, which could be helped if all the blokes stopped being abusive cretins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?"
I agree
I always make sure I read the profiles first before I message. Unfortunately I rarely get replies back still haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have phone sex listed as an interest. I’ve written in my profile that while I enjoy it, I enjoy it with people I’ve met and have a connection with, not completely random people. Whenever I get a request for phone sex I always point them in the direct of my bio but usually get some really arsey response back about my profile being too long to read...bla bla bla. Which obviously makes me want to chat to them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?"
My guess is, they read profiles before, did everything they were told, jumped through all the hoops and still didn’t get a reply. So they thought fuck it I’ll just send a copy and paste message out in bulk, that way then, if I don’t get a reply I can pretend it’s because I sent a generic message and the pain of their message being deleted without a reply won’t hurt so much, that’s my theory anyway. |
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile. "
I can see where you are coming from,but using that logic can you see why they are just deleted??
Maybe send fewer but well written personal to the profile could have a better success rate. Just a suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read and look even if not compatible with the profile I still sometimes send a little friendly message just to say hello and what not don’t mind if I don’t get a response
But was brug up a very old fashioned way off it’s nice to be nice sort off thing
So generally tend to try and be nice to everyone and send a little message to just say hello even if not compatible
Plus you never know what you may find we maybe not compatible in the bedroom
But if you talk to me you generally find a very nice person who will to help anyone and chat about random things and what not despite my spelling problems witch is down to being dyslexic xx |
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile. "
That's really no excuse or reason. Nobody HAS to play the numbers game, that's bollocks and it's lazy. Don't ya realise you're creating your own mass deletion by doing exactly that?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile.
I can see where you are coming from,but using that logic can you see why they are just deleted??
Maybe send fewer but well written personal to the profile could have a better success rate. Just a suggestion. "
That's not true - see my post above. Not a complaint at all from me, I completely get it but sending well written messages is negated by all the shit messages from morons. Like I said, it's catch-22 |
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?
Guys have to play the numbers game and it doesn't take long to realise writing messages that just get deleted that you have spent time writing its easier to copy and paste a message therefore not reading the profile, not saying its right but maybe some insite to why most guys don't read the profile. "
I know, but it doesn't mean I'll ever reply to the blanket copy paste
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"I have phone sex listed as an interest. I’ve written in my profile that while I enjoy it, I enjoy it with people I’ve met and have a connection with, not completely random people. Whenever I get a request for phone sex I always point them in the direct of my bio but usually get some really arsey response back about my profile being too long to read...bla bla bla. Which obviously makes me want to chat to them
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That’s not a long profile and it’s got humour in it so worth the read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy reading a healthy long profile. I know the type of person I am looking for and if there is actually substance in their profile it tells me there is something behind the eyes.
I had a long profile but was advised less is more by a friend who's been here over 8 years. I took her advice but in hindsight I wish I had kept it. I'll be adding bits to it over time.
If you don't receive a message after jumping through said hoops then you are not what she is looking for....no biggy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read the profile because if im not what they are looking for then what's the point.but I understand there is alot of people who fire off messages.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're the generation of everything now, and unfortunately some people are too lazy to work for anything and sadly that includes reading profiles and sending articulate thought out messages. I can always tell who has read my profile when I receive a message. Personally if I'm interested, I will always read the profile text - have a look at a few pictures (not all - one or two is enough to know if I'm interested - probably Fab the pictures too) and then send a personal message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to think that 99% didn’t read profiles but since I have had my kitkat reference in mine, it’s clear that many do indeed read some of it as they often tell me what they would like to do with the kitkat  They just choose to message even if it’s clear we would not be compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles should always be
read,that's how you find out if you're compatible.
I've read plenty of profiles myself and realised they would not be for me,its the normal thing to do...surely.
How many pussy pics can a person look at anyways haha,they all look the same,some have hair some have none.....a nice face pic is always best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If men read profiles and still don't get a favourable reply, it negates the point of reading it and sending a message that fits. You're still not going to get anywhere if the person isn't into you....so men don't bother.
Most of them are only on here to jerk off anyway. That's the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you state in your profile that you're not into one liners as it's not very stimulating.....then you get hi,followed by replies ok, yeah,cool......that's when you know they haven't read your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mesmerised ain't they. Just can't help but dive straight in.
Like a kid who looks at what they think is an apple, take a big arse bite and learn it's an onion."
love that it sums it up |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
I don't think it's nice to call men flies. |
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"Do you look for books with just the pictures too?
There are so many different types of swinging, so many different things people want or are attracted to, why waste your time typing out a message without first reading what someone wants?"
There is reading a profile and then there is reading War and Peace or dare I say it Ulysses style Profiles,
I mean I try but I always find I wake up and there are Cobwebs grown over my screen and my beard is 2 feet long,lol,
So rule of thumb now is if its more than 2 screen flicks long, shut it down, and don't msg.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
I don't think it's nice to call men flies."
Or a lady a piece of 'hanging meat' |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
So only attractive women deserve to be respected and the rest should be grateful a man even grunts in their direction? |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time. |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
I don't think it's nice to call men flies.
Or a lady a piece of 'hanging meat' "
Well yes, but I'd rather go for the angle less thought about. I'm fine, what about the poor men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really hate this. I get loads of messages from straight men when my profile clearly states I’m not interested in straight men. It’s in the headline!!
Also, men whose profiles say they’re “respectful and not pushy” who then send you the same message repeatedly (pushy), and when you say no thanks they say it’s a “shame” or try to change your mind (not respectful).
Don’t say you’re not pushy & respectful if you don’t mean it! WORDS MEAN THINGS
(Yes, I know, block & move on. But please let me vent.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's not enough information in my profile to really give anyone an idea of what I like or what I'm looking for.
I'd say I'm quite open in seeing what comes my way.
But if I'm looking for something quite specific, I get on better putting the legwork in to find it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
Wow, you must enjoy wanking.
I suppose everyone's got an opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
Ding ding ding we may have a winner for most diserpctful comment off the day
You not be fab much after that comment man or women honestly learn to respect people |
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Often find we are messaged by peeps that "have read our profile" they haven't as they are outside age range male is bi or they only play full swap.
Then we message couples or guys who state "soft swap" in their likes and often in their profile bio. Only to be told they prefer full swap.
Let's face it when prospecting the pebbles will always out number the diamonds.
Enjoy your sifting everyone each bucket brings you closer.  |
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"There's not enough information in my profile to really give anyone an idea of what I like or what I'm looking for.
I'd say I'm quite open in seeing what comes my way.
But if I'm looking for something quite specific, I get on better putting the legwork in to find it"
to the point clear cut,, and a nice X mas jumper to boot, what's not to like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bottom line - people message each other. Not everyone is a good match. Sometimes you get deleted. Some people accept rejection. Others lose their shit. The site is swamped with fakes and morons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time."
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx"
I think she was taking the piss |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky."
jesus Paddy
One would think one was born without a filter between ones ArseHole and brain, or did one just grow into that way of thinking,, does rejection have that kinda effect of some men I wonder.?? |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss"
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook. |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss"
Still thought just incase she wasn’t never know how people think or fell on a serton subject x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook."
Might I suggest the landscape has changed, not you? Lockdown hasn't so much moved the goalposts, as torn them down. Bullshit levels have gone through the roof. |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook."
Again
You can't tar every guy here with the same Brush,
Dicks will always be Dicks but there are plenty of gents on here also, |
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"Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook.
Might I suggest the landscape has changed, not you? Lockdown hasn't so much moved the goalposts, as torn them down. Bullshit levels have gone through the roof."
totally Agree,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read profiles
The fact that I do results in me wanting to message very few people
Profiles are a great way of syphoning
Save for forumites (who I message about any old shit), those that I do message are those that I find attractive and who sound (on paper) like they might be half way or more on my wavelength
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook."
Don't let the morons bring you down. It happened to me in the past and I've deleted several profiles - I wish I'd of just taken a break but I let those morons win. Sometimes it's easy to lose sight of things, but there's genuinely a lot more decent people than bad  |
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook.
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You can't tar every guy here with the same Brush,
Dicks will always be Dicks but there are plenty of gents on here also, "
It's certainly not every man, but it's enough that getting messages can be a net negative experience. She's entitled to her feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is definitely a 2 way street, the number of times I have read and crafted a decent first message to in return receive a “so what are you looking for then?”
Whilst I fully understand that women have a tonne of messages to deal with at least “if you are interested” have a peep at what my profile has to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you expect.
Hanging meat at the market attracts many flies.
Some women are lucky the ratio on here is in there favour as in the real world they wouldn't get a second look.
Don't care if that hurts it's the truth some need a reality check.
And with all that attention women still complain. Count yourselves lucky.
Yeahhhhhh, I've been toying with the idea of moving on for some time now. If that really is how people think then there's no amount of trying to educate that will get through, and it's ME that's wasting my time.
Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook."
You will always get incels, misogynists and arrogant, bitter cunts on a site like this.
Just think how much they must hate themselves to be so bitter towards others on here.
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"Aww big hugs from me never felling like that and just ignore them xx
I think she was taking the piss
Actually I wasn't for once.
The lack of respect, the sense of entitlement and basic etiquette has been diminishing for a while. I thought my purpose here was to spread a little joy and hopefully lead by example, educate even a little from my profile text and on forum threads.
My mojo is long gone so it really does seem pointless if it's falling on deaf ears and I'm nowt more than a pig on a hook.
Might I suggest the landscape has changed, not you? Lockdown hasn't so much moved the goalposts, as torn them down. Bullshit levels have gone through the roof. totally Agree,
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I would say after lockdown the bord pepole who joined because they nothing better to do will leveing and things will some what return back to normal ones again xx |
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Some good answers and also some ego fuelled nonsense spouted.
Bottom line I suppose was if you won't read my profile I won't read your message.
I don't care how many rejections you had previous, don't forward your laziness onto me.
Oh and Peach, don't go, we enjoy your thread inputs too much |
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