"Anyone actually genuine on here?"
No, we are all actually the same guy pretending. My names really Kevin, I’m 35 and live with my parents in Milton Keynes. Apart from wasting people’s time on Fab, I enjoy taxidermy and collecting souvenir thimbles. |
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over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?"
Nope, I'm a dancing flying octopus hiding behind fake pics.
At least that's what my intergalactic overloads told me to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
What's your definition of genuine?
Genuine and up front "
Nah you need to be more specific it's too easy to throw out that comment.... Is anyone genuine on here AKA I'm not getting what I want ergo you're all fakes.... Is that what you mean cause that's how it reads to me, are you even genuine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've heard that some on here are real but as for me I'm just a figment of your imagination  "
Thats ok with your pictures my imagination can do a lot...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes , but not many of us !! I think if you are over a certain age eg 55 you don’t get much of a reply , then there are people who just like to post pics . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
What's your definition of genuine?
Genuine and up front
Nah you need to be more specific it's too easy to throw out that comment.... Is anyone genuine on here AKA I'm not getting what I want ergo you're all fakes.... Is that what you mean cause that's how it reads to me, are you even genuine? "
I'm very genuine. Just getting sick of going round in circles talking to people then all of a sudden ghosted for no reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are more genuine than fake I think. We are exactly who we say we are. That doesnt mean we meet just anyone. And even if we fancy someone initially from photos etc. After talking to them.( yes we expect to chat for a while) that can change easily if we dont click. Or if they expect an instant meet.
That doesnt make us fake or non genuine. This is the case for many singles and couples.
J  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
Genuine in what way?
Just who they say they are and not just here wasting peoples time "
And how do you define wasting people's time? It has a fairly broad definition round here.
The only time I would consider my time to have been wasted here would be if I'd arranged to meet someone and they didn't turn up - anything else isn't time wasting to my mind, but that's my definition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fact I change my stament I am not real I just love wasting thousands apon thousands off pounds on outfits to take pics to post them on a web site to pretend I look for like mind people if you can’t see the joke there I don’t know what to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are more genuine than fake I think. We are exactly who we say we are. That doesnt mean we meet just anyone. And even if we fancy someone initially from photos etc. After talking to them.( yes we expect to chat for a while) that can change easily if we dont click. Or if they expect an instant meet.
That doesnt make us fake or non genuine. This is the case for many singles and couples.
J "
Absolutely this xx |
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In my experience the majority on here are genuine.
The fakes tend to give up quite quickly, especially since we're in the middle of a pandemic and (hopefully) most people aren't meeting.
I suspect this means that lots are also less keen to get to know new people at the moment.
Things will pick up when things get back to normal at some point next year. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
What's your definition of genuine?
Genuine and up front
Nah you need to be more specific it's too easy to throw out that comment.... Is anyone genuine on here AKA I'm not getting what I want ergo you're all fakes.... Is that what you mean cause that's how it reads to me, are you even genuine?
I'm very genuine. Just getting sick of going round in circles talking to people then all of a sudden ghosted for no reason"
you are better off keeping fab for friends and people you have met, you have no photo that does not help. youll haveto get to some socials and get known.thats the best way forward in this community that and not whinging on the forums...just saying.. and if you are a real Dom then there are other sites for that.IF you were a real Dominant you would know that...see where i am going with this...name, no pics, attitude...id change some of those, if i were you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
What's your definition of genuine?
Genuine and up front
Nah you need to be more specific it's too easy to throw out that comment.... Is anyone genuine on here AKA I'm not getting what I want ergo you're all fakes.... Is that what you mean cause that's how it reads to me, are you even genuine?
I'm very genuine. Just getting sick of going round in circles talking to people then all of a sudden ghosted for no reason"
There's always a reason. If they stop talking it means they aren't interested.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people"
Hang on a fekkin moment.
You are asking for meets at the moment and wondering why you are being blocked and ignored
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people"
It's clearly stated by fab that people should take a non response from somone as a no thankyou, no one owes you a message, that does not make them 'fake'. People get a lot of messages on here, I have over 1000 unopened messages in my inbox at the minute and I'd class going through every single one (during a pandemic) to reply sorry no thankyou as a waist of my time mostly I scroll trough and look for people I already know... Doesn't make me not real or fake tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not genuine and neither are the 180 people that have verified me over the years. Right pain in the ass trying to remember all the different email addresses for that many accounts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My name is Dave, I'm a 62 yo truck driver
Hi Dave I'm 61 can I come round for that cheesecake 
Arf arf... Its getting sticky  "
That's ok I make my own cheesecake so will bring fresh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone actually genuine on here?
No, we are all actually the same guy pretending. My names really Kevin, I’m 35 and live with my parents in Milton Keynes. Apart from wasting people’s time on Fab, I enjoy taxidermy and collecting souvenir thimbles. "
Hey up Kev. You sound like a keeper
Ps. I'm real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
Hang on a fekkin moment.
You are asking for meets at the moment and wondering why you are being blocked and ignored
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over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people"
They might not have known they didnt want to meet you until you had talked them into it a bit. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
They might not have known they didnt want to meet you until you had talked them into it a bit. "
I get that but be nice just to say sorry not interested. When people have said they aren't interested i usually just reply no worries |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people"
It happens, all ways round, conversations fizzle, people lose interest, or something is said that doesn't sit right, or one person is more invested than the other, or thinks the other is invested - whatever the reasons conversations die out - but it's not ghosting unless you've actually met the person or have a long standing "chat" relationship with that person and they'd agreed to meet (and even then it's a tenuous "ghosting).
It's certainly not time wasting when it happens - you've found out they weren't for you (by them ending further communication) so your time wasn't wasted |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
They might not have known they didnt want to meet you until you had talked them into it a bit.
I get that but be nice just to say sorry not interested. When people have said they aren't interested i usually just reply no worries "
You may reply "no worries" but there are lots on here that will send abuse or try to change people's minds etc and the recipient has no way of knowing which type you are - so to avoid the abuse etc it's easier to just leave it at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
They might not have known they didnt want to meet you until you had talked them into it a bit.
I get that but be nice just to say sorry not interested. When people have said they aren't interested i usually just reply no worries
You may reply "no worries" but there are lots on here that will send abuse or try to change people's minds etc and the recipient has no way of knowing which type you are - so to avoid the abuse etc it's easier to just leave it at that"
If only more men understood this... Nothing more frustrating than being called ignorant for not replying. |
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
It happens, all ways round, conversations fizzle, people lose interest, or something is said that doesn't sit right, or one person is more invested than the other, or thinks the other is invested - whatever the reasons conversations die out - but it's not ghosting unless you've actually met the person or have a long standing "chat" relationship with that person and they'd agreed to meet (and even then it's a tenuous "ghosting).
It's certainly not time wasting when it happens - you've found out they weren't for you (by them ending further communication) so your time wasn't wasted "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hold on, I’ll check................. Yep, I’m real.
How do you check?  "
Well I just poked myself...oooooer missus. Although did I? How can I be sure? Am i still in the matrix?
Where the fuck did Keanu go? He was here a fucking minute ago, the twat!!!!
J |
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over a year ago
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"Hold on, I’ll check................. Yep, I’m real.
How do you check?
Well I just poked myself...oooooer missus. Although did I? How can I be sure? Am i still in the matrix?
Where the fuck did Keanu go? He was here a fucking minute ago, the twat!!!!
J "
Keanu can check me anytime |
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over a year ago
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"I don't expect anyone to meet me the same day. Yes I do ask if people are looking to meet but if they say no thats fine. And I get not everyone's attracted to everyone else. I'd just appreciate people saying they are not interested rather than talking for a bit then just ghosting people
They might not have known they didnt want to meet you until you had talked them into it a bit.
I get that but be nice just to say sorry not interested. When people have said they aren't interested i usually just reply no worries "
But if you had been chatting ok then just suddenly received a sorry not interested that would feel even weirder and have you questioning more. I just accept conversations can be more fluid. I can leave mid convo for any number of reasons doesnt mean I wasnt interested or enjoying the chat. Not every chat will go somewhere and some just pick up again weeks later. Fab is a long game |
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