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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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to verify or not to verify that is the question. i know that we're not all every ones cup of tea but who should verify first. does the eager and fully satisfied woman take the risk and do it first and risk not getting one back. is she really such a bad shag if she doesn't get one in return. i hand the floor to you cynical lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone I met in Bristol promised me a verification, but only if I left one for them first. Being quite playfull I waited for them to send me 2 pleading mails before I left them one |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I tend to ask if the other party wants a veri doing and they most often do one for me in return, but I wouldn't bother too much if they didn't as I have plenty (though I do like humorous ones that make me ).
I'll often follow a veri trail when I'm contacted, it can help me get a sense of the person and their likes/dislikes, but it's only a small part of the overall impression I get from the profile, pictures and messages I receive |
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I leave verifications based on how someone matches his profile - does he look like his pics, is he as described, did he turn up on time, were you comfortable talking to him, how was his grooming/personal hygiene? These are the bits of info I want to know about a potential meet, too much info can be uncomfortable reading and is also subjective - a guy who hits your spots may miss mine.
I have written lots of veris for guys I will never play with - because I don't fancy them in person doesn't mean that the next woman won't.
Never write one expecting one in return. Consider them like a compliment: the only ones worth having are the ones freely given, if you have to bargain/ask/pay for them then they're not genuine.
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