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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" I met my other half on a sister site  | |||
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" There's been a few documented in forums. I'm not a swinger but would love to be in a relationship. | |||
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"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll "Sorry to hear that red | |||
"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" I have on every other site and joined this one after a break up specifically not to get involved again. | |||
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"I did. 6 years ago. We met on a date, got on well (she’d had a “successful fabs career” after a messy divorce. I was new (to fabs) and unconvinced, it was for me). Decided after meeting, I liked her a lot, but I didn’t want to date someone on fabs. We discussed it, she said that she’d grown tired of it, and wasn’t going to continue. We started dating, she went on a holiday with some girlfriends, told me where it was, and I discovered it was a swingers resort. She told me that although the girlfriends who went, were swingers she’d met in clubs, she didn’t know it was a swinging holiday. I was ready to walk away - she asked me to trust her, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Told her I wasn’t going to say “don’t go” she was was an adult and should know how to behave in a relationship. She went on holiday - never disclosed anything other than she saw some swinging going on ... She liked holidays with the girls .... She didn’t have a regular job per se, though she worked with property - middle person, finding sourcing, interior design, very good at it. One large property in Oxfordshire, was being cleared of furniture, so she was often there on long weekends, coincided with catching up with one of her swinger friends. Subsequently found out she was organising sex parties held there. Again, she denied it, it was just drinks in local pubs... with a mate,?nothing else. It’s networking ... Lots of other things occurred, although I loved her, I couldn’t match her financially, and after a few years, I got blown out by text. She was networking often with her London male friends, she constantly went on about. So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! " She sounds far better off without you. | |||
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"I did. 6 years ago. We met on a date, got on well (she’d had a “successful fabs career” after a messy divorce. I was new (to fabs) and unconvinced, it was for me). Decided after meeting, I liked her a lot, but I didn’t want to date someone on fabs. We discussed it, she said that she’d grown tired of it, and wasn’t going to continue. We started dating, she went on a holiday with some girlfriends, told me where it was, and I discovered it was a swingers resort. She told me that although the girlfriends who went, were swingers she’d met in clubs, she didn’t know it was a swinging holiday. I was ready to walk away - she asked me to trust her, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Told her I wasn’t going to say “don’t go” she was was an adult and should know how to behave in a relationship. She went on holiday - never disclosed anything other than she saw some swinging going on ... She liked holidays with the girls .... She didn’t have a regular job per se, though she worked with property - middle person, finding sourcing, interior design, very good at it. One large property in Oxfordshire, was being cleared of furniture, so she was often there on long weekends, coincided with catching up with one of her swinger friends. Subsequently found out she was organising sex parties held there. Again, she denied it, it was just drinks in local pubs... with a mate,?nothing else. It’s networking ... Lots of other things occurred, although I loved her, I couldn’t match her financially, and after a few years, I got blown out by text. She was networking often with her London male friends, she constantly went on about. So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! She sounds far better off without you." She lied to him, that's not cool either. | |||
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"We met on here over 4 years ago and are very much in love and extremely happy. Her x" Happy for you both x | |||
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"I have had a couple but they obviously haven't worked out "Hugs xxx Yeah i got burnt a few times thanks to fab lol.. meh | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! " The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow  | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow "I didn’t want to date someone on fabs. That to me reads women on Fab are only good for having sex with but not actually dating. | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow "No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice. It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully. My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over. In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not. It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case. Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs. | |||
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"yes. she was lovely and i removed myself from the site as i was no longer interested in anyone else or looking. if you find true happiness nothing else matters " For me, This comment, sums it up. I found someone I thought was lovely, and I told her so. I didn’t want to consider another partner, she was that nice, so no point looking elsewhere. So I didn’t. She told me, that she felt the same. So for any other people, deciding that I was incorrect, or “she was better off without me” laugh or scorn, all you like. I fell in love with someone, who’d been on fabs, told me she had left that world, and all as original post. I’m glad to hear for others, their relationships have succeeded. I simply replied to the OP - and that’s it. Happy weekend all. | |||
"Me and C met on here. Covid meant we could only meet each other, due to bubbles and despite neither of us not wanting more, we realised we felt more for each other than FWB. We didn’t want to admit it but after a while it was pretty obvious. We are still here as we want to tick off a number of situations that we can only do with others but this is just an enhancement to a fantastic sex life. We’ll walk away together when we feel we have done it all or it’s not fun for either one but for now it’s pretty amazing
K"Wow ...good luck to you both x storm x | |||
" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
I didn’t want to date someone on fabs.
That to me reads women on Fab are only good for having sex with but not actually dating.
"Which is what we’ve said for years. It’s not very nice but unless someone specifically wants a swinging relationship and to stay on the scene or have an open relationship, most guys wouldn’t consider a monogamous relationship with a woman from here. | |||
" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
"I agree with all this. I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them. | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
I agree with all this.
I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them. "Are you trustworthy? | |||
" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
I agree with all this.
I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them. "You could meet someone not from here who is still a cheat. Happened to me, and many others I know. Unfortunately this is life these days. Cheating is easier than ever. | |||
" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
I agree with all this.
I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.
Are you trustworthy?"Depends on the context. | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
I agree with all this.
I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.
Are you trustworthy?
Depends on the context."The same context in which your basing that you wouldn’t trust anyone on here | |||
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" Yep and wasted 2 years of my life. What a mistake that was lol. | |||
"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it. " I know a few who are going string years after meeting on here. | |||
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" So I was glad. Too many had a go at her labia for a real life relationship. What did I learn? Loads ! The implication there being that women who have enjoyed a variety of sexual partners aren't worthy of a "real life" relationship?? Wow
No. It’s one thing to be a swinger, that’s every persons choice.
It’s quite another, to say you’re no longer going to part of that world, start a relationship, and then carry on with their swinging, deceitfully.
My comment “too many enjoyed her labia” is related to someone supposedly being in a loving relationship with myself, but then carrying on, in a lifestyle, that she’d assured me was past and over.
In hindsight, and all that, it clearly was not.
It’s one thing to be a committed swinger and both people understand and are comfortable with that. Quite another if that’s not the case.
Which is ironic, as I’m sure a few people have encountered that, on fabs.
I agree with all this.
I wouldn't date anyone off here either because I wouldn't trust them.
Are you trustworthy?
Depends on the context.
The same context in which your basing that you wouldn’t trust anyone on here "Yes | |||
"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it. " Loads of people have met on here and got married and are still together years later.  | |||
"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll "The same for me, it is hard work! | |||
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"I did. Lasted a year. Sadly distance and life disasters took its toll
The same for me, it is hard work! "It is.... but the rewards when its going great are (cough) fab. I'm confident I will find another here.... I just can't do vanilla dating sites... the guys are all after a leg over anyway lol. | |||
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" I bet a lot Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe' Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site?  | |||
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab? I bet a lot Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe' Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site? "No... we think its a swingers social site.... and sometimes swingers are single. | |||
"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it. " I disagree. Well I suppose I should seeing as we met on here and it's been 5 years since the wedding....... Even had a couple of fabbers attend. A | |||
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"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab? I bet a lot Most women who message me give me that 'i'm looking for a relationship vibe' Do some of you women think this is a naughty dating site?
No... we think its a swingers social site.... and sometimes swingers are single.
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"I met my life partner on here and also my wife" That is really great! | |||
"Out of curiosity how many people have started relationships with someone they met on fab?" Yep met him just over two years ago and we're still besties! "Me and I couldn’t be happier "Yep Cookie! Me too! Yay! "We met on here and it's going so well. Can't believe the negativity of some people" Yeah but you know... I guess we must be the few lucky ones!? | |||
"None of them will last despite how "wonderful" they portray it. I disagree. Well I suppose I should seeing as we met on here and it's been 5 years since the wedding....... Even had a couple of fabbers attend. A" There's hope for me then...not that I'm looking but never say never! May you have a long and happy marriage. | |||
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"I'd love a fab type relationship on certain levels but not for it to be based on swinging full stop, love and trust first and a good tight relationship first then whatever you both agree on when the mood takes... yes I am dreaming "You know there is truth in what you say... Fab... Like lots of "shop window" on the internet is nothing more, nothing less... The rest you've got to work out...!? | |||
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"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? " Absolutely not We're all perverts How can you trust us with anything? | |||
"I got burned too bad, my heart got too broken. Just don't think I have it in me to trust completely in a relationship capacity. I'm unwilling to put myself in a position where I could get stung again" This is sad my darling, but you need to remember who you are before the hurt. You know they say "dance like no one is watching. Sing like no one is listening...". When you recover from the hurt, you can grow but not bent and twisted but true to yourself! | |||
"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? " Yes I think so. If you have that level of honesty with each other and you find someone who is honest. It might not be easy - people lie and you can't be sure of their motives etc. I do think that on fab there are some gems though and I know/hope they'd be as honest as I believe them to be. Hopefully you find your gem. | |||
"Met someone of here. Lived together for 10 year's. He cheated, I found out because the couple he cheated with uploaded photos on here. Safe to say end of the relationship. And we were still swinger's, go figure. "Oh this happened to me too | |||
"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? Absolutely not We're all perverts How can you trust us with anything? "Being a pervert isn’t being deceitful though is it? Being openly honest and gaining each other’s trust is more important, well I think. | |||
"Split views coming across from this forum post. I’m contemplating whether fab is right for me because I would love to find a relationship that has the potential of a future with the sexual energies to match. Random bed post notches are not my thing. Can you completely trust someone you met on fab? Yes I think so. If you have that level of honesty with each other and you find someone who is honest. It might not be easy - people lie and you can't be sure of their motives etc. I do think that on fab there are some gems though and I know/hope they'd be as honest as I believe them to be. Hopefully you find your gem." Ah thank you. Who knows whatever happens we can all have fun finding that gem. A diamond comes out of the rough and we’ve all had our fair share of that one way or another | |||
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"The total honesty on both sides is refreshing compared to other relationships." This is what my bf and I have worked towards and we won't have it any other way... An awkward situation arose the other week with a couple contacting me. We exchanged numbers and I had been messaging the wife (on WhatsApp) and we were getting along great. Her husband then messages me and suggests a 121 meet without letting her know. I was quite taken aback and told him I get plenty of solo guys offers so won't meet him solo. A few days later she messages me to ask why I suddenly disappeared... I said that her husband messaged me and I found him to be "a bit of a cock" - no other details. She scolded me and said... "Remember that is my husband you are talking about". Wow talk about a lil-awk...! | |||
"The total honesty on both sides is refreshing compared to other relationships. This is what my bf and I have worked towards and we won't have it any other way... An awkward situation arose the other week with a couple contacting me. We exchanged numbers and I had been messaging the wife (on WhatsApp) and we were getting along great. Her husband then messages me and suggests a 121 meet without letting her know. I was quite taken aback and told him I get plenty of solo guys offers so won't meet him solo. A few days later she messages me to ask why I suddenly disappeared... I said that her husband messaged me and I found him to be "a bit of a cock" - no other details. She scolded me and said... "Remember that is my husband you are talking about". Wow talk about a lil-awk...!" Did you tell her that he'd been trying to arrange a meeting behind her back? | |||
"Did you tell her that he'd been trying to arrange a meeting behind her back?" Noooooo! Aside from not knowing how to do it diplomatically, I really didn't think it was my baggage! Besides I was glad I didn't... She would have cut me to shreds! Eeek! | |||
