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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting with a friend who is also a swinger (tho she uses another site...she's also given me full permission to bring this up here) and she was contacted by a couple, wanting to chat with a view to meeting after the rona times... cool...
But...they've never met.
Not my friend and the couple... but the couple themselves...
They've not met each other.... 
Surely you need to have at least met, right?!
Both she and I thought it was pretty strange, but they couldn't understand her issue with it.
Would you think it's odd?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought..."
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations... |
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations..."
Still think is strange. Are the couple planning on meeting before your mate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations...
Still think is strange. Are the couple planning on meeting before your mate? "
I'm not sure...i don't think she got that far with the conversation tbh...her exact words were "fuck that...they don't even know how to fuck each other yet, let alone include someone else"  |
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over a year ago
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations..."
Could be a lockdown relationship. Started online and by phone etc but haven't been able to meet in person due to covid restrictions.
But I find it odd that they are already looking for another person when they haven't shagged each other yet.
Possibly one of them using the other as bait to get meets.
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations...
Still think is strange. Are the couple planning on meeting before your mate?
I'm not sure...i don't think she got that far with the conversation tbh...her exact words were "fuck that...they don't even know how to fuck each other yet, let alone include someone else" "
That's kinda what I was thinking too |
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations..."
Sounds dodgy to me. I'd avoid.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t think it’s necessarily odd but from experience of this kind of setup, you’re not exactly giving yourself the best chance of success. I find arranging this kind of thing is a bit like herding cats 
Even if it does come off, no one really knows what any of the others really like so can get a bit awkward. Might as well just arrange something at a club ? ( restrictions permitting obviously ) |
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We have been contacted by a couple that have also never met they met on here during lockdown and have made a couples account and want to meet other couples.
I find it strange also we prefer to meet couples that know each other’s likes and dislikes and dynamics.The way we see it is it would be me and my husband then 2 strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would just assume it was a man with a fake profile.
That's what I thought...
Me too but she's chatted to them both on cam...just they were in seperate locations...
Could be a lockdown relationship. Started online and by phone etc but haven't been able to meet in person due to covid restrictions.
But I find it odd that they are already looking for another person when they haven't shagged each other yet.
Possibly one of them using the other as bait to get meets.
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That's what I said...why would you start looking for others to join you before you've even test driven them yourself lol |
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If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other. "
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?"
I guess so...but 10 times as awkward if it doesn't go to plan... |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?
I guess so...but 10 times as awkward if it doesn't go to plan..."
Yes there is that, damn I’m conflicted
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?"
Bet there's a 99p plastic of perry involved to make all three feel relaxed!  |
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?"
But they aren't a couple, they are two random people who have never met...meeting a third.
If that floats your friend's boat then coolio, but I wouldn't class that as meeting a"couple".
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?
But they aren't a couple, they are two random people who have never met...meeting a third.
If that floats your friend's boat then coolio, but I wouldn't class that as meeting a"couple".
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No...they're considering themselves a couple. Reckon they're in love, all that...
My friend isn't interested since learning the dynamic. Neither would I be. |
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"If your friend met them it would be the first time any of them had sex with each other. Why is it different because there's two of them? It's a few swingers meeting up to have sex with each other.
I was agreeing with the others till I read this, this is a different way to look at it.
It also puts less pressure on them as a couple, if they meet this way first possibly?
But they aren't a couple, they are two random people who have never met...meeting a third.
If that floats your friend's boat then coolio, but I wouldn't class that as meeting a"couple".
No...they're considering themselves a couple. Reckon they're in love, all that...
My friend isn't interested since learning the dynamic. Neither would I be. "
From reading forum threads and the various opinions on sex within a relationship I've come to the conclusion that people place different values on sex in a relationship. I have to say that the being in love bit puts a different perspective on it and would make me step back for loads of reasons. |
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