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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
And quite an increase in whiny updates from men, too! "Does anyone actually meet on here?" "God, you women are so stuck up" etc.
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over a year ago
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
And quite an increase in whiny updates from men, too! "Does anyone actually meet on here?" "God, you women are so stuck up" etc.
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Nobody realised we got a teeny killer little ole naughty virus about!!  |
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People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them 
Mrs TMN x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
And quite an increase in whiny updates from men, too! "Does anyone actually meet on here?" "God, you women are so stuck up" etc.
Nobody realised we got a teeny killer little ole naughty virus about!! "
I think I've seen it mentioned on the news. |
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x"
Hear, hear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap |
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap "
Jeez! Bang out of order. Hope you're ok? Xx |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap "
Here's a perfect example of why I don't have social media |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno about that, but I’ve noticed a surge in men starting threads about women’s status updates, usually along the lines of ‘I think women are getting above their station boo hoo’. They can say what they like on their status updates, cause they hold the power on here, get used to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap "
My God 
The hugest hugs to you and stay safe and happy. That's just awful x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap "
Bloody hell. (Insert angry emoji) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
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The last few days I've noticed this especially.
I always get such messages, but recently it's gone shit crazy.
I've had to block men messaging me. |
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Sometimes we have just had enough...my profile has even turn into an aggressive bio but still we get the shit.. I don’t have face book just insta, but they still find you! Until you have had a day in my fab shoes then your opinion is irrelevant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give us an example of an aggressive update OP. Were they threatening to stab you in the face on christmas day? Cause that would properly piss me off too... |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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Can’t say I have.
I only see women & couples updates though. Don’t know what the boys are up to.
The arsey status homies usually end up on blockity block list. So probably already there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What do you class as aggressive OP?
Some of mine have been fairly blunt because apparently some people just can't understand too many words at once. Is that aggressive or just to the point? |
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
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Same here even though it says all over my profile I'm not currently meeting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the abusive mail sums it up"
Unfortunately that's the way of online dating.
I always get hate messages, saying i still look like a bloke etc.
I just send them a picture of me sucking a guy off and tell them to enjoy the wank and block them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well the abusive mail sums it up
Unfortunately that's the way of online dating.
I always get hate messages, saying i still look like a bloke etc.
I just send them a picture of me sucking a guy off and tell them to enjoy the wank and block them "
Well I think you look very fem and cute xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well the abusive mail sums it up
Unfortunately that's the way of online dating.
I always get hate messages, saying i still look like a bloke etc.
I just send them a picture of me sucking a guy off and tell them to enjoy the wank and block them
Well I think you look very fem and cute xx"
Thank you
You need a thick skin on here sometimes. There are keyboard warriors.
Best just to accept that's how it will be sometimes, take it with a pinch of salt and ignore them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
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Have you read the length of your profile. It takes longer to read than some sex sessions
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
Have you read the length of your profile. It takes longer to read than some sex sessions
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Did you, by court order, get ordered to read said profile??
No??
Never mind eah!! Your choice to read it! |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap
Here's a perfect example of why I don't have social media "
And a perfect example of why I don't have a face photo, only ever give my first name and have a separate phone number for filth fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x"
^ This. We also use them as a filter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
Have you read the length of your profile. It takes longer to read than some sex sessions
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Only if you find Hungry Caterpillar a challenge and last no more than two pumps and a squirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men still don’t like assertive women, because they don’t like to be challenged and it scares them, hopefully they will catch up with the rest of us, but I doubt it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"#allwomen 
#notallwomen 
#notallwomenbutmostwomenmostofthetime 
#reallynotallwomen
#Ilovethiswoman 
Right back atcha sister! "
#alsonotallwomen
#butweareawesome
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"I don't know about agressive, but I for one have seen a massive increase in messages from mostly single men, who clearly haven't bothered to read my profile or are asking to meet during a pandemic etc. And it is really frustrating.
And quite an increase in whiny updates from men, too! "Does anyone actually meet on here?" "God, you women are so stuck up" etc.
Nobody realised we got a teeny killer little ole naughty virus about!! "
A what? Well that was kept quiet...damn government with the media in their back pockets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap
Jeez! Bang out of order. Hope you're ok? Xx"
8-some time ago we got a message to see if we had teenage daughters! He got dealt with! Bastards x
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"Well the abusive mail sums it up
Unfortunately that's the way of online dating.
I always get hate messages, saying i still look like a bloke etc.
I just send them a picture of me sucking a guy off and tell them to enjoy the wank and block them "
And I bet they do go off and wank themselves stupid *fapfapfapfapfapfapfapfappetyfuckingfapfap* |
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap
Jeez! Bang out of order. Hope you're ok? Xx 8-some time ago we got a message to see if we had teenage daughters! He got dealt with! Bastards x
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WTF???? Jeebus fucking Christ...what an absolute wank stain of a man! |
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap
Jeez! Bang out of order. Hope you're ok? Xx 8-some time ago we got a message to see if we had teenage daughters! He got dealt with! Bastards x
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Absolutely outrageous! I hope the police were involved x |
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"#allwomen
#notallwomen
#notallwomenbutmostwomenmostofthetime
#reallynotallwomen
#Ilovethiswoman
Right back atcha sister!
#alsonotallwomen
#butweareawesome
#friends4ever"
#oknotallwomenbutsomewomensomeofthetimeitjustdepends |
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"#allwomen
#notallwomen
#notallwomenbutmostwomenmostofthetime
#reallynotallwomen
#Ilovethiswoman
Right back atcha sister!
#alsonotallwomen
#butweareawesome
#friends4ever
#oknotallwomenbutsomewomensomeofthetimeitjustdepends "
#okmostwomenbutiftheyarecoolnotthosewomenEVER 
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x"
Exactly this And also any status referring to being bored or “board” as it’s commonly known on fab |
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"#allwomen
#notallwomen
#notallwomenbutmostwomenmostofthetime
#reallynotallwomen
#Ilovethiswoman
Right back atcha sister!
#alsonotallwomen
#butweareawesome
#friends4ever
#oknotallwomenbutsomewomensomeofthetimeitjustdepends
#okmostwomenbutiftheyarecoolnotthosewomenEVER
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#true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x
Exactly this And also any status referring to being bored or “board” as it’s commonly known on fab "
Or form an orderly ‘cue’ is another classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x
Exactly this And also any status referring to being bored or “board” as it’s commonly known on fab "
Only boring people get bored, innit?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration?"
If someone consistently posts updates that I don't want to hear about I just block them, simples.
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration?"
I am curious what you expect to gain from this post |
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"I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration?
I am curious what you expect to gain from this post"
73 replies I’d say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration?
I am curious what you expect to gain from this post
73 replies I’d say "
Lol burn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dunno about that, but I’ve noticed a surge in men starting threads about women’s status updates, usually along the lines of ‘I think women are getting above their station boo hoo’. They can say what they like on their status updates, cause they hold the power on here, get used to it. "
Why do you believe women hold the power on here?
I hope you realize some men tell women and couples the word “ No “ .....
I’m not knocking you back , but thinking women have all the power on Fab is giving them power over yourself..... |
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"I have noticed recently that more and more women are being aggressive and confrontational in their updates. Is this just a sign of the times or sexual frustration?
I am curious what you expect to gain from this post
73 replies I’d say "
73 profile visits ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've probably put out a couple of abrasive updates over the last couple of weeks but it's because of messages people thing it's okay to send.. I've had one practically blank profile tell me my 14 Yr old daughter is hot (how do they even know how old my child is... Creepy) I've been told I'm a 'fucking moron' because the amount of spelling mistakes I have on my profile, had a couples profile set up by somone that I know nothing about until someone messaged me about it, had somone stalk my Facebook and insta accounts because I politely declined adding him on snap chat so he decided to start laugh reacting to all my Facebook posts that was public.... I think people have lost there minds with all this lock down crap "
think have lost any morals as well
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It's possibly out of frustration, as we get idiot questions, idiots wanting to meet, idiots not making any adjustments in terms of sex with covid, thereby putting us at risk, basically, lack of quality guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are going to say what they want to say.
People are going to see what they want to see.
If I see a status update I don't like I use it as a useful filter - that person's not for me, and I'm not for them
Mrs TMN x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of people not just women are unhappy at the moment.a lot of the things we all took for granted we currently cannot do so it's bound to make people a little bit angry or frustrated.
Friends I see post unhappy status I send a quick message to see if they are ok.
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I think everyone is probably feeling a little more grumpy than usual, in these hard times.
The status updates in my area reflect this, but sometimes it's hard to keep biting your tongue when the messages you get are dire and still expecting meets.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's possibly out of frustration, as we get idiot questions, idiots wanting to meet, idiots not making any adjustments in terms of sex with covid, thereby putting us at risk, basically, lack of quality guys"
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"I dunno about that, but I’ve noticed a surge in men starting threads about women’s status updates, usually along the lines of ‘I think women are getting above their station boo hoo’. They can say what they like on their status updates, cause they hold the power on here, get used to it.
Why do you believe women hold the power on here?
I hope you realize some men tell women and couples the word “ No “ .....
I’m not knocking you back , but thinking women have all the power on Fab is giving them power over yourself....."
Because if I say they do, then that annoys some men. Yes, I do realise some men tell women and couples ‘No’ because I’m one of those men. I don’t think women have all of the power on fab, but there’s a lot of men who feel aggrieved that they can pick and choice because the ratio is in their favour, which I think can only be a good thing. |
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"I dunno about that, but I’ve noticed a surge in men starting threads about women’s status updates, usually along the lines of ‘I think women are getting above their station boo hoo’. They can say what they like on their status updates, cause they hold the power on here, get used to it.
Why do you believe women hold the power on here?
I hope you realize some men tell women and couples the word “ No “ .....
I’m not knocking you back , but thinking women have all the power on Fab is giving them power over yourself.....
Because if I say they do, then that annoys some men. Yes, I do realise some men tell women and couples ‘No’ because I’m one of those men. I don’t think women have all of the power on fab, but there’s a lot of men who feel aggrieved that they can pick and choice because the ratio is in their favour, which I think can only be a good thing. "
Sorry , I didn’t see your satire.......
I’m really trying to give single men some confidence on the forums.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It didn’t used to be like this before COVID!
A new wave of users with ‘loose cannon’ mouths or ‘social hand grenade’ personalities.....
It astounds me...."
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