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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This dilemma has just come out of the blue and I really don't know what to do.
I was told on Monday that a girl involved at work really likes me and in the words of the person who told me said she really wants me to fuck her. Not a problem apart from the age gap, she is only 21 and I'm 47. I've a child of my own at is older.
She sent a face book friends req before I new this and we've been messaging on WhatsApp which ha escalated very quickly on the contents. She is making it clear what she wants to do, one being she wants me to take her dogging.
Heads telling me one thing and heart another. Not everyday you get a beautiful younger lady wanting you, not sure if I should cross the line.....
What's everyone's thoughts. |
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There is a problem because it's also a working relationship but the age difference isn't, in my opinion, a problem. Providing you can separate work and pleasure and the possibility of a fall out at a future time, then no problem but it's the fall out that can be catastrophic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything is great until things maybe go south and then you have to remember that you still have to work together and if you can handle all the gossiping |
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"To me, the work link would put me off more than the age gap
Well that, plus the fact that already people are talking "
Definitely this for me as well. People are talking and won't be long before the entire office knows your business. Plus office stuff very rarely ends well at all. Its just too much carnage and fall out. Chalk it up as the flattery it is dude. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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The work connection is more of a problem than the age gap in my view.
However, I personally would be uncomfortable having a relationship with someone younger than my child.
The two of you are the only ones who can decide if you're happy with it, and the very fact you've posed the question here implies to me that you have some serious doubts.
I hope you work it out for yourself and your choice brings happiness OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The work connection is more of a problem than the age gap in my view.
However, I personally would be uncomfortable having a relationship with someone younger than my child.
The two of you are the only ones who can decide if you're happy with it, and the very fact you've posed the question here implies to me that you have some serious doubts.
I hope you work it out for yourself and your choice brings happiness OP. "
Agree with you on all points! |
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