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By *oxyred41 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Had an old meet (only met him once) moan at you because you've had other meets after?
Happened to me and I'm m shocked he try to make me feel guilty about it
Has this ever happened to you how did you handle the situation?
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I've had people upset that I've not met them when I've had the time and opportunity.
I can understand that coz I've got upset before if I've had what I thought was a really great time with someone, they've said they want to meet again when the chance arises and then met someone else when I've been free. Disappointed rather than upset I think.
I've been disappointed in choices previous meets had made with others. Like if I know someone is a sneaky snake and they can't see it. That guts me out. |
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"Had an old meet (only met him once) moan at you because you've had other meets after?
Happened to me and I'm m shocked he try to make me feel guilty about it
Has this ever happened to you how did you handle the situation?
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I have , not that old a meet either (at the,time )! ... Anyway I now hide my feedback  |
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Not moan but a couple weren't happy...I got that 'look' when they found out...and if I'm being truthful I had definite pangs of jealousy a few years ago, never fell out with her but I was gutted as I'd fallen for her! Never again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had that miffed feeling when someone I've met has met others
Great veris just seemed to rub the nose a bit
I'd never dream of chasting them for it though
The problem is mine, not theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had an old meet (only met him once) moan at you because you've had other meets after?
Happened to me and I'm m shocked he try to make me feel guilty about it
Has this ever happened to you how did you handle the situation?
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No
I handled it very well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've experienced this often on this site, with horrid messages and forum comments also.
Veris hidden because of it.
Its not pleasant.
Ignore if you can, report of you need too
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Yes. He couldn't accommodate, I occasionally can. I had a meet with someone else who has their own place and lives alone and the other guy sent me passive aggressive messages. He also did the same if he found out I had my place to myself. Just because I'm home alone, it doesn't mean I'm necessarily up for meeting. I work long shifts and sometimes I just want to eat carbs in my pyjamas in front of the TV and I didn't enjoy having to justify that to someone. I ended up blocking his number. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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No, and wouldn't dream of doing so the other way round either - not unless there was some sort of 'agreement' between us that we'd only see others after seeing if we were able to meet first or similar.
There have been times I've got "wistful" when someone I've met (and we've said we'd meet again) has met someone else but it's always been kept in check and gone no further than thoughts in my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. He couldn't accommodate, I occasionally can. I had a meet with someone else who has their own place and lives alone and the other guy sent me passive aggressive messages. He also did the same if he found out I had my place to myself. Just because I'm home alone, it doesn't mean I'm necessarily up for meeting. I work long shifts and sometimes I just want to eat carbs in my pyjamas in front of the TV and I didn't enjoy having to justify that to someone. I ended up blocking his number. "
I was just annoyed that you didn't invite us to the pajama clad showing of The Princess Bride was all, sorry   |
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"Yes. He couldn't accommodate, I occasionally can. I had a meet with someone else who has their own place and lives alone and the other guy sent me passive aggressive messages. He also did the same if he found out I had my place to myself. Just because I'm home alone, it doesn't mean I'm necessarily up for meeting. I work long shifts and sometimes I just want to eat carbs in my pyjamas in front of the TV and I didn't enjoy having to justify that to someone. I ended up blocking his number.
I was just annoyed that you didn't invite us to the pajama clad showing of The Princess Bride was all, sorry "
 , I forgot how desperate you were to see that film sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. He couldn't accommodate, I occasionally can. I had a meet with someone else who has their own place and lives alone and the other guy sent me passive aggressive messages. He also did the same if he found out I had my place to myself. Just because I'm home alone, it doesn't mean I'm necessarily up for meeting. I work long shifts and sometimes I just want to eat carbs in my pyjamas in front of the TV and I didn't enjoy having to justify that to someone. I ended up blocking his number.
I was just annoyed that you didn't invite us to the pajama clad showing of The Princess Bride was all, sorry
, I forgot how desperate you were to see that film sorry! "
I keep accidentally watching The Princess Diaries instead... |
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"Yes. He couldn't accommodate, I occasionally can. I had a meet with someone else who has their own place and lives alone and the other guy sent me passive aggressive messages. He also did the same if he found out I had my place to myself. Just because I'm home alone, it doesn't mean I'm necessarily up for meeting. I work long shifts and sometimes I just want to eat carbs in my pyjamas in front of the TV and I didn't enjoy having to justify that to someone. I ended up blocking his number.
I was just annoyed that you didn't invite us to the pajama clad showing of The Princess Bride was all, sorry
, I forgot how desperate you were to see that film sorry!
I keep accidentally watching The Princess Diaries instead..."
Close enough |
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Not meaning to jump to conclusions, could it be he was upset (given the timing of the thread and new pics n vid) that you met someone else during lockdown?
I'm personally blocking those actively rule flouting because I'm disappointed in them. Maybe it wasn't the sex with another, but the timing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had this a few times Along with the "oh, your meeti g him next weekend and not me"... Its usually a red flag and we block straight away. That ain't what this lifestyle is about for us. The moment some one gets too.... "clingy"... We start looking for the door |
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Lol lucky escape if you ask me 