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Was watching an old episode of Frasier and he bemoans the fact that women can use sex to get other things in life like gifts, climbing the career ladder and so on but Daphne responds by implying that men do it too only for Frasier to retort, " how can we use sex to get what we want when it's sex that we want?"
Are there guys out there that fall into that category and if so, how?
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Was watching an old episode of Frasier and he bemoans the fact that women can use sex to get other things in life like gifts, climbing the career ladder and so on but Daphne responds by implying that men do it too only for Frasier to retort, " how can we use sex to get what we want when it's sex that we want?"
Are there guys out there that fall into that category and if so, how?
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women control the sex whether it happens or not and men control the relationships, what they look like, and if they commit or not... |
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"Was watching an old episode of Frasier and he bemoans the fact that women can use sex to get other things in life like gifts, climbing the career ladder and so on but Daphne responds by implying that men do it too only for Frasier to retort, " how can we use sex to get what we want when it's sex that we want?"
Are there guys out there that fall into that category and if so, how?
women control the sex whether it happens or not and men control the relationships, what they look like, and if they commit or not..."
Men control the relationship? Mm, not sure, most guys I know, myself included maybe thought we were in control, right up till we said I do.  |
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"Some men are as good at teasing for sex as women are, the popular male forumites have quite an obvious female following on here "
Wouldn’t say a following, more an Entourage |
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I think sex should be mutually enjoyable for both and not as tool to manipulate another person.
That being said, Frasier is funny as fuck and would recommend everyone go watch it |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Was watching an old episode of Frasier and he bemoans the fact that women can use sex to get other things in life like gifts, climbing the career ladder and so on but Daphne responds by implying that men do it too only for Frasier to retort, " how can we use sex to get what we want when it's sex that we want?"
Are there guys out there that fall into that category and if so, how?
women control the sex whether it happens or not and men control the relationships, what they look like, and if they commit or not...
Men control the relationship? Mm, not sure, most guys I know, myself included maybe thought we were in control, right up till we said I do. "
you decided however, to say i do, when you decided to..for whatever reason... |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
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Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job... |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job..."
Agree it does happen seen it myself, but I don't think it's as prevalent as people think it is. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job...
Agree it does happen seen it myself, but I don't think it's as prevalent as people think it is. "
No I don't think it is either. The power is only in the woman's hands of the man hands it to her in this situation. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
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It's such sexist bullshit. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
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Same and I think it's an old , stale, lazy stereotype.
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Some men use mind games.
They refer to sex with others, past liaisons, future fantasies or people they find attractive to get their woman to do what they want.
A threat almost, a reminder to be a good girl because they can get it elsewhere and you're a dispensable commodity. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job..."
This.
Anecdotal experiences have found it backfires on these women more often than not. |
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"Some men are as good at teasing for sex as women are, the popular male forumites have quite an obvious female following on here
Wouldn’t say a following, more an Entourage"
I call them my harem....  |
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"If you have charisma and charm you can get anything in the world if you put your mind to it"
I'd never thought of it like that, but I think this is closer to the truth than it being a man/woman thing.
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"Was watching an old episode of Frasier and he bemoans the fact that women can use sex to get other things in life like gifts, climbing the career ladder and so on but Daphne responds by implying that men do it too only for Frasier to retort, " how can we use sex to get what we want when it's sex that we want?"
Are there guys out there that fall into that category and if so, how?
women control the sex whether it happens or not and men control the relationships, what they look like, and if they commit or not...
Men control the relationship? Mm, not sure, most guys I know, myself included maybe thought we were in control, right up till we said I do. you decided however, to say i do, when you decided to..for whatever reason..."
I assume the reason is love. |
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"Some men are as good at teasing for sex as women are, the popular male forumites have quite an obvious female following on here "
Are their inboxes flooded with messages from women desperate for sex? |
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"Some men are as good at teasing for sex as women are, the popular male forumites have quite an obvious female following on here
Are their inboxes flooded with messages from women desperate for sex? "
Many women realise "desperate " is not the most positive look
It seems some men dont
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"Some men use mind games.
They refer to sex with others, past liaisons, future fantasies or people they find attractive to get their woman to do what they want.
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And some women won't tolerate that kinda nonsense
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men use mind games.
They refer to sex with others, past liaisons, future fantasies or people they find attractive to get their woman to do what they want.
A threat almost, a reminder to be a good girl because they can get it elsewhere and you're a dispensable commodity. "
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"Some men are as good at teasing for sex as women are, the popular male forumites have quite an obvious female following on here
Are their inboxes flooded with messages from women desperate for sex?
Many women realise "desperate " is not the most positive look
Still wouldn't hinder their search though
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Absolutely. I do it all the time. The stud farm has, on average, 3 mares visiting the stud every month for a rather hefty fee.
Oh, you meant men personally?...I beg your pardon, I misunderstood. I shall take my leave now. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job...
This.
Anecdotal experiences have found it backfires on these women more often than not."
Does it. I have often been surprised at how easily otherwise quite rational men are influenced by a woman using some sort of "womanly" action. I had quite an argument with my male boss once because he asked me to do something outside my remit. When I asked him why the woman whose actual job it was couldn't do it he said she'd cried when he asked her to. I was literally gobsmacked that a) he fell for it b) he had the bare faced cheek to ask me to do it and c) she had the nerve to do it. |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job...
This.
Anecdotal experiences have found it backfires on these women more often than not.
Does it. I have often been surprised at how easily otherwise quite rational men are influenced by a woman using some sort of "womanly" action. I had quite an argument with my male boss once because he asked me to do something outside my remit. When I asked him why the woman whose actual job it was couldn't do it he said she'd cried when he asked her to. I was literally gobsmacked that a) he fell for it b) he had the bare faced cheek to ask me to do it and c) she had the nerve to do it."
Did you punch her in the tit?  |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job...
This.
Anecdotal experiences have found it backfires on these women more often than not.
Does it. I have often been surprised at how easily otherwise quite rational men are influenced by a woman using some sort of "womanly" action. I had quite an argument with my male boss once because he asked me to do something outside my remit. When I asked him why the woman whose actual job it was couldn't do it he said she'd cried when he asked her to. I was literally gobsmacked that a) he fell for it b) he had the bare faced cheek to ask me to do it and c) she had the nerve to do it.
Did you punch her in the tit? "
 . No. I fixed her with my gimlet eye  |
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"I'm always uncomfortable with the women use sex for some kind of gain and men are their unknowing victims. I've never used to sex for gain, the reason I fuck is the fact I enjoy it.
Two women at my work place were up for the same job. The final decision rested with the man who would be their boss. One woman was really embarrassing in the way she tried to use her "womanly wiles" to influence his decision. I cringed so hard on a daily basis and in meetings it was horrible to witness. She didn't get the job...
This.
Anecdotal experiences have found it backfires on these women more often than not.
Does it. I have often been surprised at how easily otherwise quite rational men are influenced by a woman using some sort of "womanly" action. I had quite an argument with my male boss once because he asked me to do something outside my remit. When I asked him why the woman whose actual job it was couldn't do it he said she'd cried when he asked her to. I was literally gobsmacked that a) he fell for it b) he had the bare faced cheek to ask me to do it and c) she had the nerve to do it.
Did you punch her in the tit?
. No. I fixed her with my gimlet eye "
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" Did you punch her in the tit?
Well, there's a twist. 
I don't really think said lady got punched in the boob, especially not by Mrs Nice "
In all fairness, 'a kick' sounds much more satisfying than 'a punch', really. |
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" Did you punch her in the tit?
Well, there's a twist.
I don't really think said lady got punched in the boob, especially not by Mrs Nice
In all fairness, 'a kick' sounds much more satisfying than 'a punch', really."
But you'd need gymnast legs for that unless you were stood on a ladder. Seems an awful lot of trouble to go to. |
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" Did you punch her in the tit?
Well, there's a twist.
I don't really think said lady got punched in the boob, especially not by Mrs Nice
In all fairness, 'a kick' sounds much more satisfying than 'a punch', really.
But you'd need gymnast legs for that unless you were stood on a ladder. Seems an awful lot of trouble to go to."
Hmmm....you have given me much food for thought. I shall have a ponder about it. |
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" Did you punch her in the tit?
Well, there's a twist.
I don't really think said lady got punched in the boob, especially not by Mrs Nice
In all fairness, 'a kick' sounds much more satisfying than 'a punch', really.
But you'd need gymnast legs for that unless you were stood on a ladder. Seems an awful lot of trouble to go to."
I do have gymnast legs. The rest of him is about somewhere... |
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"That's it then. I am henceforth witholding all the sex until I get what I want.
Put a shirt on for a start."
No, they need to know what they are missing...... |
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"That's it then. I am henceforth witholding all the sex until I get what I want.
Put a shirt on for a start.
No, they need to know what they are missing...... "
Touche. Go strut your stuff my good man. |
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