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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sou ds like a judgy thread to me. What do you class as overweight? Do you know all the womens BMI?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Not at all.

I don’t regard it as overweight however it is fairly obvious the majority are very overweight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sou ds like a judgy thread to me. What do you class as overweight? Do you know all the womens BMI? "

You for instance are clearly not anywhere near overweight.

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

The big ones ate all the little ones

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all. "

As it probably is for men and actually in reality as it is for men and women in society in general.

Out of interest have you tried fabonlyfittiesallowed.com.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sou ds like a judgy thread to me. What do you class as overweight? Do you know all the womens BMI?

You for instance are clearly not anywhere near overweight."

You can't say that just from looking at a few of my pics. Clever angles and lighting can make a huge difference.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

And they were deeeeeelicious!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find it's a fairly accurate snapshot of society on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

As it probably is for men and actually in reality as it is for men and women in society in general.

Out of interest have you tried fabonlyfittiesallowed.com. "

Yeh fair point - society in general may be the answer - other sites (tinder etc) don’t seem to have as many out of shape people.

So was just wondering if it’s a site like this people use.

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Why do men have the misconception of having a perfect cock ? Some women may have similar misconceptions of what is considered over weight.

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By *hilledGuerillaMan  over a year ago

In the monkey house

Did he really just ask that in an open forum? [insert sarcastic tone here] your inbox is going to be packed with women after you now!

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By *incskittenWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all. "

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

They closed down fuckafatty, so we all needed to go somewhere else

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

I'm a fatty! I ate all the cream cakes! x

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

I've just had three as a snack.

Very more-ish

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Funny isn't it it's always slim Vs bigger, what about average size? Or are they some mythical creatures that are unheard of? Or is it just more fun pitting women against each other?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sou ds like a judgy thread to me. What do you class as overweight? Do you know all the womens BMI?

You for instance are clearly not anywhere near overweight.

You can't say that just from looking at a few of my pics. Clever angles and lighting can make a huge difference. "

Found that out the hard way. Bought this house without visiting first. MISTAKE.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I don’t view men’s profiles so I’d imagine there’s far more overweight guys than slim guys too

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I think overweight was an unfortunate word to use

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fascinating

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We all win at seesaw if nothing else!

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe we should rename the site Flab Swingers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm classed as obease and I think statistically 60% of women in the UK are overweight to morbidity obease so us fatties outnumber skinny ladies not just on fab... To be fair I see many beautiful women of all shapes and sizes on here and don't think one body type is more prevelant than another... Why does it bother you either way? No one is saying you have have to sleep with them just because there on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They closed down fuckafatty, so we all needed to go somewhere else "

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"The big ones ate all the little ones

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

"

you're welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Popcorn won't do for this one

*reaches for pork scratchings

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

"

OP, count your blessings.

You dodged the wrath of PP.... on this occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Popcorn won't do for this one

*reaches for pork scratchings"

Share?

I need to maintain my overweightness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm classed as obease and I think statistically 60% of women in the UK are overweight to morbidity obease so us fatties outnumber skinny ladies not just on fab... To be fair I see many beautiful women of all shapes and sizes on here and don't think one body type is more prevelant than another... Why does it bother you either way? No one is saying you have have to sleep with them just because there on here "

Oh no, doesn’t bother me at all.

Live and let live - each to their own.

Was more of an observation and I was seeking an answer.

Your statistics do help to provide that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Popcorn won't do for this one

*reaches for pork scratchings

Share?

I need to maintain my overweightness. "

No probs

I have a multi pack

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

"

Careful coming in here, I might eat you

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By *hilledGuerillaMan  over a year ago

In the monkey house


"Maybe we should rename the site Flab Swingers"

If they do, I’m staying put.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !"

He as no pictures to judge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Holy fucking shit...

I mean there are just no words.

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By *beefMan  over a year ago

Long eaton

prefer bigger women to skinny ones so im in my element on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe we should rename the site Flab Swingers

If they do, I’m staying put. "

Haha me too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

Careful coming in here, I might eat you "

Fuck sake I just spat my drink all over my phone now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!! "

there are a few of us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do men have the misconception of having a perfect cock ? Some women may have similar misconceptions of what is considered over weight."

Brilliant and a great response x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Popcorn won't do for this one

*reaches for pork scratchings"

I've got a pie in each hand

Got to keep my strength up.

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By *incskittenWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !

He as no pictures to judge "

He did i looked ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !

He as no pictures to judge "

I do have them up.

But this post has went a little crazy so I’ve taken them

Down.

Verifications should help you if you want to know what I look like..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

Bruh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Popcorn time!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x"

Your first sentence is an observation. You then go on to ask questions designed to get a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!!

there are a few of us"

I think she was being sarcastic

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By *essica FlabbitWoman  over a year ago

west midlands/shropshire

Sometimes it best to keep my mouth shut...

Unless it involves food

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By *lleOfAGoodTimeWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

As it probably is for men and actually in reality as it is for men and women in society in general.

Out of interest have you tried fabonlyfittiesallowed.com.

Yeh fair point - society in general may be the answer - other sites (tinder etc) don’t seem to have as many out of shape people.

So was just wondering if it’s a site like this people use.

"

Tinder have a much younger group of users (gym boom generation)

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x"

What you've analysed the average size of women on here? And you've totally ignored the women of average size so no I don't agree it's a fair observation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

As it probably is for men and actually in reality as it is for men and women in society in general.

Out of interest have you tried fabonlyfittiesallowed.com.

Yeh fair point - society in general may be the answer - other sites (tinder etc) don’t seem to have as many out of shape people.

So was just wondering if it’s a site like this people use.

Tinder have a much younger group of users (gym boom generation) "

Yeh, good point

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By *incskittenWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x"

Why have you removed your pics OP?

Is it ok judge others but not want others to judge you .

I ll stick to my observations on my earlier post.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !

He as no pictures to judge

He did i looked ... "

Oh

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

Fatties fuck too.. and am good at it .. find it hard to take serious a man hidden by a blank avatar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

Fuck sake, I was just about to wade in with my size 3's and this has given me stitch

Careful coming in here, I might eat you

Fuck sake I just spat my drink all over my phone now"

sorry about that, swallowing not your thing?

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x"

Is it a fair observation that you consider you have the perfect cock ? Women may consider they have perfect figures to which you disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was going to pull up a chair and see how this pans out. So the men on here outnumber women by a ridiculous amount and lets be fair not all of us have adonis physiques. Also. Outside the physical aspects are you not bothered about the intellect the fun the connection. Could you be with someone who cant have a laugh or be able to string a sentence together. Besides. What you find attractive isnt the same as the next man or woman. Each to their own. There are lots on here who are classed as slim or athletic. Next you'll be saying average is overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"this is not a judgemental or bashing thread"

That's like saying "no offence, but..." before you say something offensive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

UNBELIEVABLE! You shouldn't be so judgemental. Mind you reading your profile its obvious you have a high opinion of yourself...let me tell you something .

You ain't all that !

He as no pictures to judge

I do have them up.

But this post has went a little crazy so I’ve taken them

Down.

Verifications should help you if you want to know what I look like.."

What you look like is of no concern to me. I was just saying how can someone comment on your looks when you have no public pictures. But they did see you just removed them so you can’t be judged

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What’s classed as a perfect cock?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s about connection and chemistry surely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

op,its strange you have no pics on your profile you overweight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What’s classed as a perfect cock? "

The op

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As an actual answer, I think many men are less fussy where they poke their penis for a shag and that is why the vast majority of men and women are on Fab. (Yes we know forumites are a little different, but we're also a tiny percentage of the overall fab population) So acceptance of larger women to those ends brings more women. Would they want to date that women on a swipe left/right initial photo basis? Probably not.

My dating profile is much quieter than my fab profile...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What’s classed as a perfect cock?

The op "

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"What’s classed as a perfect cock? "

The one on his head

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What’s classed as a perfect cock?

The one on his head "

m

Can’t see that one his hid his pics after starting this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*has a look at this and flies off again*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x

Why have you removed your pics OP?

Is it ok judge others but not want others to judge you .

I ll stick to my observations on my earlier post."

Exactly that he doesn't want to be judged. More than happy to have his own judgey "observation" though.

Other peoples size and weight is really know one else concern. We have enough of a self image problem in society as it is. People like this are part of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Removes a packet of popcorn from the cupboard and sits on the side lines watching intently.

No I’m not sharing. I’m technically overweight too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Popcorn time!"

Of all the years on here that's the first time I've posted that, oh god, have I become institutionalised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x

Why have you removed your pics OP?

Is it ok judge others but not want others to judge you .

I ll stick to my observations on my earlier post."

Received a message from someone stating they were going to put them online.

Not ideal and not nice.

So yeh they’re gone

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"What’s classed as a perfect cock? "

Ok, I've posted that question twice

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By *ornyone30Man  over a year ago

ABERDEEN

Im away to get some popcorn before reading this thread lol. Could be a bumpy ride

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"It’s about connection and chemistry surely?"

Nah I'm overweight so men flock to me despite the fact I'm a class A bitch obviously

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"If you relax a little and read my original post it’s a fair question...

And a fair observation x

Why have you removed your pics OP?

Is it ok judge others but not want others to judge you .

I ll stick to my observations on my earlier post.

Received a message from someone stating they were going to put them online.

Not ideal and not nice.

So yeh they’re gone "

That's easy, if the message was real, report it to admin

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As an actual answer, I think many men are less fussy where they poke their penis for a shag and that is why the vast majority of men and women are on Fab. (Yes we know forumites are a little different, but we're also a tiny percentage of the overall fab population) So acceptance of larger women to those ends brings more women. Would they want to date that women on a swipe left/right initial photo basis? Probably not.

My dating profile is much quieter than my fab profile... "

A mature response.

Thank you.

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By *enhamhoopMan  over a year ago

Denham


"The big ones ate all the little ones

And they were deeeeeelicious! "

Were they finger licking good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation "

Tis against fab forum rules to say anything about any women on fab that is not complimentary. Allfabwomenarebeautiful.

I made that rule up btw

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation "

You haven't been reading the forums long then .

When it comes to discussing a topic such as this you need to either word your initial observations very carefully or avoid the subject altogether.

If you receive abuse, report it.

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By *incskittenWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation "

I fail to see why you removed your public pics after starting a judgemental thread .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well...

As fat women, we're not exactly inconspicuous are we?

Maybe you're just noticing us more here cos we're not hiding away.

I don't think the percentage of overweight people is noticeably higher on fab than it is in life in general.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation

I fail to see why you removed your public pics after starting a judgemental thread .

"

I answered you earlier

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!!

there are a few of us

I think she was being sarcastic "

I wasn't being sarcastic as it happens!

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By *ent in BlackMan  over a year ago

Silsden

Watching this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. It's a well known fact that kink is directly proportionate to weight. We aren't called fat fuckers for nothing OP. Also us hefty lasses can't get the ride anywhere else, so we come to Fab because everyone knows that all the blokes on here think any hole's a goal so we're pretty much guaranteed to get a shag despite our rolls

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!!

there are a few of us

I think she was being sarcastic

I wasn't being sarcastic as it happens! "

I stand corrected

Need more women like you on fab

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By *xperience huntingMan  over a year ago

where


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!! "

Ahem I’m here if you were looking ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As an actual answer, I think many men are less fussy where they poke their penis for a shag and that is why the vast majority of men and women are on Fab. (Yes we know forumites are a little different, but we're also a tiny percentage of the overall fab population) So acceptance of larger women to those ends brings more women. Would they want to date that women on a swipe left/right initial photo basis? Probably not.

My dating profile is much quieter than my fab profile... "

This isn't the same for all bigger women. I've been swinging and using fab for 13 years. I've also spent 10 of those 13 years either dating or in relationships. I've been fat most of that time and never struggled to find me who are into me regardless of my weight.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Removes a packet of popcorn from the cupboard and sits on the side lines watching intently.

No I’m not sharing. I’m technically overweight too. "

Finished first packet and now on packet two!

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By *olex99Man  over a year ago

Hull

I'd shift my arse into this debate but as a fat bloke, I'm too lazy

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By *incskittenWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation

I fail to see why you removed your public pics after starting a judgemental thread .

I answered you earlier "

Ahh yes you did... i was busy eating a huge slice of cake #fatty# i missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

And they were deeeeeelicious! "

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Glad to see everyone being rationale haha..

That’s my profile hidden. The abuse taken was em... unexpected. Wowza haha

Just a question and not aimed at anyone personally. Fail to see why people can be offended by an observation "

Maybe think twice before posting and ask your self, would you ask any female your observations to her face...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones"

I've eaten a few of the bigger ones too tbh

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Removes a packet of popcorn from the cupboard and sits on the side lines watching intently.

No I’m not sharing. I’m technically overweight too.

Finished first packet and now on packet two! "

I'd invest in a popcorn maker for this one

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"The big ones ate all the little ones

I've eaten a few of the bigger ones too tbh "

I've eaten big ones and little ones .. delicious

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple  over a year ago

coventry

Wow op thanks for making us feel special we as our bmi say are overweight, been swinging 3 years never a issue. In any platform we use.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As an actual answer, I think many men are less fussy where they poke their penis for a shag and that is why the vast majority of men and women are on Fab. (Yes we know forumites are a little different, but we're also a tiny percentage of the overall fab population) So acceptance of larger women to those ends brings more women. Would they want to date that women on a swipe left/right initial photo basis? Probably not.

My dating profile is much quieter than my fab profile...

This isn't the same for all bigger women. I've been swinging and using fab for 13 years. I've also spent 10 of those 13 years either dating or in relationships. I've been fat most of that time and never struggled to find me who are into me regardless of my weight.

Lu "

Nope, it's a general answer. There isn't going to be any one reason.

I'm here because I adore sex. It also so happens I adore cake .

Maybe therein lies another reason. We are hedonistic creatures that just have what we like. Sex + Cake =fat Fabbers

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all. "

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"I'm classed as obease and I think statistically 60% of women in the UK are overweight to morbidity obease so us fatties outnumber skinny ladies not just on fab... To be fair I see many beautiful women of all shapes and sizes on here and don't think one body type is more prevelant than another... Why does it bother you either way? No one is saying you have have to sleep with them just because there on here

Oh no, doesn’t bother me at all.

Live and let live - each to their own.

Was more of an observation and I was seeking an answer.

Your statistics do help to provide that.

"

Basically op - people (men AND women) are becoming more and more overweight in general - and as some have said - 60% (myself included these days) are overweight or obese. While people will expound on the reasons for hours and blame the government, supermarkets and food manufacturers - the fact is that most of us exercise less and eat more sugary/fatty foods than previous generations - and that’s down to all of us as individuals - not society.

Yep there are those with physical or mental conditions who can’t control their weight - but the majority of us can.

One thing, though - when you say their aren’t as many larger ladies on tinder, pof etc I’d dispute that.

On those sights people don’t tend to show themselves in all their naked glory or underwear as we often do on here! Camera angles can do a lot. I believe there’s more honesty about body shape/size on fab and more acceptance - and that I love!

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By *ntrigued32Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham

We all love cake!

Obviously!!!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Removes a packet of popcorn from the cupboard and sits on the side lines watching intently.

No I’m not sharing. I’m technically overweight too.

Finished first packet and now on packet two!

I'd invest in a popcorn maker for this one "

Hahaha. I buy the microwave stuff by the bucket load. Always in reserve for threads like this.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN "

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes? "

Excellent, I'll come straight round!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes? "

Can you make more cake so we stop eating people? They are a bit chewy

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Awesome

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes?

Can you make more cake so we stop eating people? They are a bit chewy "

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got some cake to share. Cream finger doughnuts are mine

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? Probably. Walk into any high street shop and the bigger sizes are the first to go, thus indicating that the female population may be slightly heavier than the glossy mags would have folk believe.

are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? No. Size is irrelevant to Kinkiness, unless you have feeder/fetish kinks etc.

or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not? When a woman puts her mind to it she can get attention from anywhere, regardless of her size.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes?

Can you make more cake so we stop eating people? They are a bit chewy

Of course "

Perfect, I'll be on my way ASAP just need to stop off at the beach for a sand top up first

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even fatties like me need sex

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By *ushtakerMan  over a year ago

Preston

I’d be happy to eat any that are spare mmmmm

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes?

Can you make more cake so we stop eating people? They are a bit chewy

Of course

Perfect, I'll be on my way ASAP just need to stop off at the beach for a sand top up first "

Lmao just make sure you don't get it in the cake, gritty cake isn't nice

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple

Love it when a man posts like this, without an actual photo of himself !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Even the black silhouette women profile pictures are gorgeous and get sex on fab

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Even the black silhouette women profile pictures are gorgeous and get sex on fab "

Meaning what exactly ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West

Just close your eyes and think of England, OP. It'll be over before you know it. Or invest in a blindfold. Then you can't see the fat lady running away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all.

Are heavier women more kinky? Why would those two things correlate? That's like saying "Are redheads better swimmers? Do people with blue eyes make better cakes?"

"I'm a face man anyway so it's not a complete deal breaker" oh how gallant I think your judgement is showing here, OP.

Mrs TMN

Oi Mrs TMN how did you know I'm a better swimmer and I make better cakes?

Can you make more cake so we stop eating people? They are a bit chewy

Of course

Perfect, I'll be on my way ASAP just need to stop off at the beach for a sand top up first

Lmao just make sure you don't get it in the cake, gritty cake isn't nice "

Oh definitely not, I'll keep it where it's supposed to be

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Just close your eyes and think of England, OP. It'll be over before you know it. Or invest in a blindfold. Then you can't see the fat lady running away "

Nooooo its not over till the fat lady sings

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? Probably. Walk into any high street shop and the bigger sizes are the first to go, thus indicating that the female population may be slightly heavier than the glossy mags would have folk believe.

are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? No. Size is irrelevant to Kinkiness, unless you have feeder/fetish kinks etc.

or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not? When a woman puts her mind to it she can get attention from anywhere, regardless of her size.

"

Tbh I just think the ladies of fab are more sexually confident whatever their size (and rightly so) than women on dating sites perhaps are.

A couple of days ago I took a naked pic (though I’m overweight and unhappy about it) and posted it on here. On a dating site if I posted a pic I’d probably wear ‘flab hiding’ clothes and use clever angles (though tbh I’m damned if I know what those ‘clever angles’ are - I’ve just read about them in here!) - so the fact I’m currently overweight wouldn’t be obvious!

Ergo comparing naked/nearly naked women on fab to women on ‘clothed’ sites wouldn’t provide an accurate comparison.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Anyone for a chippy tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just close your eyes and think of England, OP. It'll be over before you know it. Or invest in a blindfold. Then you can't see the fat lady running away "

You don’t need to look at the face while poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go into town and take a look at the average female, I think fab represents it perfectly fine.

Tinder is full of younger people and tbh I was slim when I was younger too.

Also, filters are used heavily on there, so they might just look slimmer on their photos.

However, I find it very judgmental to pass any comments on peoples weight or image when you hide yourself away.

Personally, I like my plumpness

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone for a chippy tonight? "

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

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By *urls and DressesWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Called real bodies and not filtered by media and porn. You’ve just got to accept there aren’t many women without some bumps, stretch marks, cellulite and imperfections that make her the beautiful unique woman that she is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Even the black silhouette women profile pictures are gorgeous and get sex on fab

Meaning what exactly ?"

Meaning any women can get sex on fab. Just like a few other women on this thread have said.

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya "

Can i have spam fritter plz x

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x"

Sicko!

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"The big ones ate all the little ones

I've just had three as a snack.

Very more-ish "

I’ve been greedy and ate a few big ones

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya "

I’d love my sausage battered

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x

Sicko!"

Ment spam honest

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By *offiaCoolWoman  over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Even the black silhouette women profile pictures are gorgeous and get sex on fab

Meaning what exactly ?

Meaning any women can get sex on fab. Just like a few other women on this thread have said. "

Ah, ok. That's not how it came across

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x

Sicko!

Ment spam honest "

Omg you changed it... am howling

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ah, the internet.

"I know that a topic tends to get people riled up and hurts feelings. I'm going to post on this and then claim that I'm super rational and just asking questions and people are far too sensitive. Human feelings are bad and if I put 'rational' or 'truth' or 'observation' in front of what I'm saying it makes it unassailable and you can't judge me. And 'no offence' is absolutely bulletproof - nothing is ever offensive if you say that!"

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x

Sicko!

Ment spam honest

Omg you changed it... am howling "

Guilty!

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x

Sicko!

Ment spam honest

Omg you changed it... am howling

Guilty! "

You got me good girl.. revenge is sweet

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

Can i have sperm fritter plz x

Sicko!

Ment spam honest

Omg you changed it... am howling

Guilty!

You got me good girl.. revenge is sweet "

Yaaaay! bring it on

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"Just close your eyes and think of England, OP. It'll be over before you know it. Or invest in a blindfold. Then you can't see the fat lady running away

Nooooo its not over till the fat lady sings "

I can't sing, my mouth is full

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"Anyone for a chippy tonight?

Fancy a battered sausage. Plenty of calories for ya

I’d love my sausage battered "

I'd love a battered sausage in my mouth

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By *assing Fancies xCouple  over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We should get Mr kipling to sponsor Fab and we all get as much cake as we like when we sign up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone for some cheesecake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The big ones ate all the little ones

I've eaten a few of the bigger ones too tbh

I've eaten big ones and little ones .. delicious "

I stick to the big ones. The little ones run to fast. Come to think of it,I'm hungry.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've just been to the shop for donuts cos WD wouldn't give me any cookies

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough "

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters "

I mean that's statistically significant surely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all. "

This is going to go down well

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely "

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight."

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Whether you meant to or not OP, you have come out with a thread that jumps right into the middle of what it always going to be a contentious issue.

Honestly I don't think it sounds like you are fat bashing or fat shaming, but asking a series of questions.

Your final question; "or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?"; however, has just made me and I'm sure other women on here who struggle with their confidence feel like utter crap, because actually in some cases it is true.

I've been made in the past to feel like I'm good enough for a shag as long as no one knows about it, or as a "fuck a fattie" dare, but not good enough to actually date, to go out with their mates with, to be proud to be with. And that last question just bashed the confidence I've been building and took me right back there.

I've never criticized anyone for their looks, weight, style, penis size, boob size or anything on here, I do my best to be a nice person and make people smile (disclaimer... this isn't always possible because sometimes I have a bad day, I am after all human). I'm one of those women who replies to polite messages, to one word messages, even when I've got no interest in the person sending them. I still find it hard to believe when people say I'm attractive or they're attracted to me. And you've just knocked me back a long way.

Yes, I'll bounce back, because I'm fat and I bounce. And realistically the opinion of an anonymous stranger on the internet isn't actually that important. But the negative comments that anyone makes are always the loudest ones I and people like me hear.

Right now I'm in tears writing this comment and that's down to you and the others on this thread who have said similar things. Thanks guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would say the demographic of women on here reflects the general population. Seems a fairly even spread of smaller to larger girls with everything in-between xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny "

It's a better quality study than some of the shite being cited on here and elsewhere

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight."

Airtight even

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny "

... I just spat my water.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!! "

Sorry, just got back....been out to pick up 300kg of Mr.Kiplings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All I’ll say is I do alright for a fat bird. Haha. Each to their own. The bigger the peach the sweeter the juice.... or so I’ve been told

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Airtight even "

Watertight is 95% confidence interval and airtight is 99%?

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan  over a year ago

Birmingham


"I just think it's a shame there aren't more overweight guys on here!!! "

That made me giggle im pretty sure there is plenty overweight guys their just breathing in on the selfi

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By *anchester_gentMan  over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border


"..... other sites (tinder etc) don’t seem to have as many out of shape people. "

..... said the guy who’s not in any way being judgmental...!

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny

It's a better quality study than some of the shite being cited on here and elsewhere "

Howling now, going to try this technique on my next paper see what happens

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny

... I just spat my water."

We said watertight swing for goodness sake

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Sorted aren't we glad the scientific community can withstand such scrutiny

It's a better quality study than some of the shite being cited on here and elsewhere

Howling now, going to try this technique on my next paper see what happens "

I'll make it statistically valid. Involves Greek letters. Chi squared.

That's an x and a 2 right?

xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Airtight even

Watertight is 95% confidence interval and airtight is 99%?"

Airtight, watertight and double-penetrated for extra deep probing of the facts

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Airtight even

Watertight is 95% confidence interval and airtight is 99%?

Airtight, watertight and double-penetrated for extra deep probing of the facts "

I'm so sorry Prof (statistics lecturer)

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Whether you meant to or not OP, you have come out with a thread that jumps right into the middle of what it always going to be a contentious issue.

Honestly I don't think it sounds like you are fat bashing or fat shaming, but asking a series of questions.

Your final question; "or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?"; however, has just made me and I'm sure other women on here who struggle with their confidence feel like utter crap, because actually in some cases it is true.

I've been made in the past to feel like I'm good enough for a shag as long as no one knows about it, or as a "fuck a fattie" dare, but not good enough to actually date, to go out with their mates with, to be proud to be with. And that last question just bashed the confidence I've been building and took me right back there.

I've never criticized anyone for their looks, weight, style, penis size, boob size or anything on here, I do my best to be a nice person and make people smile (disclaimer... this isn't always possible because sometimes I have a bad day, I am after all human). I'm one of those women who replies to polite messages, to one word messages, even when I've got no interest in the person sending them. I still find it hard to believe when people say I'm attractive or they're attracted to me. And you've just knocked me back a long way.

Yes, I'll bounce back, because I'm fat and I bounce. And realistically the opinion of an anonymous stranger on the internet isn't actually that important. But the negative comments that anyone makes are always the loudest ones I and people like me hear.

Right now I'm in tears writing this comment and that's down to you and the others on this thread who have said similar things. Thanks guys."

ignore the shit and read the funny bits

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Leave us fatties alone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ratio of overweight woman compared to woman who are slim or athletic on this site is quite incredible.

I am a face man anyway so it’s not a complete deal breaker and this is absolutely not a criticism - far be it from me.

Why is this though? Is this a snapshot of general reality? are heavier woman more kinky so use a site like this? or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?

Just curious - not a bashing / judgey thread at all. "

Its all the big lasses fault the poor children of the UK are starving. Ffs feed the starving kids first.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Whether you meant to or not OP, you have come out with a thread that jumps right into the middle of what it always going to be a contentious issue.

Honestly I don't think it sounds like you are fat bashing or fat shaming, but asking a series of questions.

Your final question; "or is this a place where overweight ladies get attention and on other sites they may not?"; however, has just made me and I'm sure other women on here who struggle with their confidence feel like utter crap, because actually in some cases it is true.

I've been made in the past to feel like I'm good enough for a shag as long as no one knows about it, or as a "fuck a fattie" dare, but not good enough to actually date, to go out with their mates with, to be proud to be with. And that last question just bashed the confidence I've been building and took me right back there.

I've never criticized anyone for their looks, weight, style, penis size, boob size or anything on here, I do my best to be a nice person and make people smile (disclaimer... this isn't always possible because sometimes I have a bad day, I am after all human). I'm one of those women who replies to polite messages, to one word messages, even when I've got no interest in the person sending them. I still find it hard to believe when people say I'm attractive or they're attracted to me. And you've just knocked me back a long way.

Yes, I'll bounce back, because I'm fat and I bounce. And realistically the opinion of an anonymous stranger on the internet isn't actually that important. But the negative comments that anyone makes are always the loudest ones I and people like me hear.

Right now I'm in tears writing this comment and that's down to you and the others on this thread who have said similar things. Thanks guys. ignore the shit and read the funny bits "

Definitely. This is the same as it ever was. It's not worth taking seriously.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think maybe we're looking at this all wrong...the op is moaning about the tiddlers not being kinky enough

You might be on to something there. I'm a fatty and I'm very kinky. Obviously my sample size of 1 is very meaningful and should be extrapolated to all chubsters

I mean that's statistically significant surely

Oh definitely. And peer reviewed. I asked S and he agreed. Watertight.

Airtight even

Watertight is 95% confidence interval and airtight is 99%?

Airtight, watertight and double-penetrated for extra deep probing of the facts

I'm so sorry Prof (statistics lecturer) "

You will call me that in the bedroom

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