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No but at my work there was someone who didn’t work there all the time, just came from another office occasionally and I thought they might be someone who posted in the forums so I mentioned Rant Thursday in a conversation to see their reaction.
They did look at me as though they knew what I was talking about but nothing else was said  |
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"No but at my work there was someone who didn’t work there all the time, just came from another office occasionally and I thought they might be someone who posted in the forums so I mentioned Rant Thursday in a conversation to see their reaction.
They did look at me as though they knew what I was talking about but nothing else was said "
We haven't had that for a while..it used to be good fun |
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No, I wouldn't have a clue and I would like to think that people wouldn't know we were by just looking at us.
When away from Fab, clubs and swinging naughtiness and in our real world existence we are just like any other couple who are extremely happy, very much in love, who also tease and take the piss out of each other.
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"No...how would you?"
Well... this is indeed the question
I am not talking stereotypes or the like, more being around swingers enough to recognise 'things'
Intuition I guess is where I'm going, like just 'knowing'
All I can liken it to was a friend of one of my mates
Although outwardly he showed no signs of being gay, I just knew he was
My mate got proper arsey with me about it
Then fast forward a couple of years, he said 'Guess who has come out?'
I already had guessed, like two years before |
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There is a big difference to gauging something about someone you know and a random stranger on the street so to speak. You have been on and off here for years, surely you have seen this question asked before  |
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We're all so different when we are here, let alone trying to spot others when not on here, in a club etc.
Some people are very open about their sexual interests wherever they are. I don't think most are though. Having a healthy interest in sex or a healthy interest in the kind of sexual lifestyles that many of us here enjoy, are very different things.
People may be able to determine how accepting of them that we may be, though not due to guessing that we share some interests. |
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"There is a big difference to gauging something about someone you know and a random stranger on the street so to speak. You have been on and off here for years, surely you have seen this question asked before "
I didn't really know him, he was, to me, a passing acquaintance, someone outside of my circle who was on the same night out
... and it's hardly the first time a question has been repeated on here is it?
Maybe I'll start one about whether or not women like hairy chests next  |
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"There is a big difference to gauging something about someone you know and a random stranger on the street so to speak. You have been on and off here for years, surely you have seen this question asked before
I didn't really know him, he was, to me, a passing acquaintance, someone outside of my circle who was on the same night out
... and it's hardly the first time a question has been repeated on here is it?
Maybe I'll start one about whether or not women like hairy chests next "
I believe many women like to lose their fingers in a hairy chest. Some of like a man who can handle a whole day shopping |
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"No...how would you?
Well... this is indeed the question
I am not talking stereotypes or the like, more being around swingers enough to recognise 'things'
Intuition I guess is where I'm going, like just 'knowing'
All I can liken it to was a friend of one of my mates
Although outwardly he showed no signs of being gay, I just knew he was
My mate got proper arsey with me about it
Then fast forward a couple of years, he said 'Guess who has come out?'
I already had guessed, like two years before"
Oh ok..if you're talking about mates then maybe you could pick up on certain things.
But strangers..no..I don't think I'd wouldn't have a clue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No...how would you?
Well... this is indeed the question
I am not talking stereotypes or the like, more being around swingers enough to recognise 'things'
Intuition I guess is where I'm going, like just 'knowing'
All I can liken it to was a friend of one of my mates
Although outwardly he showed no signs of being gay, I just knew he was
My mate got proper arsey with me about it
Then fast forward a couple of years, he said 'Guess who has come out?'
I already had guessed, like two years before
Oh ok..if you're talking about mates then maybe you could pick up on certain things.
But strangers..no..I don't think I'd wouldn't have a clue "
Hmmm i was a stranger to my ex... They said that i radiated pure sex and filth  |
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Most instances no however I used to work as a bartender a few months ago and I could tell a regular I got on with and ended up going out to a nightclub with after a shift was a swinger after seeing him and his girlfriend in the bar a few times |
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