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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I said an another thread that people arent here to service each other. But is that infact what we are all doing (not talking money changing hands) just servicing each others needs with various niceties added along the way to call it swinging. 
Ive probably just said something that is plainly obvious to all? |
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That's probably true but some people have different expectations.
Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.
Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.
Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.
They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place. |
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"That's probably true but some people have different expectations.
Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.
Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.
Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.
They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place. "
That is a nice way to look at it, I do like a dessert. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree.
Mutual servicing with hothusbands is fun, I don't want anything more than fun sex with friends  "
Mutual servicing sounds hot, I could do with some of that |
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Our preferences are just varying degrees of mating rituals. Some are happy with a quick bum sniff before a leg over, others want a whole bower building or a pretty dance.  |
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"Our preferences are just varying degrees of mating rituals. Some are happy with a quick bum sniff before a leg over, others want a whole bower building or a pretty dance. "
I like this ^^  |
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"That's probably true but some people have different expectations.
Some are only here to have their own needs attended to with little or no interest in who is attending.
Some are only here to attend to the needs of others and that's how they feel they are fulfilling their own needs.
Others are here to enjoy shared experiences to the full.
They may have come in for the main course but stayed for dessert and those things that weren't on their menu in the first place. "
Sweet Dreams are made of this. Who am I to dissagree............... |
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Servicing needs, our own, or others, just sounds a little too bleak, too clinical, too cold and soulless to me....
Maslows hierarchy doesn't even go as far a suggesting such a bleak transactional premise.
Guess it depends on how needs are defined, but such a cold transactional self seeking focus on servicing needs, perhaps it lacks a level of humanity...
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"Servicing needs, our own, or others, just sounds a little too bleak, too clinical, too cold and soulless to me....
Maslows hierarchy doesn't even go as far a suggesting such a bleak transactional premise.
Guess it depends on how needs are defined, but such a cold transactional self seeking focus on servicing needs, perhaps it lacks a level of humanity...
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I was watching paint dry. |
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