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"But its true i am genuine " Help you how? | |||
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"Some nice sexual fun" No | |||
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"That's what they all say" You've never said that to me  | |||
"That's what they all say You've never said that to me "You ain't married | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same. You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Leave. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same.
You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another"Exactly, take her out and make her feel special | |||
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"Some nice sexual fun" Is there anything you hope can he gained by this help? Just merely sexual release? | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "I was in the same situation too for about 4 years due to us growing apart and falling out of love. I remained faithful, and we eventually talked about it and decided we'd both be happier going our seperate ways. If you don't mind me offering advice, I'd say talk to her. If you still love each other, trying to fix things would be a much better use of your time rather than potentially destroying it all for a quick shag. If you don't still love each other, then why are you still in the relationship? Neither of you will be happy. Good luck anyway. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same.
You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another"Hear, hear. Well put. | |||
"Get wife on fab. Meet another guy. You both fuck her. She gets sex, you get sex. Win win. " Or start to Romance your wife again | |||
"Get wife on fab. Meet another guy. You both fuck her. She gets sex, you get sex. Win win. Or start to Romance your wife again " Ok | |||
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"Get wife on fab. Meet another guy. You both fuck her. She gets sex, you get sex. Win win. Or start to Romance your wife again Ok" Not you  | |||
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"Would love get her on fab" Tell her you are on a swinger site or show her your profile. | |||
"Would love get her on fab" You never know, she maybe here already | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I was in the same situation too for about 4 years due to us growing apart and falling out of love.
I remained faithful, and we eventually talked about it and decided we'd both be happier going our seperate ways.
If you don't mind me offering advice, I'd say talk to her.
If you still love each other, trying to fix things would be a much better use of your time rather than potentially destroying it all for a quick shag.
If you don't still love each other, then why are you still in the relationship? Neither of you will be happy.
Good luck anyway. "I can relate to this a lot. Your friendship can continue even if your marriage doesn’t. Far better to be honest with eachother than live a life of a lie. | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I was in the same situation too for about 4 years due to us growing apart and falling out of love.
I remained faithful, and we eventually talked about it and decided we'd both be happier going our seperate ways.
If you don't mind me offering advice, I'd say talk to her.
If you still love each other, trying to fix things would be a much better use of your time rather than potentially destroying it all for a quick shag.
If you don't still love each other, then why are you still in the relationship? Neither of you will be happy.
Good luck anyway.
I can relate to this a lot. Your friendship can continue even if your marriage doesn’t. Far better to be honest with eachother than live a life of a lie. "Yep, definitely, we are still mates and both so much happier. The kids are too as they see we are happy again. 
Should have split years ago, but we thought we were doing the right thing staying together. We obviously weren't. | |||
"That's what they all say" You beat me toooooo it | |||
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"That's what they all say You've never said that to me
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Get a divorce | |||
"What have the 2 of you agreed on? Is it an open relationship? People here will be more comfortable with you if you are in a consensual open relationship. If you haven't got that, it would be better for you both if you can come to an agreement that is acceptable and understood. This can prevent others getting involved in something that they would be uncomfortable with. Deceit has a high cost for all, including you, if you were to do that. There is no easy answer to relationship issues, even if casual sex may seem easy. Fab is also an extremely tough place for most single men to get sex with women. It's also a very dangerous time, where infections can be passed people, potentially taking their life. Invest in communication " I’m with you on most of what you wrote until the last paragraph. Claiming men are chasing shadows! On here? If you do the math I’d agree, it’s probably around 100/1 ratio. More men than women and couples seeking single guys. In my opinion single guys are not classed as or seen as swingers . (Myself included I’m single ) but we do have a place to be here without coming on all pesty and seedy. Limit the chasing with swingers and make plays for single ladies . At big odds of grabbing attention at high numbers 95 % won’t . The Reason why is guys have not thought out messages before sending and competing for attention wrong impression on profile. Chancers , personally I’m not here to get sex I can get that without being here. .. I am here to explore more among others that share kinks . Not all the same . But a open place no link shaming! you don’t get on other ways of seeking one night stands or hook ups etc . And fantasy. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Follow your dreams OP  the haters will always hate. I pray for their souls  | |||
"I have ssen one lady socially " What about the guy? Social too? You really do need to open discussions with your wife. What would she say about you having a profile on here? Let alone the veris going back 3 years. It's not a new profile, but a longer standing one, so you really do need to work out what you want, what she wants and talk!! | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Sorry to be the one that says it but if its sexless ask yourself why? Maybe you are shit at it so you’re wife doesn’t even waste her time anymore?  | |||
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"But i am a genuine nice guy "A genuine cheater, what a catch | |||
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"I haven cheated on her ever" You don't consider being on a swingers site asking for "naughty fun" cheating ? | |||
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"I haven cheated on her ever" So you just been thinking about it for the past 3 years? | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
Leave. "This | |||
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"No she is just not intrested i am not shit at i would love to see another guy or woman have sex with her, i have asked her she is not interested " Maybe she looks at your relationship in the same way, that you're not interested. You're giving that impression being on here looking for sex elsewhere behind your partner's back. | |||
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"I haven cheated on her ever" By being on here looking for sex with others you may as well have. The intent is there, you've just not had the opportunity yet by the sounds of it. Couples counselling really is my advice to you. In my view anyone who won't consider couples counselling but will risk their relationship for sex is looking for the easy route and selfish. Yes, it means you have to be honest, yes it means some things may sting but surely it's best to know you've done everything in your power and used all the available tools to make things right between you. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "FFS if I a € for every time I've gotten this message 
This is fabSWINGERS not fabadultresses.
What woman on here is going to offer you a pity shag?! Fuck sake! | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Invite her to FAB maybe that’s the spark you 2 need? | |||
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"Its just gone stale forty years of marriage " You have been on here years... you have had plenty time to sort this but looks by the green arrow your not really arsed and definitely not genuine | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
FFS if I a € for every time I've gotten this message
This is fabSWINGERS not fabadultresses.
What woman on here is going to offer you a pity shag?! Fuck sake!"Why would you want a € the currency exchange rate to £ is terrible haha | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Does your wife know you are on fab because you have been on fab over a year if she found out I think you might have some explaining to do | |||
"But i am a genuine nice guy "So genuine and nice you are on here try to cheat on your wife | |||
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"If the OP was female her inbox would be full now. Nobody actually gives a fuck OP you wont get much sympathy on here though." So true | |||
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"We struggled with being close and intimacy a couple of years back. We discussed it and made a deal, every Sunday we have some form if sex, without fail. We haven't broken that promise, its was a bit rigid and organised at first but now its clear it saved our sex life and relationship. So much so we are on here and stronger than ever. You can take the easy way and cheat...or work at it. " Oh and I think I speak for most couples on here when I say that as soon as a married or attached guy messages us, its an instant block. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I was in the same situation too for about 4 years due to us growing apart and falling out of love.
I remained faithful, and we eventually talked about it and decided we'd both be happier going our seperate ways.
If you don't mind me offering advice, I'd say talk to her.
If you still love each other, trying to fix things would be a much better use of your time rather than potentially destroying it all for a quick shag.
If you don't still love each other, then why are you still in the relationship? Neither of you will be happy.
Good luck anyway.
I can relate to this a lot. Your friendship can continue even if your marriage doesn’t. Far better to be honest with eachother than live a life of a lie. " | |||
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"We struggled with being close and intimacy a couple of years back. We discussed it and made a deal, every Sunday we have some form if sex, without fail. We haven't broken that promise, its was a bit rigid and organised at first but now its clear it saved our sex life and relationship. So much so we are on here and stronger than ever. You can take the easy way and cheat...or work at it. Oh and I think I speak for most couples on here when I say that as soon as a married or attached guy messages us, its an instant block. " I can assure you that's not the case | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x" Check the green arrow | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow " Ah, Gullible and naive...................I am too soft | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow Ah, Gullible and naive...................I am too soft " Not all the time you understand  | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow " ?? | |||
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"But its true i am genuine " That’s what they all say next | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ??" The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! | |||
"And those going on about the green arrow? What does that matter? He’s entitled to post on the forums about anything he sodding well likes so long as it’s within forum rules. He can shag who he bloody well likes too and the ONLY person entitled to get shitty about that is his wife (or someone he lied to if he told them he was single). and certainly not a bunch of forumites who take exception because a married man dare post and ask for sex. Sheesh. " This ^ *Cast not the first stone | |||
"But its true i am genuine " Genuinely what? Genuinely cheating? Do both of you a favour - end the relationship and start afresh - genuinely single! You only get one life - neither of you should be wasting it in a loveless, sexless relationship. | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps!" And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it?" It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? | |||
"And those going on about the green arrow? What does that matter? He’s entitled to post on the forums about anything he sodding well likes so long as it’s within forum rules. He can shag who he bloody well likes too and the ONLY person entitled to get shitty about that is his wife (or someone he lied to if he told them he was single). and certainly not a bunch of forumites who take exception because a married man dare post and ask for sex. Sheesh. " I pointed out the green arrow as he has a thread saying he doesn’t want to have sex with his wife anymore.. so his choice he in a sexless marriage!! | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage?" The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? | |||
"Thankyou someone understanding" If you use reply and quote it will make it easier for people to know who you are responding to. Like someone else has also said this isn’t the best place to ask advice about your situation.The double standards on men cheating compared to women is amusing to say the least. | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave??" I’d agree with that. I just advised him to leave the relationship because I think that’s best in a loveless (If indeed its loveless) relationship. There are thousands of men and women on fab who are in relationships - and fab would be half empty if they all left. My only ask would be that they were honest about it from the start (to people they interact with on fab) to avoid a lot of hurt later on. I personally haven’t been hurt by someone in a relationship (they’ve been honest pretty much from the start so I can make my own decision) - but I know many on here have! | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave??" Mauled I do not agree with, being advised to leave and direct the energy being used here into making the effort to save his marriage instead of condemning it if he got caught for example, isn't being nasty in my view. Advising someone to seek help via couples counselling isn't being nasty. Many of us are commenting as collateral damage of cheating behaviour. It will always be an emotive subject, with people writing with the blood they're still bleeding from the wounds they sustained. | |||
"Thankyou someone understandingIf you use reply and quote it will make it easier for people to know who you are responding to. Like someone else has also said this isn’t the best place to ask advice about your situation.The double standards on men cheating compared to women is amusing to say the least." | |||
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"Its just gone stale forty years of marriage " Married young then at 14 ?? | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave??" If you read my first post I did advise him that he has been on here long enough to know the consequence of posting such a question. I went on to advise that if sincere about changing his situation then he should seek further professional advice. I also agreed that their are circumstances that lead to his situation such as finance or dependents. On reading his other posts he seems to be confused as to what he actually wants. In one he says he no longer wants a relationship with his partner. Need I go on? | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? I’d agree with that. I just advised him to leave the relationship because I think that’s best in a loveless (If indeed its loveless) relationship. There are thousands of men and women on fab who are in relationships - and fab would be half empty if they all left. My only ask would be that they were honest about it from the start (to people they interact with on fab) to avoid a lot of hurt later on. I personally haven’t been hurt by someone in a relationship (they’ve been honest pretty much from the start so I can make my own decision) - but I know many on here have! " Every profile I've had I've stated in my bio I'm in a relationship, I know that's hardly honest as such bit I might as well let folk who don't agree either pass me by or even better hit the block button from the start. | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? Mauled I do not agree with, being advised to leave and direct the energy being used here into making the effort to save his marriage instead of condemning it if he got caught for example, isn't being nasty in my view. Advising someone to seek help via couples counselling isn't being nasty. Many of us are commenting as collateral damage of cheating behaviour. It will always be an emotive subject, with people writing with the blood they're still bleeding from the wounds they sustained." Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? Mauled I do not agree with, being advised to leave and direct the energy being used here into making the effort to save his marriage instead of condemning it if he got caught for example, isn't being nasty in my view. Advising someone to seek help via couples counselling isn't being nasty. Many of us are commenting as collateral damage of cheating behaviour. It will always be an emotive subject, with people writing with the blood they're still bleeding from the wounds they sustained. Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. " Ok I apologise for my part in it.. but going of the little the op give us and we found out for ourselves not is all that it seams!! I vented As I know exactly how it feels if she were to ever find out and for that I apologise too.. I don’t go looking for married men to argue with BUT if they put this on a public forum than for that I won’t sit on the fence for!! | |||
"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? Mauled I do not agree with, being advised to leave and direct the energy being used here into making the effort to save his marriage instead of condemning it if he got caught for example, isn't being nasty in my view. Advising someone to seek help via couples counselling isn't being nasty. Many of us are commenting as collateral damage of cheating behaviour. It will always be an emotive subject, with people writing with the blood they're still bleeding from the wounds they sustained. Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. " Nothing nice to say then say nothing? Is that your position? You need to get real and come into the real world. I have views on religion politics and football and express them even though they are not “nice” . Nobody has the right not to be offended by a view expressed within the context of the discussion or the law. | |||
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"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy "Yes dear of course I can help. You come round here for the evening and me and a male friend will go round to yours and have a great time with your Mrs. You can sit bored as fuck in front of my telly. Thank me later | |||
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" Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. " Adrian, twice now, we have advised the OP to seek couple's counselling about his loveless marriage. Twice he has ignored us completely and focused on the comments that pull him up for cheating. Others have also advised counselling and have been ignored. All I'm getting from this is that the OP doesn't want any help. Other than talking 1:1 to his wife on his own, the only other way I'm aware of to try and address marital issues is counselling and I speak from experience. | |||
"Nothing nice to say then say nothing? Is that your position? You need to get real and come into the real world. I have views on religion politics and football and express them even though they are not “nice” . Nobody has the right not to be offended by a view expressed within the context of the discussion or the law." On a personal level, yes, i follow this motto on here and in the real. And when i say on a personal level, what i mean is, if i see a post saying 'im sad, i miss having sex with my wife' i would ever say chin up i hope it gets better or just leave it. Not something like 'ah i dont know how you do it mste i have to fuck 5 times a week otherwise i cant sleep' Do you get my point here? About topics that your opinions and views should matter and should be heard, i am 200% with you. Lets talk about morals, politics, religion, football, whatever. Say the worst things, about the topics ofcourse, no problem at all. But even there, if you say something like 'im a Conservative and all liberals are ******' then no, you dont have that right either. I hope the say something nice or nada thing makes more sense in context. | |||
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"This forum is a cesspit for double standards. People piling up on me the other day for not being considering enough are here pulling a man down for a simple post. Where is your consideration for OP now? Talking about going back to his wife or about his wedding vows? How does anyone know what his situation is like or how he ended up here? If you have nothing constructive to say then leave the man alone for god sake. OP you do yourself, don't worry about what anyone has to say. I hope things get better for you in the future. Good luck x Check the green arrow ?? The green arrow is the equivalent of the trusty sword of truth.............the OP seems to have posted a few topics on his wife and other chaps! And? His posted about taking cum and exploring being submissive as well? Whats your point, i dont get it? It would seem from his post on watching his wife with other men he just may not be in a sexless marriage? The way i understood it was he 'would' love to watch his mrs. Lets say, he 'does' watch his wife, like the way you have understood it. Again, why does this matter at the moment, this what im not getting? Further more, what does any of that got to do with 'going back to his wife' 'following through with his wedding vows' or why he has to 'leave' fab? Correct me if i am wrong but one way or the other, are we not all degenerates to some degree? Some practice stuff that we may even be disgusted by but isn't the status quo on fab, to each their own? Im not saying lets carry this guy on our shoulders, my point is, why does this man deserve getting mauled to the point people are telling him to leave?? Mauled I do not agree with, being advised to leave and direct the energy being used here into making the effort to save his marriage instead of condemning it if he got caught for example, isn't being nasty in my view. Advising someone to seek help via couples counselling isn't being nasty. Many of us are commenting as collateral damage of cheating behaviour. It will always be an emotive subject, with people writing with the blood they're still bleeding from the wounds they sustained. Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. " This is agree with - though I stand by my comment about leaving a mutually unhappy relationship. I’m poorer now than I’ve ever been - but a million times happier. I just wish more people would have the courage to take the plunge if they’re in an unhappy relationship. X | |||
"Lol cone on guys this person is winding everyone up, he said he's been married 40 years and he's 54. I think he's just bored and wanted to y'all worked up " Or telling porkies about his age? I know a lot of guys who take about 10 years off their age on fab - and a few ladies to be fair! X | |||
" Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. Adrian, twice now, we have advised the OP to seek couple's counselling about his loveless marriage. Twice he has ignored us completely and focused on the comments that pull him up for cheating. Others have also advised counselling and have been ignored. All I'm getting from this is that the OP doesn't want any help. Other than talking 1:1 to his wife on his own, the only other way I'm aware of to try and address marital issues is counselling and I speak from experience." To be fair- from the opening post I got the impression that the op was just asking for a pity fuck. Clearly not been around long enough to know that NEVER happens on here unless you have a vagina! | |||
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" Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. Adrian, twice now, we have advised the OP to seek couple's counselling about his loveless marriage. Twice he has ignored us completely and focused on the comments that pull him up for cheating. Others have also advised counselling and have been ignored. All I'm getting from this is that the OP doesn't want any help. Other than talking 1:1 to his wife on his own, the only other way I'm aware of to try and address marital issues is counselling and I speak from experience. To be fair- from the opening post I got the impression that the op was just asking for a pity fuck. Clearly not been around long enough to know that NEVER happens on here unless you have a vagina! " Over a year on the site should, as I have pointed out, be sufficient time to realise that sympathy assignations are highly unlikely and posting the same thing time and again is equally unlikely to gain friends and win influence. What’s a vagina? | |||
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" Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. Adrian, twice now, we have advised the OP to seek couple's counselling about his loveless marriage. Twice he has ignored us completely and focused on the comments that pull him up for cheating. Others have also advised counselling and have been ignored. All I'm getting from this is that the OP doesn't want any help. Other than talking 1:1 to his wife on his own, the only other way I'm aware of to try and address marital issues is counselling and I speak from experience. To be fair- from the opening post I got the impression that the op was just asking for a pity fuck. Clearly not been around long enough to know that NEVER happens on here unless you have a vagina! Over a year on the site should, as I have pointed out, be sufficient time to realise that sympathy assignations are highly unlikely and posting the same thing time and again is equally unlikely to gain friends and win influence. What’s a vagina?" What is a vagina? Is that rhetorical question? | |||
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" Princess, ive read about your situation on a previous post and i do understand exactly where you are coming from. I am sorry this has happened to you and others. I know the pain too well. Again, my point isn't to take any moral high ground or claim cheating or not cheating is the way to go. Specifically with this mans post, when no other person but himself knows his situation at home, with the marriage, his own desires and fantasies. Who are we to tell him what to do with this stuff? Advice is one thing, but telling him to leave in a manner to suggest he's being kicked out is another. With the directing energy, again, a very big assumption. Maybe he spent 35 years of his 40 year marriage directing his energy and got fuck all in return? Who asked him about that? All i saw was go chat to your wife! What if he spent all his life chatting to her and is fed up now? Even i dont know this, but on a human to human level, i can understand that i dont know and choose to do one of two things. There is a man here, probably feeling sad by the looks of this specific post. Shall i hammer into him some more or should i just ignore this one? Maybe he has realised after all this time, he wants to be submissive and suck dick? Like is it so bad that a man may want to explore before coming out or telling anyone? What if he is here talking to people saying, listen im married and this is off the books is that cool? Does that still deserve what he got on this thread? His honesty has been questioned left right and centre, people taking his wifes side saying she probably not having sex with you because of so and so reason without even knowing the wife! I saw people giving advice here, i saw people being supportive but i also so some nasty shit and no one wants to own up or apologies. Yet they think they are the better or bigger person. Shame! All im saying is, let the man be. If you dont have nothing nice to say then just move on to another thread. Adrian, twice now, we have advised the OP to seek couple's counselling about his loveless marriage. Twice he has ignored us completely and focused on the comments that pull him up for cheating. Others have also advised counselling and have been ignored. All I'm getting from this is that the OP doesn't want any help. Other than talking 1:1 to his wife on his own, the only other way I'm aware of to try and address marital issues is counselling and I speak from experience. To be fair- from the opening post I got the impression that the op was just asking for a pity fuck. Clearly not been around long enough to know that NEVER happens on here unless you have a vagina! Over a year on the site should, as I have pointed out, be sufficient time to realise that sympathy assignations are highly unlikely and posting the same thing time and again is equally unlikely to gain friends and win influence. What’s a vagina? What is a vagina? Is that rhetorical question?" No it’s a vagina question | |||
"Its just gone stale forty years of marriage " You've not responded to the many informed, well reasoned discussions and advice given. Just repeated your mantra that you are bored. | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same.
You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another
Exactly, take her out and make her feel special "Yes, but that requires effort. | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same.
You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another
Exactly, take her out and make her feel special
Yes, but that requires effort."Indeed it does......... | |||
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"I wouldnt care if she was getting it else were" So why do you remain married? We don't get the feeling that you want to be married to this lady anymore. | |||
"I wouldnt care if she was getting it else were" You wouldn't mind or you wouldn't care. The 2 are different in my eyes. Not caring speaks volumes. | |||
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"Love to watch her have sex with a guy or a woman" I do believe that many have given you advice on this and your other threads and your responses will only of blew your chances on here of anyone talking you seriously. I will however wish you luck so not to come across as a bully | |||
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"I can help you start divorce proceedings." Interesting is op being offered legal services or a sneaky blowjob? | |||
"Iam a bored husband in a sexless marriage can anyone help me i am a nice guy
I understand that you feel that way, the thing is your wife may feel exactly the same.
You need to find a way of putting the spark back or changing things one way or another"totally agree,try to establish communication with wife,TALK ,try and do something nice for her and maybe surprise her with something really sentimental and a bot soppy ,(they love that lol),and sit down and tell her in a calm manner how your feeling, really hope it works out, Try and salvage | |||
"Sexless marriage eh? Try looking at things from your wife’s point of view. Instead of being selfish and cheating, try to work out what went wrong in the first place. Make an effort for her. I’m speaking from personal experience, I was in the same situation and I cheated. We ended splitting up and it ruined my life. I’ve never forgiven myself. Try to find out why she became uninterested. " exactly the same but 22 years ,she had affair, but no blame, I was an arse,split ,and devastated, if the loves gone on one side its pointless, I'm single now for three years and would give anything to have my family back ,but life deals out some harsh lessons .do you love your wife? And does she love you ?, | |||
