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"No. You can not judge everyone the same just because you encountered a few rude people somewhere."
I think you can in a way as what seems rude to you isn't to them. Take the Dutch? They are incredibly rude and direct by British standards same as the Flemish. But I like that because you always know where you are with them. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not at all, I find some people are rude regardless of where they're from, and some people from the same place are the polar opposite.
There's a lot made of the "friendly" North and "cold" South (particularly London) and yet I've known plenty of rude northerners and plenty of warm and welcoming southerners - it's the person that matters regardless of their geography. |
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"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people "
Do people automatically become rude if they move there ?
Do people maintain their rudeness after moving elsewhere ? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"No. You can not judge everyone the same just because you encountered a few rude people somewhere.
I think you can in a way as what seems rude to you isn't to them. Take the Dutch? They are incredibly rude and direct by British standards same as the Flemish. But I like that because you always know where you are with them."
Have never found Dutch people as a whole to be rude or direct, quite the opposite to be honest.
Same with French or German people, who are often cited as being rude or arrogant - it all comes down to stereotypes ultimately and I prefer to take people as I find them for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. You can not judge everyone the same just because you encountered a few rude people somewhere.
I think you can in a way as what seems rude to you isn't to them. Take the Dutch? They are incredibly rude and direct by British standards same as the Flemish. But I like that because you always know where you are with them.
Have never found Dutch people as a whole to be rude or direct, quite the opposite to be honest.
Same with French or German people, who are often cited as being rude or arrogant - it all comes down to stereotypes ultimately and I prefer to take people as I find them for myself"
Precisely all this ^^^ |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people "
All in a suspiciously close vicinity to Warwick......
How do you rate those from Warwick on the rudeness scale?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people
Do people automatically become rude if they move there ?
Do people maintain their rudeness after moving elsewhere ?"
No idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it extremely rude that the people I want to meet are geographically distant. Does that count?
I think it's rude that you've not sent me any boobies lately  
To be fair, that is rude. Hang on....  "
Apology accepted mwah  such gorgeous boobies  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people
All in a suspiciously close vicinity to Warwick......
How do you rate those from Warwick on the rudeness scale?
Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people
All in a suspiciously close vicinity to Warwick......
How do you rate those from Warwick on the rudeness scale?
A
Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
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Ah. So this isn't a generic complaint about everyone in those areas - more a response based on interactions you've had with specific people in those locations?
That clears it up. Thanks.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I find it extremely rude that the people I want to meet are geographically distant. Does that count?
I think it's rude that you've not sent me any boobies lately
To be fair, that is rude. Hang on....
Apology accepted mwah such gorgeous boobies "
Aww you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people
All in a suspiciously close vicinity to Warwick......
How do you rate those from Warwick on the rudeness scale?
A
Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
Ah. So this isn't a generic complaint about everyone in those areas - more a response based on interactions you've had with specific people in those locations?
That clears it up. Thanks.
Maybe add Somerset to my list
Read the OP
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Do you find that people from certain areas are ruder than others ?
Stafford
Coventry
Telford
Shocking people
All in a suspiciously close vicinity to Warwick......
How do you rate those from Warwick on the rudeness scale?
A
Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
Ah. So this isn't a generic complaint about everyone in those areas - more a response based on interactions you've had with specific people in those locations?
That clears it up. Thanks.
Maybe add Somerset to my list
Read the OP
A"
I read the OP thanks.
Feel free to add Somerset. If you're basing your feelings on rudeness on individuals that you've had contact with and there's a distinct pattern emerging then it may not be a geographical issue.
Have a nice day.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
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Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
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Ah, now we're getting somewhere - your sweeping geographical generalisations are based on your interactions (or lack of) with people you've messaged (and either received a reply or not and I'm guessing not) on here that show as local to you?
Can you perhaps provide more detail as to why you think they're rude or what they have done (or not) for you to draw that conclusion? |
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"No. You can not judge everyone the same just because you encountered a few rude people somewhere.
I think you can in a way as what seems rude to you isn't to them. Take the Dutch? They are incredibly rude and direct by British standards same as the Flemish. But I like that because you always know where you are with them.
Have never found Dutch people as a whole to be rude or direct, quite the opposite to be honest.
Same with French or German people, who are often cited as being rude or arrogant - it all comes down to stereotypes ultimately and I prefer to take people as I find them for myself"
Well I work with dutch and flemish people on a daily basis and they are well aware of their reputation and are proud of it. So maybe you need to meet more of them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Firstly
Stafford is miles away
Secondly
I can only speak for people who appear on my search as they are ‘local’ to me
Ah, now we're getting somewhere - your sweeping geographical generalisations are based on your interactions (or lack of) with people you've messaged (and either received a reply or not and I'm guessing not) on here that show as local to you?
Can you perhaps provide more detail as to why you think they're rude or what they have done (or not) for you to draw that conclusion?"
Oh you are so classic in your forum it’s ways
Stay home stay safe don’t bore others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do yes and sadly it’s religiously motivated I have to say but the Welsh people are amazing 
As are those Derry girls.
A prime example "
Londonderry, yeooo
#controversial |
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