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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When I was in my twenties I distinctly remember thinking sex was alright but sport and beer were at a similar level  and it would be a dilemma if there was a choice.
So basically what I'm saying is since I hit the mid forties my sex drive has increased massively!
What the bloody hell is going on, shouldn't it be the other way round? Anyone else in a similar position?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say from being 36 to being 43/44 I was a bit of a bugger
My sex drive has really slowed down now, but still creeps up and surprises me from time to time
I still have very fond memories to smirk at in my head and I regret none of it
Well, maybe the guy with the fish tanks, but that's a story for another time |
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"When I was in my twenties I distinctly remember thinking sex was alright but sport and beer were at a similar level and it would be a dilemma if there was a choice.
So basically what I'm saying is since I hit the mid forties my sex drive has increased massively!
What the bloody hell is going on, shouldn't it be the other way round? Anyone else in a similar position?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the lockdown and all that and after spending a long time with someone who would use sex as a weapon, Im not bothered about it at the moment. Don’t get me wrong I love having sex and all things associated but the drive isn’t there right now. I’m nearly 40 so it will probably come back, probably need to meet someone who makes me feel alive again. |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Mine has Increased think it's different for women though! More freedom from having children etc., x"
Exactly this. More confidence, more independent children... and getting divorced  |
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Not at all randy in the morning, that’s been a thing for quite some time now. It takes most of the day to get to feeling turned on properly now, then I drift off to sleep before I do anything about it |
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"Your on a swingers site.
If your sex drive or desire had gone, you wouldn’t be here."
I'm here and I've no sex drive or desire.
I did when I arrived here many moons ago, but at this point in my life I don't. I'm not just gonna leave and not contribute to the forums (because I enjoy doing that) or take pics (because I enjoy expressing myself that way and enjoy that too)
I join in on threads that are relevant to me. I suppose I'm like the person who holds everyone's bags for them while they go on a fairground ride.
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Many many years without sex have conditioned my sex drive. It has no muscle memory and rarely anticipates but it is readily available when the moment requires it.
I've seen threads and status updates since March about people being horny and frustrated but in my mind it's just a minor blip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was in my twenties I distinctly remember thinking sex was alright but sport and beer were at a similar level and it would be a dilemma if there was a choice.
So basically what I'm saying is since I hit the mid forties my sex drive has increased massively!
What the bloody hell is going on, shouldn't it be the other way round? Anyone else in a similar position?
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I think being more happier with yourself as you mature has a lot to do with the increase in drive. I know mine has increased as the years have gone on. I’m dreading when it gives up - put me in a padded cell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sex drive was impacted upon during my 20's and 30's by marriage problems, 8 years of fertility treatment, raising children and my chosen career path.
But since my late 30's and definitely my 40's my life is much more settled, my relationship is heavenly, my career is successful and my kids are happy, healthy and almost independent of me.
This has all contributed to me giving myself time to focus on myself, to make healthier lifestyle choices, to try sports and enjoy a zest for life. That brings me self confidence and with that sexual desires and an appetite for sexual fulfillment.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your on a swingers site.
If your sex drive or desire had gone, you wouldn’t be here.
I'm here and I've no sex drive or desire.
I did when I arrived here many moons ago, but at this point in my life I don't. I'm not just gonna leave and not contribute to the forums (because I enjoy doing that) or take pics (because I enjoy expressing myself that way and enjoy that too)
I join in on threads that are relevant to me. I suppose I'm like the person who holds everyone's bags for them while they go on a fairground ride.
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I hope one day you get your sex drive back and get on that ride! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely getting worse with age.
Everything I see or hear instantly turns to sexual connotations.
I was walking the dog yesterday and a bus went past with an advert on the side for Subway. It had a picture of a footlong sandwich and simply said
"Sub of the day"
Instantly I started thinking about BDSM sex with Subs and Doms
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm definitely getting worse with age.
Everything I see or hear instantly turns to sexual connotations.
I was walking the dog yesterday and a bus went past with an advert on the side for Subway. It had a picture of a footlong sandwich and simply said
"Sub of the day"
Instantly I started thinking about BDSM sex with Subs and Doms
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The new Jamie Cullum, Hang Your Lights, has a line 'put yourself at the top of my tree' - I keep imagining being the fairy on top of a penis.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine has always been strong however over the last 10 years I’ve learned to switch it on and off, so I can manage long periods of celibacy. I coped less well with enforced celibacy when I was younger. |
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