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"I have heard this before on fab and in the real. Tell a girl your married and sometimes she wants to fuck you more lol" Why do I never get invited to these parties !! | |||
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"I have heard this before on fab and in the real. Tell a girl your married and sometimes she wants to fuck you more lol" Clue in the username, I think!  | |||
"Pulls up chair. This looks interesting. "Ive just opened popcorn too | |||
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"I did have this quite badly a while ago.. not so much anymore haha " That’s a shame.... | |||
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"I did have this quite badly a while ago.. not so much anymore haha That’s a shame...." Oh yeah?  | |||
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"Married men in a sexless marriage are great lovers. I love doing the things your wife wont "Same | |||
"I invite you to have a read of my profile in the hope you'll understand the damage it could cause. I ain't here to piss on your parade, but to remind you there's a human cost " Xxxl | |||
"I invite you to have a read of my profile in the hope you'll understand the damage it could cause. I ain't here to piss on your parade, but to remind you there's a human cost "  | |||
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"We would but your profile is blocked babe ????" Here's the bit: I won't bullshit, I ain't that kind of person and lies make me sick so here's the crack. I'm 5 months out of a relationship with a guy I met on here who I thought was the one, the love of my life, the ying to my yang.... you get the drift. Well, that's gone tits up and I'm a single pringle again. Whoop de fucking doo. It's left it's mark as you can probably already tell, so I won't be emotionally investing in people again. I'm not apologising for that. My heart has been busted like a fly hitting a windshield by a formula 1 car at top speed and I'm not prepared to open myself up to that kind of torture again. Well, this is a swinging site so let's talk a bit about that. Trust. The single most important thing someone can give you, their trust. There are many ways it can be broken or abused but know this.... When someones trust gets abused it strips their confidence. A part of them dies. They question why they were so stupid, they question their worth, because surely if they had any worth whatsoever then they wouldn't have been taken for a cunt right? Sure they will "get over it" but it won't leave them completely. It will impact them in the future, they will remain guarded, they may never properly trust again. How would you feel if you broke someones hope, spirit and realised that your actions will probably change their future and how they experience life from that point forward. Think about it. Cruel really isn't it. Whether it's from saying you're a non smoker when really you ticked that box with a fag in your mouth to saying you're single when you're not, they all amount to the same thing, breaking someones faith in humanity. Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul. | |||
"We would but your profile is blocked babe ???? Here's the bit: I won't bullshit, I ain't that kind of person and lies make me sick so here's the crack. I'm 5 months out of a relationship with a guy I met on here who I thought was the one, the love of my life, the ying to my yang.... you get the drift. Well, that's gone tits up and I'm a single pringle again. Whoop de fucking doo. It's left it's mark as you can probably already tell, so I won't be emotionally investing in people again. I'm not apologising for that. My heart has been busted like a fly hitting a windshield by a formula 1 car at top speed and I'm not prepared to open myself up to that kind of torture again. Well, this is a swinging site so let's talk a bit about that. Trust. The single most important thing someone can give you, their trust. There are many ways it can be broken or abused but know this.... When someones trust gets abused it strips their confidence. A part of them dies. They question why they were so stupid, they question their worth, because surely if they had any worth whatsoever then they wouldn't have been taken for a cunt right? Sure they will "get over it" but it won't leave them completely. It will impact them in the future, they will remain guarded, they may never properly trust again. How would you feel if you broke someones hope, spirit and realised that your actions will probably change their future and how they experience life from that point forward. Think about it. Cruel really isn't it. Whether it's from saying you're a non smoker when really you ticked that box with a fag in your mouth to saying you're single when you're not, they all amount to the same thing, breaking someones faith in humanity. Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul." To put it into context that may be relatable. Before I came here I was in a relationship for 11 years, my ex was abusive but the thing that hurt me most was being cheated on and lied to. I was here for a few years and then I met the man I refer to in my profile text. The guy I met, he told me he was single. We were together almost 2 years, had a couples profile, went to socials, clubs, he had a key to my house, had met my son. He was my everything. Until lockdown part one. That's when I learned he wasn't single at all, and his wife still took her vows as seriously as the day she made them. I can't ever seeing me trust again now. My future is one where I spend the rest of it alone, because I simply cannot face yet another heartbreak. The parts they played have condemned me to that. They have broken my faith. I don't trust myself not to be taken for a cunt again, so safer not to put myself in a position where it may happen. | |||
"I invite you to have a read of my profile in the hope you'll understand the damage it could cause. I ain't here to piss on your parade, but to remind you there's a human cost " I just read this (Ms Grimm) I feel ya. The dr and I will only play with specific people, my husband did it to me and it was awful. | |||
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"Sorry to hear that. My take is that if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat. I am sure they have all got their reasons but the guy I am seeing has got a massive anal kink which his wife won't give him. However I can't get enough of it so he might as well play with me rather than anyone else or pay for it. " We call all make excuses or reasons, tis your conscience not mine. | |||
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"I have heard this before on fab and in the real. Tell a girl your married and sometimes she wants to fuck you more lol Why do I never get invited to these parties !!" I was never invited either, i found out after i was single | |||
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"Pursuing someone that’s married or attached isn’t my thing. I don’t rate people that cheat very highly and if someone knowingly goes with an attached person they go into the same category as the cheater. " Yes exactly! Ive said to attached men who ask to meet I wont ! They say why its them that's cheating i say yes but by me meeting u i would b playing a part in the deception! I wont do that to another woman x | |||
"Yes exactly! Ive said to attached men who ask to meet I wont ! They say why its them that's cheating i say yes but by me meeting u i would b playing a part in the deception! I wont do that to another woman x" As a feminist, I'm a little wary of your approach. I've heard women call this "girl code". But you know, just like the bikini or burkha, it's just the kind of crap (in my view) that men put out to control women. I've had a wife phone me from his phone... After I explained he had "Single" on his profile. It's not my business to check as I don't really believe in marriage and it is not my contract. He is in breech of contract with you, why are you having a pop at me? Respect and trust in any relationship is important ... Not a piece of paper that God says how I must behave... | |||
"Yes exactly! Ive said to attached men who ask to meet I wont ! They say why its them that's cheating i say yes but by me meeting u i would b playing a part in the deception! I wont do that to another woman x As a feminist, I'm a little wary of your approach. I've heard women call this "girl code". But you know, just like the bikini or burkha, it's just the kind of crap (in my view) that men put out to control women. I've had a wife phone me from his phone... After I explained he had "Single" on his profile. It's not my business to check as I don't really believe in marriage and it is not my contract. He is in breech of contract with you, why are you having a pop at me? Respect and trust in any relationship is important ... Not a piece of paper that God says how I must behave..." I would expect to have a pop made at me if I knowingly met an attached person! Would b no more than i deserved! Nothing to do with peice of paper! And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x | |||
"And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x" Well, I am from Malaysia and the friends I know say the hijab is not their preference but they get harassed by Muslims if they don't wear it. Can't you see how this is controlling women? | |||
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"And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x Well, I am from Malaysia and the friends I know say the hijab is not their preference but they get harassed by Muslims if they don't wear it. Can't you see how this is controlling women?" Who ever said the burka is not a form of control knows absolutely nothing about the burka, the reason behind the burka, why it is *forced* upon women and why islam condones this forcefull act. PM for details on womens rights atrocities and the burka. | |||
"I wouldn’t know. I can’t accom, they can’t accom so no experience there to be held "Club, you say? When all this is over, you say? See you there.....   | |||
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"And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x Well, I am from Malaysia and the friends I know say the hijab is not their preference but they get harassed by Muslims if they don't wear it. Can't you see how this is controlling women? Who ever said the burka is not a form of control knows absolutely nothing about the burka, the reason behind the burka, why it is *forced* upon women and why islam condones this forcefull act. PM for details on womens rights atrocities and the burka." Yes of course some are forced to wear a burka same as some women are not allowed to wear a bikini! That's just control! X | |||
"Has anyone one else got a kink for married men? I feel bad but there is something so naughty about it and they are always the best fucks. " I wish you lived around the corner from me. | |||
"And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x Well, I am from Malaysia and the friends I know say the hijab is not their preference but they get harassed by Muslims if they don't wear it. Can't you see how this is controlling women? Who ever said the burka is not a form of control knows absolutely nothing about the burka, the reason behind the burka, why it is *forced* upon women and why islam condones this forcefull act. PM for details on womens rights atrocities and the burka. Yes of course some are forced to wear a burka same as some women are not allowed to wear a bikini! That's just control! X" Its not some are forced. Its all are demanded to wear it, only some have the freedom of choice and many if not most do not so they are literally forced to wear it. | |||
"And the burka is not control think u find most females that wear them choose to do so x Well, I am from Malaysia and the friends I know say the hijab is not their preference but they get harassed by Muslims if they don't wear it. Can't you see how this is controlling women? Who ever said the burka is not a form of control knows absolutely nothing about the burka, the reason behind the burka, why it is *forced* upon women and why islam condones this forcefull act. PM for details on womens rights atrocities and the burka. Yes of course some are forced to wear a burka same as some women are not allowed to wear a bikini! That's just control! X Its not some are forced. Its all are demanded to wear it, only some have the freedom of choice and many if not most do not so they are literally forced to wear it." Think u find d not x | |||
"I have. The forbidden fruit and all that..." Would imagine you taste as good as any fruit x | |||
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"We would but your profile is blocked babe ???? Here's the bit: I won't bullshit, I ain't that kind of person and lies make me sick so here's the crack. I'm 5 months out of a relationship with a guy I met on here who I thought was the one, the love of my life, the ying to my yang.... you get the drift. Well, that's gone tits up and I'm a single pringle again. Whoop de fucking doo. It's left it's mark as you can probably already tell, so I won't be emotionally investing in people again. I'm not apologising for that. My heart has been busted like a fly hitting a windshield by a formula 1 car at top speed and I'm not prepared to open myself up to that kind of torture again. Well, this is a swinging site so let's talk a bit about that. Trust. The single most important thing someone can give you, their trust. There are many ways it can be broken or abused but know this.... When someones trust gets abused it strips their confidence. A part of them dies. They question why they were so stupid, they question their worth, because surely if they had any worth whatsoever then they wouldn't have been taken for a cunt right? Sure they will "get over it" but it won't leave them completely. It will impact them in the future, they will remain guarded, they may never properly trust again. How would you feel if you broke someones hope, spirit and realised that your actions will probably change their future and how they experience life from that point forward. Think about it. Cruel really isn't it. Whether it's from saying you're a non smoker when really you ticked that box with a fag in your mouth to saying you're single when you're not, they all amount to the same thing, breaking someones faith in humanity. Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul." | |||
So no attached men are not an "ambition" of mine | |||
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"I think we can all have an opinion on this one, however I’ve tried to be less judgemental and think ‘walk a mile’. " I've had married men beg me to meet during my work time, risking my professional integrity only because they can only meet weekday daytimes. So walking a mile in their shoes, I make arrangements taking time off work ... Then on the day, their wife changes plan and so he can't meet ... I am not judging you... I can't give a flying fuck about your contract with your wife. It's the constant duck-and-dive and last minute changes, or going AWOL after making arrangements... Yep, walked more than a few miles and it's still crap! | |||
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"I think we can all have an opinion on this one, however I’ve tried to be less judgemental and think ‘walk a mile’. I've had married men beg me to meet during my work time, risking my professional integrity only because they can only meet weekday daytimes. So walking a mile in their shoes, I make arrangements taking time off work ... Then on the day, their wife changes plan and so he can't meet ... I am not judging you... I can't give a flying fuck about your contract with your wife. It's the constant duck-and-dive and last minute changes, or going AWOL after making arrangements... Yep, walked more than a few miles and it's still crap!" I never said I was married | |||
"I never said I was married "Haha I'm sure you won't even if you were! Ok this is Fab so we need to take these things with a massive pinch of salt but it just makes planning logistics easier if you're not attached. Married or GF ... Same thing. I call it the WAG Curfew...! Pppfffttt! | |||
"I never said I was married
Haha I'm sure you won't even if you were!
Ok this is Fab so we need to take these things with a massive pinch of salt but it just makes planning logistics easier if you're not attached.
Married or GF ... Same thing.
I call it the WAG Curfew...!
Pppfffttt!"No, I would and have the disclaimer in my profile. | |||
"We would but your profile is blocked babe ???? Here's the bit: I won't bullshit, I ain't that kind of person and lies make me sick so here's the crack. I'm 5 months out of a relationship with a guy I met on here who I thought was the one, the love of my life, the ying to my yang.... you get the drift. Well, that's gone tits up and I'm a single pringle again. Whoop de fucking doo. It's left it's mark as you can probably already tell, so I won't be emotionally investing in people again. I'm not apologising for that. My heart has been busted like a fly hitting a windshield by a formula 1 car at top speed and I'm not prepared to open myself up to that kind of torture again. Well, this is a swinging site so let's talk a bit about that. Trust. The single most important thing someone can give you, their trust. There are many ways it can be broken or abused but know this.... When someones trust gets abused it strips their confidence. A part of them dies. They question why they were so stupid, they question their worth, because surely if they had any worth whatsoever then they wouldn't have been taken for a cunt right? Sure they will "get over it" but it won't leave them completely. It will impact them in the future, they will remain guarded, they may never properly trust again. How would you feel if you broke someones hope, spirit and realised that your actions will probably change their future and how they experience life from that point forward. Think about it. Cruel really isn't it. Whether it's from saying you're a non smoker when really you ticked that box with a fag in your mouth to saying you're single when you're not, they all amount to the same thing, breaking someones faith in humanity. Don't be that person. And just because you know people do it and get away with it doesn't make it fucking right. Be proud to be a good human, not proud you got away with something that could hurt someones soul." How about when ending a relationship would cause more pain than just occasionally having sex with someone else ? Asking for a friend.... | |||
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