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By *..First OP Man
over a year ago
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Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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and what are the criteria for being deserving of praise? |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
and what are the criteria for being deserving of praise?"
Apparently there's even criteria for having self worth! |
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over a year ago
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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Whereas you stand out like a beacon of light and goodness in the gloom, how dare women get above their station and enjoy the attention of finally having the upper hand to men in something, careful dude you’re entitlement is starting to show. |
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Jamie Hants is very deserving of praise. She’s a good egg and her humour is wildly underrated.
She doesn’t answer messages, and sometimes she doesn’t understand instructions on threads but she tries her best.
Equally, _..first is deserving of no praise. |
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"Jamie Hants is very deserving of praise. She’s a good egg and her humour is wildly underrated.
She doesn’t answer messages, and sometimes she doesn’t understand instructions on threads but she tries her best.
Equally, _..first is deserving of no praise. "
You’re in my top 5 of good eggs, free range, obviously. |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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You go first then?? |
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"Jamie Hants is very deserving of praise. She’s a good egg and her humour is wildly underrated.
She doesn’t answer messages, and sometimes she doesn’t understand instructions on threads but she tries her best.
Equally, _..first is deserving of no praise.
You’re in my top 5 of good eggs, free range, obviously. "
Thank you!
I’m occasionally scrambled, but I am a good egg. |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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I really don’t think anyone should seek self worth on a swinging site. |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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Good luck mate, I can’t see this ending well! |
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"Jamie Hants is very deserving of praise. She’s a good egg and her humour is wildly underrated.
She doesn’t answer messages, and sometimes she doesn’t understand instructions on threads but she tries her best.
Equally, _..first is deserving of no praise. "
You had me in the first sentence, not gonna lie  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Men only struggle if they're unable to communicate. The numbers mean nothing.
Of course if they're butt fuck ugly it won't boost their chances but anyone can be successful on here regardless of age, gender or any other factor.
It's nothing to do with 'finding your dignity'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would seen stating what one requires is deemed as ugly!
So what your saying is because we (women) are here we are equally as desperate as those rude, uneducated, entitled knuckle draggers who constantly use the term " its a sex site "
Excuse me for having a standard that I do require men to meet.
I'll not hold my breath on being named!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
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Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would seen stating what one requires is deemed as ugly!
So what your saying is because we (women) are here we are equally as desperate as those rude, uneducated, entitled knuckle draggers who constantly use the term " its a sex site "
Excuse me for having a standard that I do require men to meet.
I'll not hold my breath on being named!
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Exactly this.
But this is a sex site....or so we've been told by untold men we reject.
Fuck me, that's where we've been going wrong. Lads, form an orderly queue and we will do our best to work our way through you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my... I have no words  .... Who are you to decide who is worthy or not? Was there a survey to find out objectively who is Ugley inside and out or is it just based on your opinion? |
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend . "
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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Well aren’t you a barrel of laughs!   |
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"What? Wait! Hang on a minute!
There are women in here? Why did I not know this before? Who let them in? Is nothing sacred ffs 
We are EVERYWHERE!! "
I know ..my friend list and hotlist is full of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Op be like, I’ll just start this thread and nip out to the shops and stock up with Lilt and Monster Munch. Wonder how my thread is going, probably a few comments by now, do I need kitchen roll, was I all out, ah I’ll pick some up anyhow. Reckon everyone will be in agreement with me, yep, echo chamber me thinks, ah crap forgot my mask. |
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People can be cunts regardless of gender or looks.
Having self worth is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, in fact, more people should dig deeper inside themselves and own who they are, accept who they are.
Self importance on the other hand, I think that's perhaps what you meant. Fact is, you can't expect people to behave as though they aren't important because everyone is to someone. Everyone is important in their own way.
You sound rather bitter OP
You have zero idea what's happened in people's lives to lead them to where they are today, and negating peoples self worth is an insensitive and actually really quite nasty.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WTF is up with people today?
So much surface bitterness
I'm off to get coffee and biscuits and switch over to Bake Off for an hour
I hope things are friendlier when I return  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What? Wait! Hang on a minute!
There are women in here? Why did I not know this before? Who let them in? Is nothing sacred ffs
We are EVERYWHERE!! I know ..my friend list and hotlist is full of them "
I keep running into you today !! How's the Big Movement going ?  You guys still standing?
And I bet you do have a list ... SO can a Woman be on a hot list and a friend list at the same time ..... How on earth do you decide... I mean what if she's a Hot Friend ... I'm glad I'm not a Guy, I would be torn which list to put them on!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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OP you're nearly two weeks late...the traditional date for lighting the blue touch paper and running is 5th November...
...but don't be surprised if you end up on top of a bonfire anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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kirkwallgirl
Top lass, kind and helpful to me. Nothing going on, nor will there be, but she's a genuine pleasant lady.
Gents, don't be too pushy. Take a no, or no reply, with good grace. The ladies can pick and choose, that's just how it is, and pestering WILL NOT change a girl's mind.
Be kind. Be polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .
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Hey Sunshine .... you wanna leave this negative one and go spread some happy and positive thoughts?CATCH you in the forums !! We do make a good positivity Team you Know |
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .
Hey Sunshine .... you wanna leave this negative one and go spread some happy and positive thoughts?CATCH you in the forums !! We do make a good positivity Team you Know"
Stalking you guys right now |
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Well thank fuck the OP didn't chuck all of us delectable tv's and ts's into the mix to be named and shamed along with the rest of humanity.
I dont think I could cope with all the adoration to be quite Frank......well im not Frank as that name simply wouldn't suit me at all.
(Flounces out of the thread to go and be a glamourpuss elsewhere) |
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"Well thank fuck the OP didn't chuck all of us delectable tv's and ts's into the mix to be named and shamed along with the rest of humanity.
I dont think I could cope with all the adoration to be quite Frank......well im not Frank as that name simply wouldn't suit me at all.
(Flounces out of the thread to go and be a glamourpuss elsewhere) "
You guys are welcome anywhere in this forum. And just an fyi, i think your glamorous here and anywhere else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .
Hey Sunshine .... you wanna leave this negative one and go spread some happy and positive thoughts?CATCH you in the forums !! We do make a good positivity Team you Know
Stalking you guys right now "
Yep I just saw that . It's actually just me !!
And if I could pick a stalker you are #1 you're harmless.... OR ARE YOU ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like because you don't like a particular woman, or maybe visually attracted to them, you assume other men won't aswell?
Hmmm, funny, I actually thought human beings had their own minds and likes |
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .
Hey Sunshine .... you wanna leave this negative one and go spread some happy and positive thoughts?CATCH you in the forums !! We do make a good positivity Team you Know
Stalking you guys right now
Yep I just saw that . It's actually just me !!
And if I could pick a stalker you are #1 you're harmless.... OR ARE YOU ... "
It really depends on who you ask
Some might say im a cuddly panda
And some forget that a panda is still a bear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are too many to name lol
A couple in Birmingham and another in alabama being my favourites.
I dont judge the lads either, had a great few chats with them too lol
All i can say is, chill with the hype and respect goes a long way xox
Right back at ya !! The feeling is mutual my Friend .
Hey Sunshine .... you wanna leave this negative one and go spread some happy and positive thoughts?CATCH you in the forums !! We do make a good positivity Team you Know
Stalking you guys right now
Yep I just saw that . It's actually just me !!
And if I could pick a stalker you are #1 you're harmless.... OR ARE YOU ...
It really depends on who you ask
Some might say im a cuddly panda
And some forget that a panda is still a bear "
I Panda Bear's they are my Favorite!! And true , I would instantly forget it was a bear.If I could hug one!!! |
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It really depends on who you ask
Some might say im a cuddly panda
And some forget that a panda is still a bear
I Panda Bear's they are my Favorite!! And true , I would instantly forget it was a bear.If I could hug one!!! "
I can do both, and i can do it on command
Be cuddly or be vicious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really depends on who you ask
Some might say im a cuddly panda
And some forget that a panda is still a bear
I Panda Bear's they are my Favorite!! And true , I would instantly forget it was a bear.If I could hug one!!!
I can do both, and i can do it on command
Be cuddly or be vicious "
I like my Panda Bear to be a little of both . You better quit commenting on this thread . Were gonna get in trouble . That happened the other day. |
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By *..First OP Man
over a year ago
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
and what are the criteria for being deserving of praise?"
Absolutely your call, provided you felt mutual respect |
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By *..First OP Man
over a year ago
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
Good luck mate, I can’t see this ending well!"
Never expected it to, but from the responses you can clearly see who to avoid... |
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By *..First OP Man
over a year ago
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"I looked at your profile op..
" I think I am decent looking, I think my conversation is funny and intelligent and hope you are the same".
Nothing like a bit of self adulation
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I am sorry, have you read your own FFS? |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
Good luck mate, I can’t see this ending well!
Never expected it to, but from the responses you can clearly see who to avoid..."
Me please! |
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
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I've read this several times....are you advising guys to name ladies who only they think are deserving of praise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Outnumbered 1000 to 1, they have a disproportionate view of self worth. With some objectivity look at how desperate some guys are in the chat rooms and how undeserving the recipients are.
Guys name the ladies you know who are gracious and deserving of praise.
Similarly, give some advice to the guys who are kissing the arses of people who are frankly ugly both inside and out.
I've read this several times....are you advising guys to name ladies who only they think are deserving of praise? "
Reading it once was 10 minutes of my life I will never get back.
Still it reminded me why I like my dogs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's never going to change really is it. Boys will be boys. Done just have a bit of class and other feel like it's their good given right to speak to women any way they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't believe this thread has been knocking about for 2 days and I've only just noticed it  crikey...
Welp, don't think anyone really kisses my ass so maybe I'm undeserving of the ass kissing by default? Naming and shaming myself over here |
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"Can't believe this thread has been knocking about for 2 days and I've only just noticed it crikey...
Welp, don't think anyone really kisses my ass so maybe I'm undeserving of the ass kissing by default? Naming and shaming myself over here "
I'd say that's definitely an ass worth kissing, no need for shaming |
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"Can't believe this thread has been knocking about for 2 days and I've only just noticed it crikey...
Welp, don't think anyone really kisses my ass so maybe I'm undeserving of the ass kissing by default? Naming and shaming myself over here
I'd say that's definitely an ass worth kissing, no need for shaming "
Ha well let me be gracious and deserving of your praise by thanking you kindly for the gentle kiss upon my ass |
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"Can't believe this thread has been knocking about for 2 days and I've only just noticed it crikey...
Welp, don't think anyone really kisses my ass so maybe I'm undeserving of the ass kissing by default? Naming and shaming myself over here
I'd say that's definitely an ass worth kissing, no need for shaming
Ha well let me be gracious and deserving of your praise by thanking you kindly for the gentle kiss upon my ass "
My pleasure, just the kissing of it is reward enough and hope there's many more on it x |
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"I looked at your profile op..
" I think I am decent looking, I think my conversation is funny and intelligent and hope you are the same".
Nothing like a bit of self adulation
I am sorry, have you read your own FFS?"
I have,,,, after all I wrote it and if you can't see the difference between.... I think I'm decent looking and I think I'm funny in comparison to me saying I have a cheeky sense of humour. Nor do I mention anything about how I look
Seems you need to pull your head from up your own backside |
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