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He would try & use it against me to get full custody of our kids.
Jealous also. We dabbled years ago when we were together. Went to La Boudoir once. He couldnt get a hard on. Found out he was/is on viagra practically our entire 18yr relationship but never told me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think or even say about you if he knew you were on this site?  "
Both my ex husbands wouldn't believe it and would probably be horrified!! Would love to tell them just to see the look on their faces!! 
My ex partner is still on here somewhere...  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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Actually I should have phrased it differently - I should have asked "What would your former partner think or say if he/ she knew" - apologies, the question is, of course, open to everybody.
I am asking because I recently told a very good friend of mine, who did not know and is rather straight laced. His response was disbelief and probably shock and he said that "people will judge you if they know"
For me that means that he probably judges me for it but tbh it does not bother me as it is my life and my decision.We are still good friends anyway. |
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Ex husband I couldn’t give a fuck what he thought about anything to be honest.
First long term fwb (5 years together) I met on another site however he always made comments about meets I had even thought he was a swinger long before me 
Last long term partner I also met on another site and he also had a profile here too so he was pretty cool about it all   |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Doubt he’d care. He’s married to someone else now and a lot of water has floated under that bridge. He’d probably want to check I’m not entertaining strange men under the same roof as his kids, which is understandable. I’d be the same. |
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Several of mine would probably horrified but not overly surprised
The most recent one would probably be intrigued and interested, but miffed that I was here as a single. I did want to go to clubs with her, not necessarily to play with others but to show off and be exhibitionists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have thought she'd be shocked and appalled as she was quite prudish and really wasn't keen on sex for the last few years we were together.
However.... I've since found she was seeing another bloke, cheating, and talking via sex chat groups to numerous fellas. So she obviously wasn't as boring as I thought and so can't judge me if she does find out! Lol |
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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago
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"Depends which former partner. My last ond is dead and he knew i was here. My ex husband wouldnt be the least surprised i certainly wouldnt be surprised if i found him here"
Yep my last one is dead too. But before he became ill we dipped our toe into the swingimg world for a few months. After 6 mths i decided to get back into it at clubs. Few yrs down the line met del..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends which former partner. My last ond is dead and he knew i was here. My ex husband wouldnt be the least surprised i certainly wouldnt be surprised if i found him here"
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met my current partner on here, been monogamous for 2 years until I suggested threesomes mff, now have a couple account. My ex would say "why the hell didnt we do this" |
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I've never been married, but ma last g/f knew that I was on here, we even toyed with the idea of setting up a couple's profile, but sadly that never happened as she got cold feet. I doubt it would come as any great surprise to any of ma previous long term partners if I'm honest |
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