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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

Does it matter to most people?

Or is it more of a connection thing for you?

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By *torm in a G cupWoman over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I do like guys to be my height or taller generally, but have been attracted to and fucked guys a little shorter than me.

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By *otsolittlesecretWoman over a year ago

prestatyn

"Does it matter to most people?

Or is it more of a connection thing for you?"

To some it matters. But not to all. I'm not into tall men and I'm strange apparently lol

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By *unmatt888Man over a year ago

Duns

I don't date females taller than me, but that's because at 6'6" the females taller than me are female giraffes and that's (a) illegal and (b) would get me banned from Longleat for life.

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

It matters very much to me. I prefer someone 6ft and over.

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By *imbobaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"It matters very much to me. I prefer someone 6ft and over."

Aww I’m 5’ 11” and a half. Give a guy a beak bluebell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couldn't be with a man smaller than me. So many men lie about their height

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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"Couldn't be with a man smaller than me. So many men lie about their height

I don't see the point in lying about it. It'll be obvious face to face.

I'm 5ft 6 and 1/2.

No point in lying about that haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's the point? They lie about age, I can understand, if it's only a few years but height? How were they planning to disguise that if they manage to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly I think some actually believe they're taller than they are. It's quite ridiculous

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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"Honestly I think some actually believe they're taller than they are. It's quite ridiculous "

They're stupid.

I only know my height for a fact because I measure myself to prove what I say is true, the people I know typically mock me so... Hahahha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't be with a man smaller than me. So many men lie about their height

I don't see the point in lying about it. It'll be obvious face to face.

I'm 5ft 6 and 1/2.

No point in lying about that haha"

Ahh, my brother, we shorties think alike. Obviously, we must have other assets of quality that make height less relevant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When someone mocks me for my height for no reason except to inflate their ego, I simply tell them that i don't mock those who can't help the assets they've been given, such as a low IQ.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's difficult not to be taller than me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In SE Asia, they have a chili called a chili padi. It's burns like the devils pitchfork!!! Small but deadly. Don't mess with a chili padi.

You're a little chili padi.

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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

5ft 3 isn't that short!

I know of smaller women than that, and quite a few at that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the guy to be taller than me but I’m 5’3 so most guys are taller than me anyway!

Had such a crush on a guy I worked with for over 2 years and think he was 5’8 or 5’9. He was still taller than me when I was wearing heels.

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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"I like the guy to be taller than me but I’m 5’3 so most guys are taller than me anyway!

Had such a crush on a guy I worked with for over 2 years and think he was 5’8 or 5’9. He was still taller than me when I was wearing heels. "

I'n jealous of that guys height lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"5ft 3 isn't that short!

I know of smaller women than that, and quite a few at that!"

Yes I'm actually the tallest girl in my family, my mother is like 4ft bless her

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By *iscreteSte OP Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"5ft 3 isn't that short!

I know of smaller women than that, and quite a few at that!

Yes I'm actually the tallest girl in my family, my mother is like 4ft bless her"

Told you it ain’t that short haha

And bless her indeed

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman over a year ago

Midlothian

Height doesn't matter a jot to me, personally. I don't really understand it when people have a height attraction limit, how a few inches can totally put you off someone. Tbh it just feeds into stereotypes that piss me off; men feeling inadequate if women are taller than them, because women should be petite weak flowers, or women hating on short guys because 'real men' are tall like alpha protectors. Hard eye roll.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Personally, meeting a taller man is nicer but not a must.

I've met shorter men as long as they are fit.

As an asian (south east asia), we were brought up with the believe that we are small and weak and europeans are tall and strong. I'm rather surprised when I first arrived in Uk/Europe, that many are not as tall as I used to think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't meet people more than 6ft tall.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think, to a degree, there's quite a bit of bandwagon attraction on this site

Over the years, an image of a perfect guy and a perfect meet has been established and that is the standard that most guys should look towards

In reality, very few do

Most get by on good luck, charm, good humour, personality and carefully crafted images

I also think if you listen to majority verdicts on the forums you set yourself up to fail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Short stature didn't do billionaire Bennie Eccleston any harm!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only 5'6 but I find it works well. Many newer couples like to keep the dynamic of their male being the Alpha and able to protect the Mrs if it all goes tits up. So a couple with a 5'10" male subconsciously look for a shorter male for MFM.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does it matter to most people?

Or is it more of a connection thing for you?"

In my experience it's matters to the majority of people but not everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is part of the fantasy for some women. I’m 5’9” and although it has automatically put me outside the bracket for some women, it wasn’t always a deal breaker with those with ‘tall’ preferences.

In a couple of occasions it got overlooked

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By *uzie69xTV/TS over a year ago

Maidstone

"In SE Asia, they have a chili called a chili padi. It's burns like the devils pitchfork!!! Small but deadly. Don't mess with a chili padi.

You're a little chili padi."

Haha that's Malay so specifically Malaysia, Singapore and Indonesia...

Yeah, Asian men are smaller so I'm used to shorter guys, tho I'm only 165cm (5'4" old money) meself.

I used to *LIMIT* myself to guys 5'7" or taller on account of the fact I love heels and he'll still got to be taller than I am.

But I've met and now totally in love with a guy who is same height as me! And we really do see eye-to-eye on many things in life!

Oh and my feet are thanking me for spending more time in flats...! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybody is taller than me so hight is not really something I worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It matters very much to me. I prefer someone 6ft and over."
bugger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm about 5ft7, but if find it's not a problem, some 4inch moonboots with some bellbottem jeans always does the trick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer taller than 6ft, but it’s not a deal breaker if they aren’t that tall. I’d struggle with someone shorter than me though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My husband and I are pretty much the same height and it works well physically. It’s nice being face to face whilst stood up, everything matches up all of the time actually wherever we are.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Short stature didn't do billionaire Bennie Eccleston any harm!"

So, Debbie McGee, what was it that first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?

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By *ovestolickclitsMan over a year ago

Lancashire

Am 6ft 3 so majority of women are shorter than me and if she wasn't then it wouldn't be a deal breaker at all...

Dated women of varying heights and all about the person

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By *obajxMan over a year ago

Cheshire

Most get by on good luck, charm, good humour, personality and carefully crafted images

None of those ever worked for me and neither has being well over 6ft in height

My successes always seems to involve a big hammer and gaffer tape

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By *irewolffMan over a year ago

Dublin

Yes. Height is important. I wouldnt be with a guy shorter than myself.

MsD

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By *uzie69xTV/TS over a year ago

Maidstone

"My husband and I are pretty much the same height and it works well physically. It’s nice being face to face whilst stood up, everything matches up all of the time actually wherever we are.

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Height doesn't bother me and I am 6ft

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't date females taller than me, but that's because at 6'6" the females taller than me are female giraffes and that's (a) illegal and (b) would get me banned from Longleat for life."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I struggle as I'm 6ft1 and seem to be a "midget magnet"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Height doesn't bother me tbh though I'm nearer 5ft11 and 6ft3 plus in heels! I'm a shortarse in my family ... a person's height isn't relative to whether they're nice or not, intelligent or not, attractive or not!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is taller me than me so having a preference would be pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Average male height in the UK is 5ft10

It is actually over 6ft in 2 or 3 countries worldwide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only 5"1' so everybody looks tall to me. Very tall is actually a bit intimidating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a taller man but I think it is down to my own insecurity about my size. I'm 5'9 and fat. When I've been with smaller men I worry about my body much more.

6'2 + is my kryptonite. That said some of my best experiences have been with guys shorter than me.

Clear as mud then.....

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

I'm 5'9. Luckily my usual type is shorter.

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By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

I'm 6'2 with K being 5'9.. we have noticed a trend of fairly short dudes on here! but it doesn't bother us at all, who cares about that? I get it, personal tastes etc.. but its not like somebody can change it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 6'2 with K being 5'9.. we have noticed a trend of fairly short dudes on here! but it doesn't bother us at all, who cares about that? I get it, personal tastes etc.. but its not like somebody can change it! "

I think this ^^^ it's really not anything anyone can change so a bit harsh to judged on it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm only 5"1' so everybody looks tall to me. Very tall is actually a bit intimidating

I’ve had this a few times.. I’m 6’7” And that often seems to put shorter ladies off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love tall guys so when I see that a guy is at least 6’1” that gets me excited! The taller the better for me haha

It’s a preference But I don’t discriminate, if you are fit you are fit so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'8 and I prefer a bit taller, like between 5'10 & 6'1. However irl I do find myself attracted to men who are around my height.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, it really matters.

Taller than me in heels = 5'10" minimum.

And all that BS about 'we're the same height lying down'.... it's a guaranteed delete from me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you have sex with someone who is 3ft tall?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must say I do find myself attracted to the taller man. I prefer men to be taller than myself. My husband is 6.4ft x

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By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Would you have sex with someone who is 3ft tall?"

assuming they are over 18 i'd float the idea! why not, could be a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you have sex with someone who is 3ft tall?

assuming they are over 18 i'd float the idea! why not, could be a laugh! "

A laugh!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think I'd go over 6ft again.

It's not true what they say at all ("we're all the same height lying down") and it really can make things awkward.

I didn't have the option to just walk over to my ex, stand on my tip toes and kiss him, nope, I could only do random kisses when he was sat down or if there was something for me to stand on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I struggle as I'm 6ft1 and seem to be a "midget magnet"

"
oi I'm shorter than you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Average male height in the UK is 5ft10

It is actually over 6ft in 2 or 3 countries worldwide"

At least I'm bigger than average in something at 6ft2

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

It does seem to matter for a lot of ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'8" but might as well round up to 6ft. That's how it works, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think this ^^^ it's really not anything anyone can change so a bit harsh to judged on it! "

If only this rule applied on the "big dick" threads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love taller men, not just taller than me (I am 4'11") but like 6'3"+.

It probably has a little to do with my personal kinks etc, and they are really handy when I can't reach things that are up high.

I've no problem with shorter guys and have dated people of all heights, but I am just a sucker for that height!! It is too easy to screen meticulously online, and have found that I am more open to conversations with a wider range of people in person - which is why socials and clubs were great before covid. So yes, height is important to me, but there is so much more to it.

Personal preference is just that, same as some guys won't go near a woman who is under a dress size 18, or has bigger tits than a D cup, why some prefer blondes and others prefer dark hair

Own your self, your height, your body and aesthetic and be confident that you are you. There is probably somebody out there knocking one out with you in mind.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like a connection and a bit of height to be honest

My partner is 6ft3.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Doesn’t bother me.

Not bothered if a guy is shorter than me. Might look odd to others but if he’s a funny, sexy, wonderful guy who treats me well then that’s far more more important to me than whether he towers over me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like guys over 6ft. Never met anyone shorter because I'm just not attracted to guys under 6ft

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By *uvhandle20Man over a year ago

SE London

I hope it doesn't matter too much, being a small guy myself.

But I am happy to meet women that are taller than me, even if I need to be careful not to stare at the breasts all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm only 5"1' so everybody looks tall to me. Very tall is actually a bit intimidating

I’m the same as I’m only tiny at 5ft

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

To be honest I never even realised it was a bigger deal until internet dating became popular.

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By *irewolffMan over a year ago

Dublin

Short guys seemed to love being with me, despite towering over them in my heels at bout 6ft.

One of the reasons MrD was attracted to me. He is taller than me.

MsD

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height. "

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

Just making my usual appearance in any height thread to inform everyone that I'm 6' 8", in the hopes that it works in my favour somehow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just making my usual appearance in any height thread to inform everyone that I'm 6' 8", in the hopes that it works in my favour somehow. "

You wouldn't qualify to be a RAF pilot. Too tall for the cockpit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just making my usual appearance in any height thread to inform everyone that I'm 6' 8", in the hopes that it works in my favour somehow. "

What sports do you play?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help."

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx"

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rightly or wrongly height is important to me!....its always one of the first things I look on here and on normal dating sites! I'm just more attracted to men 5'11 or over....I can't help it!! Fwb is 6ft and is the perfect height stood up and lying down!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there are any shortarse bi guys on this thread, I prefer guys under 5ft9

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless height makes a difference to you facial attractiveness or your attitude, then no, to me, height matters not and I am classed as tall for a woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

Be that as it may, then at least admit the true height before meeting and not surprise her once they meet. I can't imagine what would be more off-putting. If she likes you enough to agree to meet for a drink, surely it must say something about how she likes you beyond how tall you are.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

Thank you. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no? "

Hear, hear!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm quite small but never had any issues with it.

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By *ixen13Woman over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

"I'm only 5"1' so everybody looks tall to me. Very tall is actually a bit intimidating

I'm 5'1" too and prefer a guy below 6' but have been with taller, it does make snogging while standing more awkward though x

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I do like guys to be my height or taller generally, but have been attracted to and fucked guys a little shorter than me. "

This tbh.

If I’m going to a club with a chap - or an evening out somewhere ‘nice’ - then I wear heels - which make me nearly 6ft in height.

On those instances I’d prefer it if I’m not having to look right down to see the guy’s face - or snog the guy’s face! For that reason I tend to go for guys at least a little taller than me. Sorry if that comes across as shallow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone likes what they like and not really a problem for me if someone says ur not my type because I say the same to women

Height is as important as body shape is it not? Yes you need to hit the right vibe with someone but you also have to be sexually excited and that boils down to physical attraction too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no? "

It's not just your preference though is it?,

It is something that is covered time and again on these forums and it seems to be a preference for a lot of women

As the average height of a man in the UK is 5ft10, people insisting on 6ft+ are asking for above average men

That rules a hell of a lot of guys out

So, whilst I don't agree, I can see the temptation to be disingenuous, be it shorty bums or guys who are 5ft10 who pertain to be 6ft

For me, personally, I've never had an issue with being short - that coupled with a cheeky smile and disposition - certainly got me into more beds when I was younger than had I been 'average' height

Besides, I just view it as wasting my time chasing someone whose criteria I don't meet

I think meeting guys helps too though - they don't seem too arsed about the 6ft rule

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important"

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's one of those "tickboxes" that unfortunately affect men disproportionately compared to women. From my experience, most women prefer equal height or taller while for men this is not normally an issue. Is this unfair? Who's to say, it seems to come down more to preference rather than any kind of prejudice.

I'm 6"2 so fortunately i've not experienced this problem

I think when all is said and done, height is only a component of the overall package. Even if you have it, if you fail in other departments you won't have much luck either.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no?

It's not just your preference though is it?,

It is something that is covered time and again on these forums and it seems to be a preference for a lot of women

As the average height of a man in the UK is 5ft10, people insisting on 6ft+ are asking for above average men

That rules a hell of a lot of guys out

So, whilst I don't agree, I can see the temptation to be disingenuous, be it shorty bums or guys who are 5ft10 who pertain to be 6ft

For me, personally, I've never had an issue with being short - that coupled with a cheeky smile and disposition - certainly got me into more beds when I was younger than had I been 'average' height

Besides, I just view it as wasting my time chasing someone whose criteria I don't meet

I think meeting guys helps too though - they don't seem too arsed about the 6ft rule "

It IS my preference. I'm not sure why you feel the need to comment negatively to me. I'm not insisting guys be 6ft plus, just a good few inches taller than me. And it doesn't cause me any problems.

I'm fuller bodied/plus size/fat whatever label you want to give me, and I accept that I won't be for everyone. Just accept what you can't change. As you say, plenty out there for everbody.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I do like guys to be my height or taller generally, but have been attracted to and fucked guys a little shorter than me. "

Same here

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

I'm 6' 3", and I've been with both tall and short women

Makes no odds either way to me, as it's the person as a whole that interested in

But going by some of the other comments in this thread I should be attractive to at least some of the ladies here. Theoretically, at least....

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"It's one of those "tickboxes" that unfortunately affect men disproportionately compared to women. From my experience, most women prefer equal height or taller while for men this is not normally an issue. Is this unfair? Who's to say, it seems to come down more to preference rather than any kind of prejudice.

I'm 6"2 so fortunately i've not experienced this problem

I think when all is said and done, height is only a component of the overall package. Even if you have it, if you fail in other departments you won't have much luck either."

This is it really.

If you want a bloody great evening out with fantastic conversation followed by amazing sex - then if the guy is a couple of inches shorter than your general preference it shouldn’t really matter!

I think once a guy hits around the 30-35 age marker on fab, his personality becomes more important than his 6-pack!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!"

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If there are any shortarse bi guys on this thread, I prefer guys under 5ft9

Sorry I’m not under 5’9”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr PD is a short-arse and although he is perfect for me, his height can be a problem for him. On more than one occasion he has shied away from engaging with potential female playmates in clubs because of his height compared to theirs. -We all have our preferences as well as our hang-ups I guess...Mrs PDx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no?

It's not just your preference though is it?,

It is something that is covered time and again on these forums and it seems to be a preference for a lot of women

As the average height of a man in the UK is 5ft10, people insisting on 6ft+ are asking for above average men

That rules a hell of a lot of guys out

So, whilst I don't agree, I can see the temptation to be disingenuous, be it shorty bums or guys who are 5ft10 who pertain to be 6ft

For me, personally, I've never had an issue with being short - that coupled with a cheeky smile and disposition - certainly got me into more beds when I was younger than had I been 'average' height

Besides, I just view it as wasting my time chasing someone whose criteria I don't meet

I think meeting guys helps too though - they don't seem too arsed about the 6ft rule

It IS my preference. I'm not sure why you feel the need to comment negatively to me. I'm not insisting guys be 6ft plus, just a good few inches taller than me. And it doesn't cause me any problems.

I'm fuller bodied/plus size/fat whatever label you want to give me, and I accept that I won't be for everyone. Just accept what you can't change. As you say, plenty out there for everbody. "

Did you read it as being that he was commenting negatively to you? I didn't read it that way. I think he was offering his opinion. I could be wrong but I don't think he meant to offend you.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I'm 6' 3", and I've been with both tall and short women

Makes no odds either way to me, as it's the person as a whole that interested in

But going by some of the other comments in this thread I should be attractive to at least some of the ladies here. Theoretically, at least....

At our age I think personality- the ability to converse well on many topics and have a darned good giggle - becomes far more important than it did in our twenties, for instance!

And for this I am fucking grateful!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find most women prefer men over 6ft.

Thought most have no idea how high 6ft is. It's just an arbitary number that's easy to remember.

I'm 5ft9 and people are surprised when I tell them that. They seem to think I'm taller

My height's never been a problem in real life, just online for the above reason

I'm comfortable with my height, but I think people need to remember that you can't change your height.

That being said you can change your weight so there's no excuse lying about that

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"Mr PD is a short-arse and although he is perfect for me, his height can be a problem for him. On more than one occasion he has shied away from engaging with potential female playmates in clubs because of his height compared to theirs. -We all have our preferences as well as our hang-ups I guess...Mrs PDx"

5ft 7 isn’t particularly short?

If I’m really interested in a shorter guy in a club, you can tell because the heels come off and go in the locker!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

I can sort of see where women are coming from in some ways but it does suck if you're a guy and you're short. Literally sod all you can do about it.

On the flip side I know a lot of guys with a real thing for short girls.

Oddly enough we've had 1 no based on me being too big (me being the male at 6'). But each to their own and we're all attracted to what we're attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no?

It's not just your preference though is it?,

It is something that is covered time and again on these forums and it seems to be a preference for a lot of women

As the average height of a man in the UK is 5ft10, people insisting on 6ft+ are asking for above average men

That rules a hell of a lot of guys out

So, whilst I don't agree, I can see the temptation to be disingenuous, be it shorty bums or guys who are 5ft10 who pertain to be 6ft

For me, personally, I've never had an issue with being short - that coupled with a cheeky smile and disposition - certainly got me into more beds when I was younger than had I been 'average' height

Besides, I just view it as wasting my time chasing someone whose criteria I don't meet

I think meeting guys helps too though - they don't seem too arsed about the 6ft rule

It IS my preference. I'm not sure why you feel the need to comment negatively to me. I'm not insisting guys be 6ft plus, just a good few inches taller than me. And it doesn't cause me any problems.

I'm fuller bodied/plus size/fat whatever label you want to give me, and I accept that I won't be for everyone. Just accept what you can't change. As you say, plenty out there for everbody. "

I'm not doubting it's your preference

My comments & opinions weren't aimed you personally, so I apologise if my terminology made it come across that way

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I'm 6' 3", and I've been with both tall and short women

Makes no odds either way to me, as it's the person as a whole that interested in

But going by some of the other comments in this thread I should be attractive to at least some of the ladies here. Theoretically, at least....

At our age I think personality- the ability to converse well on many topics and have a darned good giggle - becomes far more important than it did in our twenties, for instance!

And for this I am fucking grateful!

There is that. Although I'm not convinced I should be relying on my personality, either. Mainly because I'm not always sure that I have one....

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I definitely like tall guys.

Or at the very least, a few inches taller than me - I'm 5'3" and a bit.

I once arranged to meet a guy in a pub. He said he was 5'4", so I wore flats. When I arrived, he was barely 5'1" and said if he'd told the truth I wouldn't have met him.

I know assume that any guy less than 5'8" egagerates their height.

No, not all do. I don't because I'm comfortable with it and it's not something I can help.

Good for you. But most shorter guys do lie....xx

Possibly because a lot of women regard shorter guys as swinging & sexual pariahs?

No, not sexual pariahs, just my preference. I also prefer guys to be truthful on their profiles.

I mean, you say your 5'4" when you're only 5" - you're just wasting everyone's time, no?

It's not just your preference though is it?,

It is something that is covered time and again on these forums and it seems to be a preference for a lot of women

As the average height of a man in the UK is 5ft10, people insisting on 6ft+ are asking for above average men

That rules a hell of a lot of guys out

So, whilst I don't agree, I can see the temptation to be disingenuous, be it shorty bums or guys who are 5ft10 who pertain to be 6ft

For me, personally, I've never had an issue with being short - that coupled with a cheeky smile and disposition - certainly got me into more beds when I was younger than had I been 'average' height

Besides, I just view it as wasting my time chasing someone whose criteria I don't meet

I think meeting guys helps too though - they don't seem too arsed about the 6ft rule

It IS my preference. I'm not sure why you feel the need to comment negatively to me. I'm not insisting guys be 6ft plus, just a good few inches taller than me. And it doesn't cause me any problems.

I'm fuller bodied/plus size/fat whatever label you want to give me, and I accept that I won't be for everyone. Just accept what you can't change. As you say, plenty out there for everbody.

I'm not doubting it's your preference

My comments & opinions weren't aimed you personally, so I apologise if my terminology made it come across that way

I'm sorry I took it that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me"

You said 5ft8 was your limit which is fine....i do think some women on here can get on there high horse (not meaning you by the way) and say no no height is important and I'd never meet you but they say it like the guy should be privileged to meet her and if he was tall enough he would meet her which is bollocks lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Oh - in the last 5 minutes I can’t view your profile.

Didn’t think I’d said anything contentious or upsetting - but apologies if I did!

Anyway - your choice who gets to view you - have a great day Ryan!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

That's why I commented. I'm really not that kind of woman.

And to be fair, I've not come across a lot of 5'1" guys since that experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh - in the last 5 minutes I can’t view your profile.

Didn’t think I’d said anything contentious or upsetting - but apologies if I did!

Anyway - your choice who gets to view you - have a great day Ryan!

Me??

I didn't take any offence at anything you wrote, didn't notice anything to be honest...don't know why you can't see my profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

That's why I commented. I'm really not that kind of woman.

And to be fair, I've not come across a lot of 5'1" guys since that experience

I'm confused what your talking about....who's 5ft 1 lol?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I need the men I meet to be taller than me - I feel massive enough

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

That's why I commented. I'm really not that kind of woman.

And to be fair, I've not come across a lot of 5'1" guys since that experience

I'm confused what your talking about....who's 5ft 1 lol?"

My initial post. I agreed to meet a guy who said he was 5'4". After turning up, in flats, he was barely 5'1" and thought it was acceptable to lie to get me to turn up.

Hence my wariness with "short" guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

That's why I commented. I'm really not that kind of woman.

And to be fair, I've not come across a lot of 5'1" guys since that experience

I'm confused what your talking about....who's 5ft 1 lol?

My initial post. I agreed to meet a guy who said he was 5'4". After turning up, in flats, he was barely 5'1" and thought it was acceptable to lie to get me to turn up.

Hence my wariness with "short" guys"

Wow fair enough....never seen that comment

I've had same experience with few socials were on the pics they look a lot slimmer and know obviously how to take a very good flattering pic...and then when you turn up they look nothing like there pics...also realise why they don't smile in there photos when you meet them and they open there mouth

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By *obajxMan over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm short but my best mate is 6ft4 but ugly as sin so is height that important

My mates are all varying heights. Which is ok, as I don't want to have sex with them

Haha neither do I but you get my point....I'm short but better looking than my mate so what you going to choose?!?!

As long as you ARE 5'8", I choose you

I don't meet your requirements as I'm too short but you aren't my type so we're even

Thanks for that

But I don't think I gave a height limit?? FYI 5'8" is totally acceptable to me

That's why I commented. I'm really not that kind of woman.

And to be fair, I've not come across a lot of 5'1" guys since that experience

I'm confused what your talking about....who's 5ft 1 lol?

My initial post. I agreed to meet a guy who said he was 5'4". After turning up, in flats, he was barely 5'1" and thought it was acceptable to lie to get me to turn up.

Hence my wariness with "short" guys

Wow fair enough....never seen that comment

Hahaha! That's why I tell people on my profile that I'm fat - my photos are from good angles!

But yes, we all have our preferences on here be it height, weight, sexual proclivity, or boob size!

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By *obajxMan over a year ago

Cheshire

"Oh - in the last 5 minutes I can’t view your profile.

Didn’t think I’d said anything contentious or upsetting - but apologies if I did!

Anyway - your choice who gets to view you - have a great day Ryan!

You owe me a cup of coffee, because I've just spat a mouthfull of mine back into the cup laughing at the story on your profile

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I do prefer taller men...5'11" plus. As other ladies have said, I like them to be at least as tall as me when I've got heels on...and I've got some pretty high heels

I still need to like their face, body, personality and attitude though, so it's just one of many things that needs to be right...and I'm not averse to bending my height preference if I like everything else (in fact, I'm more likely to bend on that than anything else)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

"I need the men I meet to be taller than me - I feel massive enough

You're perfectly fine as you are, and a damn good looking woman, but I get that the little voice inside your head might not agree as I have one myself....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes"

Do you often wear dresses?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?"

Obviously not

..why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?"

The dress size what a woman wears....thought that was pretty obvious myself

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I don't mind a man's height - I'm relatively tallish for a woman and I can't say a man being shorter than me has put me off before. It's more of a whole package thing and the confidence a man has that attracts me to him. I'm also not the sort to swoon over a man because he's 6ft plus - on somewhere like here you do see if a man is taller and moderately okay looking women swarm to him like...

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?"

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

The dress size what a woman wears....thought that was pretty obvious myself

But surely you need to take a woman's height into consideration with this...presuming you mean certain dress sizes pertaining to particular body shapes that is. A woman who is 4'11" and a size 14 will have a much different body shape and level of body fat to a woman who is 5"10 and a size 14, for example.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?"

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

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By *stroboy78Man over a year ago

Abergavenny

I never realised it was that much of a thing for women. I'm not the tallest person ever but I can see why its such a thing. I prefer shorter women, 5'5 and under so its only fair women prefer taller me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

The dress size what a woman wears....thought that was pretty obvious myself

I can see were your coming from but I'm just trying to make it so its mutual decision whether the two people want to meet or not and that its not just the womans decision just because the guy doesn't match up to a desired height

Me personally my preference is size 12 or lower and that is purely based on previous meets/partners

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By *agicmatt79Man over a year ago

northants

As a short arse at 5'3 these posts always make a good read.

Always used to find online it made a real difference in person not so much. Not helped by my aversion to being photographed!

Ive gone on dates with girls of all heights and im relaxed about it and its totally fair enough if it doesnt float anothers boat. We all have preferences even if its just for fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there."

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a short arse at 5'3 these posts always make a good read.

Always used to find online it made a real difference in person not so much. Not helped by my aversion to being photographed!

Ive gone on dates with girls of all heights and im relaxed about it and its totally fair enough if it doesnt float anothers boat. We all have preferences even if its just for fun x"

Yeah your right...women and men all have preferences and should all be equal in making that decision...I couldn't go out with a woman that was taller than me no matter what my height...so if I was 6ft she would have to be smaller than 6ft

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Being 6’5” never had any complaints about being short, however not all like the feeling of being towered over from experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There should be a height filter on the search...so when I'm searching I can put my height in and it only shows women that would consider meeting certain heights...it saves both parties lots of time...there should be plenty of different filters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes"

Not really.

You can lose or gain weight.

You can't change your height.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

"There should be a height filter on the search...so when I'm searching I can put my height in and it only shows women that would consider meeting certain heights...it saves both parties lots of time...there should be plenty of different filters"

But you just look at their profile first, surely? If they have a height preference, it'll be on there....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Not really.

You can lose or gain weight.

You can't change your height."

I'm on about the here and now....what do you want guys to do message a woman when she is a certain dress size and say if you lose weight drop me message p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you just look at their profile first, surely? If they have a height preference, it'll be on there....? "

..if I do a local search and 50 women show up but 25 of them wouldn't consider a guy under 5ft8 for example, I'd rather there be a filter so them 25 women don't show up saving me time reading there profiles to be told I'm not tall enough..saves everyone loads of time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People like what they like and you ain’t gonna change that so we all get on with life. Am on topic here at 6’ 4 and not everyone’s cup of tea but certainly not loosing any sleep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always platform boots

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot. "

I've not taken offence at all ...but it seems to be different when men mention different preferences...I do prefer slimmer women and some women prefer taller guys yet I'm getting persecuted for saying the same...this is why the forums are what they are , it all depends on who wrote the thread/post on what reaction the thread/post will get

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Not really.

You can lose or gain weight.

You can't change your height.

I'm on about the here and now....what do you want guys to do message a woman when she is a certain dress size and say if you lose weight drop me message p"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

Women are allowed to have preferences.

Men have to take any hole they get offered, but they will also get slated for taking any hole they get offered.

It's a load of shite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

Women are allowed to have preferences.

Men have to take any hole they get offered, but they will also get slated for taking any hole they get offered.

It's a load of shite. "

Exactly well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

But the equivalent would be a guy who also stated a preference for height. Like a guy who was over 6ft could say he would only consider meeting women over 5’9. A guy who was 5’9 could say he only wants to meet women under 5’4.

You’re saying women prefer taller guys and you prefer slimmer women. They’re not in the same category if you see what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with the flow life’s too short.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

But you just look at their profile first, surely? If they have a height preference, it'll be on there....?

So you're basically looking for any woman, then?

If I did a local search and 50 guys came up, I'd probably only be interested in say, 5 of them at first look. I'd then check their profile to ensure I fit their preferences.

I wish all guys did the same. THAT would save everyone time

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Extremities, like in anything, can prove tricky, otherwise I don't really consider height an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

You’re saying women prefer taller guys and you prefer slimmer women. They’re not in the same category if you see what I mean?

Yeah I see what you mean there both not preferences of height...but me personally I used dress size as an example as that is as important to me as height is important to women....I just don't get why I'm getting hostility due to a preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Not really.

You can lose or gain weight.

You can't change your height.

I'm on about the here and now....what do you want guys to do message a woman when she is a certain dress size and say if you lose weight drop me message p"

Oh no, I meant if someone feels as if their build is stopping them from meeting anyons then they can change that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But you just look at their profile first, surely? If they have a height preference, it'll be on there....?

So you're basically looking for any woman, then?

If I did a local search and 50 guys came up, I'd probably only be interested in say, 5 of them at first look. I'd then check their profile to ensure I fit their preferences.

I wish all guys did the same. THAT would save everyone time

No no no you don't get what I mean...basically saying I want filters so woman that aren't attracted to my height don't show up because what is point as I'm not what they desire, I would then look at there profile and pics and take it from there, I'm also the opposite to a lot of guys on here in that I wouldn't sleep with any women on here just to get my sick wet

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

But you just look at their profile first, surely? If they have a height preference, it'll be on there....?

So you're basically looking for any woman, then?

If I did a local search and 50 guys came up, I'd probably only be interested in say, 5 of them at first look. I'd then check their profile to ensure I fit their preferences.

I wish all guys did the same. THAT would save everyone time

Sorry for misunderstanding

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By *ublinGirl92Woman over a year ago

Hell

I'm pretty tiny (5'1"/155cm when I stand up straight) and I used to only really date tall guys. A lot of my exs are 6'4"+ but I found out in recent years that I'm much more comfortable with a guy around 5'6"/5'7".

I like holding hands comfortably, kissing without hurting my neck, and proper hugs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

You’re saying women prefer taller guys and you prefer slimmer women. They’re not in the same category if you see what I mean?

I’m not being hostile. Nothing you’ve said makes me feel excluded. I’m 5’3 and a size 8 so feel free to state your preferences.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

My Mr is only 5ft 7 and we as a couple have been turned down by a few girls on this basis

but it's 100% there preference and we respect that and don't take it to heart

after all at 33 I don't think he's going to grow anymore

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"You wouldn't qualify to be a RAF pilot. Too tall for the cockpit."

I've been too tall to be a pilot since I was twelve. Which is a shame, as prior to that a pilot was all I'd wanted to be.

"What sports do you play?"

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You wouldn't qualify to be a RAF pilot. Too tall for the cockpit.

I've been too tall to be a pilot since I was twelve. Which is a shame, as prior to that a pilot was all I'd wanted to be.

What sports do you play?

I don't."

That's a shame. Could have flown other non-combat aircraft in the RAF.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It matters to some. It doesn't matter to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose you could compare it too guys preference of dress size really....there are certain dress sizes i wouldn't consider because I have a preference of a range of dress sizes

Do you often wear dresses?

Obviously not

..why?

I think you've rather missed the joke there.

It wasn't funny pal so there was nothing to miss

Just seems like you’ve taken offence to people that have expressed a preference that doesn’t include you so you’re trying to strike back by saying well I only like slim women anyway.

Just for the record. A 5’8 guy is 5 whole inches taller than me so wouldn’t bother me one jot.

You’re saying women prefer taller guys and you prefer slimmer women. They’re not in the same category if you see what I mean?

I’m not being hostile. Nothing you’ve said makes me feel excluded. I’m 5’3 and a size 8 so feel free to state your preferences. "

Not you being hostile just in general ...nothing wrong with preferences just as to be accepted no matter which sex states it

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"That's a shame. Could have flown other non-combat aircraft in the RAF."

I'm also short-sighted, SHIT at maths, not a team player, and averse to taking orders from anyone who's not an attractive woman. And that was before I noticed all the blowing up poor brown people for having the sheer audacity to be poor, brown and near oil.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's a shame. Could have flown other non-combat aircraft in the RAF.

Ah, I see. Height was the least of your handicaps then.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"Oh - in the last 5 minutes I can’t view your profile.

Didn’t think I’d said anything contentious or upsetting - but apologies if I did!

Anyway - your choice who gets to view you - have a great day Ryan!

Me??

I didn't take any offence at anything you wrote, didn't notice anything to be honest...don't know why you can't see my profile"

No worries. As long as I’ve not offended you that’s fine!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's a shame. Could have flown other non-combat aircraft in the RAF.

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By *rownhotnessMan over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

I'm 6ft but my brother is 5 9ish but females make it very obvious on nights out height is a key thing

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ah, I see. Height was the least of your handicaps then."

I don't consider independence, thoughtfulness, a strong sense of right and wrong and a pronounced reluctance to murder anyone to be handicaps.

Still think aeroplanes are cool, though.

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