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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we talking about full pics of a woman on there own ?
Your profile picture is the example of what we are talking about "
Ok but do t people do the polite and ask if it’s ok first like I did lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Might be insecure and want to take the focus off them.
Might want to show off hot women they've slept with.
Might get off on people seeing them.
Personally I don't like them, but to each their own. I just avoid and move on. But no, I think a large of the women sadly aren't aware of how their pics are being used  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the woman knows and gives her permission then that’s ok, but I guess then she has no control of where the pictures end up, either by accident or getting hacked.
Besides if you are having great sex who has a hand free to take the pictures |
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Fab rules are that if you are a single man, then every picture must show some part of your own body, and if there is anybody else in the picture must have faces or any other identifiable parts (tattoos etc) hidden or obscured.
Similarly for single women or Tv/Ts.
For a couples profile, pictures must include some part of one or both of the couple, and anybody else in the picture unidentifiable same as above. It is sort of expected, but i don't think an actual rule, that on a couples profile there should be photos of both of you (kind of demonstrates that you are an actual couple).
It is allowed for you yourself to be identifiable, but that is completely your own choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"
I've wondered this too... I doubt alot of the women know they're pics are splattered all over Fab. |
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"Fab rules are that if you are a single man, then every picture must show some part of your own body, and if there is anybody else in the picture must have faces or any other identifiable parts (tattoos etc) hidden or obscured.
Similarly for single women or Tv/Ts.
For a couples profile, pictures must include some part of one or both of the couple, and anybody else in the picture unidentifiable same as above. It is sort of expected, but i don't think an actual rule, that on a couples profile there should be photos of both of you (kind of demonstrates that you are an actual couple).
It is allowed for you yourself to be identifiable, but that is completely your own choice. "
I wonder why they don’t get removed then? |
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This is a CLEAR red flag for us. if any single chap messages and he has pics of him with other ladies in that are either unblurred or they have ink showing etc.. we view it as a privacy violation and just nope them instantly.
They may well have permission! but its just a precaution from our end! |
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"One of tha ladies I met asked if I wanted to take pictures of her sucking me for my profile and I said no after all it's a single male profile  "
I'd have the pics as a memento of the occasion but not for use on my profile  |
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"If the woman knows and gives her permission then that’s ok, but I guess then she has no control of where the pictures end up, either by accident or getting hacked.
Besides if you are having great sex who has a hand free to take the pictures "
The people watching |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"
Why? Who knows? It could be because it's a really good picture and there's only a small amount of the lady in it. I've had my hand in guys pics with my permission. As long as they have permission and the rules are followed it's fine although personally I'm not keen on seeing a potential meet hanging out the back of someone else or action shots in general. It's preference though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr"
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query."
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr"
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst? |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Have pictures of naked women on their profiles? Do the ladies know they are on said profile?"
Yes, this? I’ve been wondering this a lot lately. And if I’m honest it’s not going to encourage me to converse with them. |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?"
Because its men bashing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?
Because its men bashing? "
He asked a question. That's not men bashing. 
And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?"
Because I'm fed up with threads that attack others for absolutely no reason. Why do we need a thread to create 'discussion' about other people's behaviour that has no bearing on us? That isn't discussion, it's gossip - and it's malicious. It feeds into a narrative that men are abusers of women. Now I know that this is true in some cases, and I know that there are men that use photos inappropriately (women too) but to imply all (or a majority) of men who have such pictures are somehow doing something illegal (which it is) is frankly wrong.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?
Because I'm fed up with threads that attack others for absolutely no reason. Why do we need a thread to create 'discussion' about other people's behaviour that has no bearing on us? That isn't discussion, it's gossip - and it's malicious. It feeds into a narrative that men are abusers of women. Now I know that this is true in some cases, and I know that there are men that use photos inappropriately (women too) but to imply all (or a majority) of men who have such pictures are somehow doing something illegal (which it is) is frankly wrong.
Mr"
He asked a question. There's a lot of inference from other people. Not from the OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?
Because its men bashing?
He asked a question. That's not men bashing.
And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed!"
And where is the evidence that anybody has done that? He (and you) have made the assumption that this is what is happening. That is why this is men bashing. The automatic assumption that a man posting a pic does not have permission but is breaking the law.
Why not ask the same of women? Couples? Plenty of them have pics of others - but no, once again it is men that are singled out 
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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"Why do you care OP? Why are there so many assuming the men involved are doing something wrong? Why does no one bother to question all the women and couples that have pics including others?
Men have a bad enough rap on here without stupid threads full of imagined outrage without the slightest shred of evidence that something wrong has even been done.
We all have preferences, personally neither of us particularly like a profile full of close up photos of genitals but we wouldn't dream of starting a thread to complain about those that do and certainly not one that singles out one particular sex when the issue is clearly prevalent in both.
Mr
It’s not that I care, its an observation and a query.
So you asked a question that you don't care about hearing the answer to? Seems a bit strange. There also was no observation, you asked two questions, why do men do it and do the women know. The only observation was your implied opinion that the women don't know.
What are you hoping to achieve with this thread?
Mr
Discussion surely. He has achieved that.
Why the angst?
Because its men bashing?
He asked a question. That's not men bashing.
And if he was, the question relates to revenge porn laws. So those men who are posting pics without consent should be bashed!"
If the header was...
Why do people?
I’d agree.
but it’s not... so I don’t.
It’s aimed specifically at men. The casual misandry of this place just bores the life out of me.
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