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All and any advice would be great, I know I have join this site at a really bad time but I’m respectful and would just love to chat and see what’s out there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nice one mate.
Welcome to the forums. For future reference, click 'reply and quote' so people know who you are responding to  "
Will do and thanks for the tip |
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I recommend some full-length photos of you. Selfies are very limiting and can't easily show the whole you. Get somebody else to take photos of you outdoors on a sunny day so you have the best light and a pleasant location.
Show how you might present yourself if somebody actually met you. Do photos in casual (not scruffy) and smart clothes for variety. Showing you take pride in your appearance is important to a lot of people. |
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"I recommend some full-length photos of you. Selfies are very limiting and can't easily show the whole you. Get somebody else to take photos of you outdoors on a sunny day so you have the best light and a pleasant location.
Show how you might present yourself if somebody actually met you. Do photos in casual (not scruffy) and smart clothes for variety. Showing you take pride in your appearance is important to a lot of people. "
That’s wicked I’ll get that sorted out thanks for that |
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Set your filters so that Men can’t message you. So you don’t need to highlight ‘straight’ on your profile.
The pictures are fine a good selection and face pictures will always be a bonus on a site with so many people hiding theirs.
The text is pretty much average on this site, the last sentence about oral echoes a lot of others guys on here, so don’t think that sets you apart from the majority.
Your pictures ultimately will be the difference though, the fact you’re showing your face is a from me.
Good luck Op
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Set your filters so that Men can’t message you. So you don’t need to highlight ‘straight’ on your profile.
The pictures are fine a good selection and face pictures will always be a bonus on a site with so many people hiding theirs.
The text is pretty much average on this site, the last sentence about oral echoes a lot of others guys on here, so don’t think that sets you apart from the majority.
Your pictures ultimately will be the difference though, the fact you’re showing your face is a from me.
Good luck Op
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Thanks for that I’ll look at that |
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Here's my general advice
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so.
Fab is a tiny part of the scene in reality. It can keep you informed about what's happening in the swinging world as far as socials, clubs, munches etc, but you're far better off making 'getting out there' effort when you're able to do so. I can't recommend becoming part of the community enough when it comes to making connections.
If your sole objective is sex, you'll probably have better "luck" on swipey apps, if it's to make friends, learn, expand and experience then yeah, fab is great." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Here's my general advice
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so.
Fab is a tiny part of the scene in reality. It can keep you informed about what's happening in the swinging world as far as socials, clubs, munches etc, but you're far better off making 'getting out there' effort when you're able to do so. I can't recommend becoming part of the community enough when it comes to making connections.
If your sole objective is sex, you'll probably have better "luck" on swipey apps, if it's to make friends, learn, expand and experience then yeah, fab is great.""
Thanks for that, I’m not just here for sex that’s just an added bonus, and I’m always me sometimes I say to much but I can’t help that
I really appreciate what you had to say thank you |
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