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You think you're so special!
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As for the nasty threads who are 'just asking' but really making a statement, well their IQ not need much discussion lol | |||
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 And it’s probably due to frustration , envy , jealousy, and possibly some arrogance thrown in too .
I’d let them wallow in their misery myself  | |||
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"Seen a status update about ppl thinking theyre something special on here Why do folk on here crack on at you for having a bit of self confidence?! Theres so many shaming threads and comments on here. It can be hard to be happy with yourself. So why add to that? Whats the remedy here folks? " Spread positivity where you can, be compassionate (but also forthright and strong in your convictions), and ask yourself if it's really worth engaging in the bad stuff. | |||
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"Oh and the remedy? Self acceptance, being able to sleep at night knowing you're not a bad cunt. Know you're own worth." Nail on the head and said so much more simply than I did | |||
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"I hate that too OP. Put it down to jealousy. I have a lot of friends and we all praise eachother daily. It's amazing being around people who boost you and cheer you on rather than pick holes in things they haven't got or can't do. "What if your friends didn't explicitly praise you? | |||
"Fine line between confidence and arrogance. Nothing wrong with confidence at all, it should be encouraged. Arrogant people are wankers tho tbh. " | |||
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"Seen a status update about ppl thinking theyre something special on here Why do folk on here crack on at you for having a bit of self confidence?! Theres so many shaming threads and comments on here. It can be hard to be happy with yourself. So why add to that? Whats the remedy here folks? " People posting nasty things are just bitter about being rejected 
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"Years ago I was a quiet shy person not really confident, but due to a breakdown in my marriage I hit rock bottom, nearly commited suicude, I couldn't have hit any lower down, it felt like I was crawling the gutters, with the support from talking to a counselling service, I bounced back out of the gutter, but I didnt stop where I was originally, I continued to bounce, that's when Samantha came out of her shell, she started going out for walks at night times til one night, a car pulled up alongside me a a male and woman asked if they could chat with me, so they pulled in to the side road, which happened to be where I lived, and they asked me questions, soon found out that they thought that I was a prostitute looking for business, when they asked for my name and address, that's when they showed me the warrant cards, 2 plain clothed police officers, so I gave them my real name, the male officer was gob-smacked, just stood there my mouth ajar, the wpc said it's not fair, she said that I have a better figure, walks in higher high heels than her, lovely make up, so I invited her round at some time, well I was so surprised that they considered me a woman because it was a cctv operator who had been watching me go for my walk which was about 2 miles in 4 inch high heel knee high block high heel boots and mini skirt and top, my confidence took a massive boost that night, since then I help other tgirls come out their shells, taking them to tgirl friendly bars and clubs and hotels etc and they are all slightly nervous at first, but as soon as they see how relaxed that I am, they soon start to relax and enjoy the night out. Then I was asked to do a make over for a newly found transvestite, she came round, got changed and then I did my bit in her transformation, she was so surprised in her new look, she asked for the list of products I used and asked about the techniques, soon I was getting more tgirls asking me to do their make up, other girls ask where do I get my heels and outfits because they go together so well. Makes me feel as if I am doing something right, which gives me a bigger boost in confidence." Love this!  | |||
"I’m the complete opposite. I don’t have self confidence anymore. Trying my upmost to find it though. " What happened? | |||
Hater hate, Taters tate, let them bang that pan | |||
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"Seen a status update about ppl thinking theyre something special on here Why do folk on here crack on at you for having a bit of self confidence?! Theres so many shaming threads and comments on here. It can be hard to be happy with yourself. So why add to that? Whats the remedy here folks? " It really comes down to if you are a person who likes brutal honesty or you want people to blow smoke up your ass..... Example: If you put I’m only looking for gym fit , white/black/asian people age 20-40 in your profile... someone will think you’re up your own ass... but in reality you are saving their time and yours..... | |||
"Seen a status update about ppl thinking theyre something special on here Why do folk on here crack on at you for having a bit of self confidence?! Theres so many shaming threads and comments on here. It can be hard to be happy with yourself. So why add to that? Whats the remedy here folks? It really comes down to if you are a person who likes brutal honesty or you want people to blow smoke up your ass..... Example: If you put I’m only looking for gym fit , white/black/asian people age 20-40 in your profile... someone will think you’re up your own ass... but in reality you are saving their time and yours..... " Thats exactly my thoughts, that way you're not wasting their time or mine by having to say thanks but no thanks | |||
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" It really comes down to if you are a person who likes brutal honesty or you want people to blow smoke up your ass..... Example: If you put I’m only looking for gym fit , white/black/asian people age 20-40 in your profile... someone will think you’re up your own ass... but in reality you are saving their time and yours..... Thats exactly my thoughts, that way you're not wasting their time or mine by having to say thanks but no thanks" Exactly this
I am aware that my profile is demanding but those “specifics” are what floats my boat .
Still most of my mailers , despite professing having read and found my profile interesting , are skinny 5’4 guys living in Glasgow that cannot accommodate, only looking for daytime weekday fun and don’t enclose a face photo 
I’m not saying that I “deserve” a 6’3 local hunks but that’s what I want and I’m happy to wait for them and abstain from Fab meets until I catch their attention .
After all if we want “randoms” .... in normal times a night out on the town would sort that out ... | |||
"I have self confidence until someone dislikes a whole race of people for no apparent reason other than they are actual cunts. " Why does them being a cunt affect your self confidence? | |||
