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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
Recently found someone I know by accident.
Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was.
I know the male half but not the female.
Female is hot!!
The mail was read
But now I don’t know if they know who I am or if they know that I know etc etc!!!
What is the fab etiquette?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If the female read and looked I have never met her - hence why I don’t know if a connection has been made.
If he saw it - he would obviously recognise as I recognised him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're here as a couple, it's likely he would be looking with her as well, unless you think she had already deleted you as unsuitable before showing the filtered candidates to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leave it alone
If they read it and didn't respond, they're not interested
Your privacy and discretion is as important as theirs
You're all grown ups doing grown up things
No one else needs to know
If you see the guy, don't mention it unless he does |
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"Leave it alone
If they read it and didn't respond, they're not interested
Your privacy and discretion is as important as theirs
You're all grown ups doing grown up things
No one else needs to know
If you see the guy, don't mention it unless he does "
Sound advice.
Pretend it never happened until you cant.
What happens on fab, stays on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Recently found someone I know by accident.
Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was.
I know the male half but not the female.
Female is hot!!
The mail was read
But now I don’t know if they know who I am or if they know that I know etc etc!!!
What is the fab etiquette??"
Guess you didn't send a face pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Recently found someone I know by accident.
Sent them a mail before I realised I knew who it was....
What is the fab etiquette??"
Be more careful before sending mail would be my advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys
Sound advice -
What happens on fab stays on fab!!
Difficult when it crosses into work life "
As someone said earlier, you have your face in your profile.
If you don't mind that they know who you are, which I would assume they already do and it's quite clear to them that you know who they are, and things will be awkward at work in this status quo, I would rather speak to him at work, tell him it was a mistake and block, if necessary. Reassure him that what you've seen here remains here and ask the same of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys
Sound advice -
What happens on fab stays on fab!!
Difficult when it crosses into work life "
How is it difficult?
Respect their right to privacy
What he does in his private life has zero to do with you, either personally or professionally
Don't make it your business |
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