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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had messages like that on here
With guy saying nice cock I said thanks he said do i want to fuck him i said I'm straight good luck with your search"
I just had a winker just now so blocked him before before he turned into one of my wankers lol |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s your last photo, showing a bit of leg. Believe me darling show some leg, them gays keep a calling "
Lol I don't mind them messaging it's when they don't take no for an answer and don't except I'm heterosexual |
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"It’s your last photo, showing a bit of leg. Believe me darling show some leg, them gays keep a calling
Lol I don't mind them messaging it's when they don't take no for an answer and don't except I'm heterosexual "
Again. Welcome to our world!
Set your filters so guys can't message you. Simple |
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"I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking "
Welcome to an insight of what women recieve constantly. I'm bombarded with this and worst on a daily basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had messages like that on here
With guy saying nice cock I said thanks he said do i want to fuck him i said I'm straight good luck with your search
I just had a winker just now so blocked him before before he turned into one of my wankers lol" that's rhym you just done |
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"It’s your last photo, showing a bit of leg. Believe me darling show some leg, them gays keep a calling
Lol I don't mind them messaging it's when they don't take no for an answer and don't except I'm heterosexual "
yup thats what men do and you end up being a b#@th for constantly blocking them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw"
I'll do that pronto as there was one who kept viewing my profile and he lived only a mile away and I did notice he had a massive cock I had nightmares all night |
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw"
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP) |
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP) "
Its how friends request work... if you don't decline, they can't ask again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sending you hugs Op
No one deserves to be treated that way.....
These bad straight/bi/bi curious men are giving the decent gay men on Fab a bad name.... |
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP)
Its how friends request work... if you don't decline, they can't ask again. "
Good to know. I'll keep that in mind when the requests come in |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP)
Its how friends request work... if you don't decline, they can't ask again.
Good to know. I'll keep that in mind when the requests come in "
Yep, if you wink someone and they dont delete it, you get a warning message if you try winking them again...try it...lets do some fab science experiments |
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP)
Its how friends request work... if you don't decline, they can't ask again.
Good to know. I'll keep that in mind when the requests come in
Yep, if you wink someone and they dont delete it, you get a warning message if you try winking them again...try it...lets do some fab science experiments "
I never delete my friend request and wink list but it's amazing how many men are on this site... only afew diamonds in this big black hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking "
If you dont want to receive messages like that go to your privacy settings and block them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that dear chap, is a mere glimpse into the life of a woman on fab.
Imagine that day in, day out.
Only way to stop it is by locking the shit out of your inbox and applying filters."
Precisely this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apply the filter to stop men messaging you
I think he rather likes the attention "
Lol I did say to one thanks for the compliment but if you look at my profile it states in straight and he was OK and said sorry.
It's been about half a dozen of them though that couldn't except what I was telling about being heterosexual.
So I can assure you someone tell me they love to deposit there jizz down my throat or over me is not the sort of attention I want lol |
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You may want to reiterate in your profile text that your 'straight straight', rather than 'Fab Straight' as there are plenty of guys out there who put down being straight when they are actually bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just block single men from messaging you then...and dont respond, otherwise they can keep on messaging until you block them...also winks, leave them there, they cant wink you again then either
Yw
Is that how winks work?
I never realised that... seems odd.
Do you know if there is any info about how all these things work, or do people just learn through trial and error and little tips on the forums?
(Sorry for going of topic OP)
Its how friends request work... if you don't decline, they can't ask again. "
Unfortunately they can send another friends request after a month has passed
I've been asking for this feature to be sorted for years on here, so that they can't resend after some time has passed. |
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By *ablo2483Man
over a year ago
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I am bi and the number of messages and fabs I get from 'straight' guys is verging on the ridiculous. I'm not saying you aren't straight, just that straight doesn't necessarily seem to mean straight on here. Try blocking single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am bi and the number of messages and fabs I get from 'straight' guys is verging on the ridiculous. I'm not saying you aren't straight, just that straight doesn't necessarily seem to mean straight on here. Try blocking single guys."
I was in a club once and overheard a conversation where a guy was telling another guy he was straight because he would only suck cock and snog another man.
I think straight means something different to some. |
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By *ablo2483Man
over a year ago
Wherever I can get my kit off |
"I am bi and the number of messages and fabs I get from 'straight' guys is verging on the ridiculous. I'm not saying you aren't straight, just that straight doesn't necessarily seem to mean straight on here. Try blocking single guys.
If you like cock, you ain't straight lol. Just be honest with yourself. I think a lot of guys are pretty insecure about the whole thing, or, they think they've got better chances on here.
I was in a club once and overheard a conversation where a guy was telling another guy he was straight because he would only suck cock and snog another man.
I think straight means something different to some. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iknow ive come in this chat late opp but how are you getting them if you have blocked single men. Also its the bi blokes that hide behind thd word straight as they think it will atract more couples that do it. |
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We get messages from people who clearly have not read our profile. As soon as we point this out they become either aggressive or think its us starting a conversation.
We now just delete unwanted messages if they do not meet what we are looking for... I.e. Guys over 6 foot, not 5ft11 or under...
Rant over haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm....block all men, no man will message you ever
Or do you want the compliments but just not the vulgar one?
I’m confused...it’s early
K"
I might have been a bit naive as I was not expecting to be approached by guy's if I stated I was straight
I didn't have a issue with the ones who excepted straight away I was straight
Was the odd few who when I pointed Out I was straight were still trying to explain what they wanted to do with me lol
Any way I've now blocked guy's from messaging me
Well I think I have ( famous last words ) |
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"I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking "
Hmmmmm. You seemed to have poured over their messages in quite some detail...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor? "
That's a very good spot I've had that picture a while and never noticed it
Let me explain in the process of taking the picture I moved the stool outside in front of the mirror so I could cock my leg .
I used the stool to put the toilet paper on as I broke the holder fitted on the wall so I must have just lobbed the paper on the floor.
But I'm going to delete this picture picture now thanks for pointing it out for me lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking
Hmmmmm. You seemed to have poured over their messages in quite some detail......"
I'm a detail sort of guy lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm proud of you now, OP "
Just tried to send you a message saying thanks but can't as your preference is for females
Wasn't trying to be crude with you in the inbox I tried to send lol I'd be a hypocrite than with the rant I had about some of the message I received lol
So I'll say thanks in the forum instead |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo "
Where's that that then as I've never been married before |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo "
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
Oh is it? Let's look again "
Lol I can just about cope with being in a relationship when I'm in one
So marriage me thinks not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
Oh is it? Let's look again
Lol I can just about cope with being in a relationship when I'm in one
So marriage me thinks not lol"
Haha no need to explain yourself to me. I ain't interested |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"It’s your last photo, showing a bit of leg. Believe me darling show some leg, them gays keep a calling
Lol I don't mind them messaging it's when they don't take no for an answer and don't except I'm heterosexual "
Why don’t you mind them messaging though if it’s just a waste of your time & theirs? Do you leave it open so forumites can contact you about a thread?
We have never had single men on our “wants” list but we still had to block them after six weeks of joining.
Just block them all & have done with it if you’ve no interest in meeting them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring! "
Thank you lol I haven't worn a ring since I was a teenager over 35 year's ago lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
Oh is it? Let's look again
Lol I can just about cope with being in a relationship when I'm in one
So marriage me thinks not lol
Haha no need to explain yourself to me. I ain't interested "
Lol just pointing out I'd never dream about getting married lol |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo "
That’ll be it! They all want anal fisting from OP’s six fingered hand!
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The blame does not lie entirely with gay guys when allegedly ‘straight’ guys decide that they are not so straight when it gets late and no women are interested. All of a sudden it becomes acceptable for straight guys to look at gay guys’ profiles. Maybe these guys are just saying ‘hello’ as they’ve noticed someone has looked at them.
Also you may want to understand the difference between ‘accept’ and ‘except’ as this could also cause confusion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s your last photo, showing a bit of leg. Believe me darling show some leg, them gays keep a calling
Lol I don't mind them messaging it's when they don't take no for an answer and don't except I'm heterosexual
Why don’t you mind them messaging though if it’s just a waste of your time & theirs? Do you leave it open so forumites can contact you about a thread?
We have never had single men on our “wants” list but we still had to block them after six weeks of joining.
Just block them all & have done with it if you’ve no interest in meeting them.
S" it's only recently the guys have got particularly thirsty I have not been on long and never been on a site like this before but now have taken the advice and blocked guy's from messaging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
That’ll be it! They all want anal fisting from OP’s six fingered hand!
S"
My god please don't give them any ideas that's all I need lol |
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring! "
My apologies if it’s not a ring but if you zoom in on the edge it looks like a band around the last finger. A lot of guys wear their rings on their little finger so he doesn’t necessarily need to have the 6th finger . |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring!
My apologies if it’s not a ring but if you zoom in on the edge it looks like a band around the last finger. A lot of guys wear their rings on their little finger so he doesn’t necessarily need to have the 6th finger . "
Agree it does look ring like, my six finger was obviously in jest, but out of interest I wonder which you’d put a wedding ring on if you did have six?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring!
My apologies if it’s not a ring but if you zoom in on the edge it looks like a band around the last finger. A lot of guys wear their rings on their little finger so he doesn’t necessarily need to have the 6th finger .
Agree it does look ring like, my six finger was obviously in jest, but out of interest I wonder which you’d put a wedding ring on if you did have six?
S"
No problem I just zoomed in and you are right it does but it's not though even if I was married I'd doubt I'd wear it as I don't like wearing rings I've not even tried a cock ring lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
I’ve examined that photo intently and I can’t see a wedding ring!
My apologies if it’s not a ring but if you zoom in on the edge it looks like a band around the last finger. A lot of guys wear their rings on their little finger so he doesn’t necessarily need to have the 6th finger .
Agree it does look ring like, my six finger was obviously in jest, but out of interest I wonder which you’d put a wedding ring on if you did have six?
S"
I'm counting now just to check |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have quite a few inboxes lately from homosexual guys.
I have no problem with homosexual men or anyone else's sexuality I say live and let live .
I don't have a problem messaging as I've messaged back and said thanks for the compliment but it says I'm straight on my profile.
But I've had about half a dozen now will still reply with a follow up
A few examples of the responses I've had
But I want to come down your throat
I love your cock fella and I'm sitting down now and wanking while I look at your picture
I know you are straight but I wish I could watch you fuck a lady and I can wank while you do it and come over your back
Most of them move on and leave me alone and I've had a few say sorry I didn't realize you were straight.
But as soon as I see a wink from one now I'm blocking " I get a few messages from people I just wouldn't want,but I am always polite in my reply,other than the young tyre kickers who get rude and nasty. |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"I think it's the way you cock your leg in the last pic
Is that a bog roll on the floor?
Also a wedding ring in that photo
That’ll be it! They all want anal fisting from OP’s six fingered hand!
S"
Inconthievable.
Inigo Montoya shall hear of this.
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