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over a year ago
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Rejection can be a right kick in the teeth but look at it this way it's their loss and it wasn't meant to be but I have gin and jaeger for such an occasion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)
...is an absolute bitch 
Where’s the wine  "
Yep it bloody is!! I've got a wine and gin here which I have already started on! Lol! Feel free to join me?!  |
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It can certainly sting.
I look at it this way, it IS a 2 way street and if you weren't right for them, then that means they, by default, weren't right for you.
1 way rodeo would be worse than the initial rejection |
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Ive been rejected way to many times and have grown some what of a thick skin to it.
But remembering the old days, it used to take me a few weeks to get my confidence back 
Dont worry about it too much OP, time heals xx |
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"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)
...is an absolute bitch
Where’s the wine
Yep it bloody is!! I've got a wine and gin here which I have already started on! Lol! Feel free to join me?! "
What Gin are you drinking? Can I be a gooseberry too this party? I’ll bring extra gin!
Grab an extra bottle tonight OP. Get a bar of chocolate and have a flick through the forums for a little buzz. |
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Sometimes out of the fires grows something great. My ex wife rejected me. The lowest point of my life. Totally crushing and totally unexpected. My world was shattered and I was completely devastated. The rug totally pulled from underneath me. Turns out once the smoke cleared and started build my sense of self again that she did me a huge favour. I am stronger, wiser and more self aware than ever. And finding Mrs Misfit I realised I could have more from a relationship than I ever dreamed was possible. A bond profoundly closer that I ever thought possible. It also helped me understand in a clear head space the faults with my ex, her manipulation, the faults with our relationship and my own faults. Her leaving me gave me new life and a future more brilliant than I could ever imagine. It has ended up the best hidden blessing for me. Don't think it worked out so well for my ex but I wish her well too.
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Also wines ok but I'm a great advocate of after a break up, go get laid. No strings. It was advise a good female friend of mines friend gave her. And it worked for me as a stepping stone to recovery. It really helps build you and helps you to remember after a rejection you are desirable and you can move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also wines ok but I'm a great advocate of after a break up, go get laid. No strings. It was advise a good female friend of mines friend gave her. And it worked for me as a stepping stone to recovery. It really helps build you and helps you to remember after a rejection you are desirable and you can move on."
I think that advice can also be self defeating, so it won't work for everyone |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Not on fab (although on here too I guess)
...is an absolute bitch
Where’s the wine "
I sometimes think maybe it was for the better in the long run. I can think of a few occasion when afterwards I felt, thank goodness I was not part of this situation.
Now go and have that glass - I ll have one with you - mine is a red. Well, maybe two....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely their loss...."
Please disregard this post.... I didn’t look at the profile... I thought it was a man posting.....
Now here is my true feelings.....
You can’t win them all.... just open up your filters , put a cool status message up , and enjoy your wine while the 1,000 ‘ s of messages roll in from guys who want you.....
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