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How are you finding the site?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s quite a common question to be asked but I rank it with the ‘can I ask you a question’ message.
Would you say how are you finding the site to a profile that states they’ve been a member longer than a year?
Sometimes I feel like saying well I’ve been here 9 years so if I didn’t like it I would’ve fucked off by now  but that would just be rude.
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It’s a bit unimaginative. I usually reply saying I’m just here harvesting organs and it’s going well. Mostly it results in a them finding it funny and makes the conversation a bit more fun, or I’ll get blocked. I’m happy with either outcome tbh |
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"It’s quite a common question to be asked but I rank it with the ‘can I ask you a question’ message.
Would you say how are you finding the site to a profile that states they’ve been a member longer than a year?
Sometimes I feel like saying well I’ve been here 9 years so if I didn’t like it I would’ve fucked off by now but that would just be rude.
Opinions on that type of message. "
Forget about all that - damn your main profile pic is amazing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a bit unimaginative. I usually reply saying I’m just here harvesting organs and it’s going well. Mostly it results in a them finding it funny and makes the conversation a bit more fun, or I’ll get blocked. I’m happy with either outcome tbh "
Hahaha I sent a guy I was chatting to a meme a few months back cos I thought it was funny and I got blocked. Well he wrote weirdo, them blocked me!
It’s my go to meme now, I’ll send it to guys and if they don’t think it’s funny I know we aren’t suited.
I’ll send it to you. |
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"People have been and are losing the ability to communicate and converse in a natural fashion.
They may as well be asking if you come here often or moaning about the weather."
Ahhh, us British. Where would we be without the weather to make conversation.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s quite a common question to be asked but I rank it with the ‘can I ask you a question’ message.
Would you say how are you finding the site to a profile that states they’ve been a member longer than a year?
Sometimes I feel like saying well I’ve been here 9 years so if I didn’t like it I would’ve fucked off by now but that would just be rude.
Opinions on that type of message. "
Nope...l wouldnt ask that question.but if they were here a very short while l would ask them are they glad they joined |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People have been and are losing the ability to communicate and converse in a natural fashion.
They may as well be asking if you come here often or moaning about the weather.
Ahhh, us British. Where would we be without the weather to make conversation.."
Could talk about bums |
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"It’s quite a common question to be asked but I rank it with the ‘can I ask you a question’ message.
Would you say how are you finding the site to a profile that states they’ve been a member longer than a year?
Sometimes I feel like saying well I’ve been here 9 years so if I didn’t like it I would’ve fucked off by now but that would just be rude.
Opinions on that type of message. "
I will tell them that i was going to swingers clubs before joining fab so know alot of folk on here. I will encourage them to attend large socials and chat on the forums so as to engage with people. Hopefully this will help them a bit as i am sure sending messages with no reply becomes tedious. |
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I think this question can be quite useful. Often guys will take it as an opportunity to whinge, which just isn’t appealing and then I can move on quickly
And then often it helps me to start getting a sense of the kinds of experiences people are looking for, whether they’re really into the scene or if they see it as a way of getting a quick shag, etc. People use the site in different ways and responses to this question can be quite telling. |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
Tbh I’d rather talk about bums too! ...but talking to someone new you don't really know what you're walking into. ”You having fun on here?” put in early doors to gauge react isn't a bad thing. I use it sometimes in first few messages before any flirting or anything's kicked off. Always depends what's coming back in your direction! |
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"Just another boring segway
Oooooo Segways are good fun though. Did an off-road Segway thingy years ago when I could still stand up
Thats on my list of dates to do  "
Tis was on a sexy weekend away to a hotel just outside Chester that has golf, archery, shooting, Segways and all sorts. We did afternoon tea, spa, rifle shooting, archery and Segway-ing around our sexy time over the weekend  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I just say “fine thanks” and ask how they’re finding it.
Not the most scintillating response for them I dare say but I sometimes imagine them having had a shit day and just want someone to reply to them. Just a bit of chit chat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get that message all the time! Usually from profiles that have just joined no veris or pictures then followed with them asking for pictures and videos of previous meets ... which I do not share x
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"It ranks up there on the laziness stakes with.
Hi, how are you? how is lockdown treating you? Wanna meet? Blah de fucking blah.....
J "
Yep we just instant delete any nonsense like that , then block if they message again, I am shocked some people bother replying |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I just say “fine thanks” and ask how they’re finding it.
Not the most scintillating response for them I dare say but I sometimes imagine them having had a shit day and just want someone to reply to them. Just a bit of chit chat.
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I often think that, not just on here, that when I really cannnot be bothered ... what state is that person at the other end in? I think since Caroline Flack committed suicide, a few people feel they dont want to be a person that by some small thing tipped somebody over the edge. |
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"It’s a bit unimaginative. I usually reply saying I’m just here harvesting organs and it’s going well. Mostly it results in a them finding it funny and makes the conversation a bit more fun, or I’ll get blocked. I’m happy with either outcome tbh "
When I get uninvited messages on kik I tell them I'm sharpening my flaying knives.
I could swap you a liver for a pair of kidneys if you're interested? |
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